Kumuntu, usuku lokuzalwa lwama-50 luyisenzakalo esibalulekile empilweni. Ngalesi sikhathi, abaningi baye baphumelela emisebenzini yabo, banezingane, abanye baze baba nabazukulu, kodwa iningi ligcwele amandla namandla, silwela ukufezwa okusha. Kulesi sikhumbuzo kuyisiko ukunikeza izinto ezibiza kakhulu, ezihloniphekile, eziphinde zibeke phansi isimo somuntu wokuzalwa. Yiqiniso, uma ukhetha isipho kumuntu iminyaka engama-50 kufanele ucatshangelwe:
- ngubani onomfana wokuzalwa, uhlobo luni lobuhlobo obunalo naye;
- uyahola kanjani;
- ukuzilibazisa;
- inani lemali ezobekwa ukuthenga.
Ungakhohlwa lapho ukhetha umqondo wesipho iminyaka engu-50 okulandelayo:
- hhayi ukunikeza amakati, izinja, ama-parrot nezinye izilwane, okungahle kube kuphela uma umuntu wokuzalwa ngokwakhe eveza isifiso sokuthola omunye wabo;
- Ngaleso sikhumbuzo, akudingekile ukwethula ama-sweaters, ama-sneakers, izingubo zangaphansi, kubalulekile ukukhetha izinto eziningi kakhulu;
- akudingeki ukuthenga amasethi wezimonyo zamadoda, ngoba kungcono ukuwashiya amaholide amancane;
- kungcono ukuyeka utshwala njengesipho kumyeni noma ubaba, ngaphandle uma beqoqa lezi ziphuzo, kodwa ibhodlela lewayini elibizayo noma i-cognac lingasetshenziswa njengokwazisa umuntu osebenza nabo noma abaphathi.
Isipho kubaba noma umyeni wami iminyaka engama-50
Uma usuku lokuzalwa luyisihlobo, khona-ke ukukhetha kuzoba nzima ngokwanele, futhi inkinga ngesipho papa ilula kakhulu. Phela, umdabu uyazi konke uJubile angaphupha ngakho:
- ifoni entsha, ithebhulethi, i-e-ncwadi;
- ukusetshenziswa komndeni, okudingwa ngumuntu wokuzalwa;
- iphakheji yeholide yeholide enkundleni yokuvakasha noma uhambo lokuvakasha;
- izesekeli emotweni kulabo abakhetha ukushayela;
- ukubuyisela kabusha ekuqoqweni kwabaqoqi;
- isithombe siyalwe kusuka enkosini enhle;
- izitifiketi zesipho esitolo sakho ozithandayo esinobuchwepheshe bomlando wezinsuku zokuzalwa.
Kumele futhi kukhunjulwe ukuthi lesi sikhumbuzo sonyaka sihlotshaniswa negolide. Ngakho-ke, kuyoba kufanelekile ukunikela ngomhlobiso obiza kakhulu kule nsimbi, isibonelo, amakhofflink for tie (uma usuku lokuzalwa lubopha), indandatho, ikethe elihle.
Isipho kuMphathi iminyaka engu-50
Uma iJubbe iyinhloko yebhizinisi, labo abangaphansi kwakhe kumele bamnike ngesipho esisodwa esivamile. Ukuzikhethela kumele kufakwe kuzo zonke izibopho. Ungenzi amaphutha alandelayo uma ukhetha isipho kumphathi wesilisa :
- ungazami ukuthola okuthile okuhambisana nokuzilibazisa komphathi, ngoba ngokuqinisekile ukhona kakade futhi ungeke ukwazi ukummangaza ngento ethile;
- le ndaba akufanele ibe yinto evamile.
Isipho esithakazelisayo iminyaka engu-50 somphathi singaba:
- ukuqoqa utshwala;
- izesekeli ezinezimpawu (izikhombi, idayari);
- isikhwama esikhwele;
- Imidlalo yebhodi ekhethekile (backgammon, checkers, chess);
- isitshalo esihle esingavamile esizohlobisa ihhovisi.
Izipho ezingavamile iminyaka engu-50
Njengoba amadoda asele minyaka ayesegcwele amandla namandla, ungabajabulisa ngokubingelela kwangempela, okuzosiza ukuvuselela imizwelo emihle nezinkumbulo. Isibonelo, ungacabanga ngezinketho ezilandelayo:
- isayithi e-Moon noma Mars (manje eyaziwayo, inkonzo ye-oda iyadingeka ezinkampanini ezikhethekile,
ngaphandle kwalokho, bakhiphe idokhumenti, futhi ingahle ihlotshwe kahle ukuze kuhanjiswe kahle); - kubalandeli bokuphumula okusebenzayo kungenzeka ukuba basebenzise isitifiketi sesipho sokugibela ama-quadrocycles, isifundo sokushayela okudlulele;
- i-mini-brewery yabathandi bebhiya.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa iJubane ukubaluleka kwakhe. Into eyinhloko ukuthi isipho siphinde sigcizelele ukuhlonipha umuntu wokuzalwa kanye nokuthi uyakwazisa. Masibe nesinye isizathu sokuziqhenya ngokwakhe.