Ezweni lakithi, uSuku LwaseValentine lugubha lwakamuva, kodwa seluvele luthandwa kakhulu. Futhi akumangazi, ngoba ngoFebruwari 14 - iholide ngezinhliziyo ezimbili zothando.
Umlando weSt. Valentine's Day
U-Valentine, owanikezela igama lakhe eholidini, wayehlala eRoma (ngekhulu lesi-3 AD) futhi wayengumpristi omncane, onesihawu, onomusa nozwela. Isikhathi sokuphila kukaValentine sasihambisana nokubusa kukaKlawudiyu II, umbusi waseRoma, owahlonipha umbutho wamabutho wezempi futhi akazange anikeze amaKristu imali enkulu. Ukuze alondoloze umoya wezempi, uClaudius II wakhipha isimemezelo esivimbela ukushada kwamabutho. Umbusi wakho wayekholelwa ukuthi umphathi wezinsizwa oshade kakhulu uchitha isikhathi esiningi emndenini futhi akacabangi ngobuqhawe bempi.
Engesabi ukufutheka kombuso, u-Valentin wenza ukuthula nokuxabana, wabanika izimbali futhi waqhubeka nokushada abathandi bakhe ngasese. Kwakungeke kwenzeke ukuyigcina imfihlo, usuku nosuku phezu kwekhanda lamafu wamapristi ayebuthene futhi ekupheleni kuka-269 AD. UValentine uboshwe. Ngokushesha ngemva kwalokho, isimemezelo sakhishwa ekukhishwe kompristi.
Izinsuku zokugcina zokuphila kukaValentine umpristi zigcwele umlando. Ngokweminye imithombo, wayethandwa yindodakazi eyimpumputhe yomgcini wejele. Umpristi, enikeza isifungo sokungathembeki, wayengenalo ilungelo lokumbuyisela emuva. Nokho, ngoFebhuwari 13, ngobusuku obandulela ukubulawa, ngabhala incwadi enomthelela entombazaneni. Ngokwezinye izinguqulo, u-Valentine, othanda uthando nokulindelwa kwentombazane enhle, esebenzisa ulwazi lwakhe lwezokwelapha, wamphulukisa.
Njengoba kwakunjalo, asikwazi, kodwa ngokuqinisekile umpristi osemusha wafa egameni Lothando. Ngakho-ke akumangalisi ukuthi abantu abazange bamkhohlwe ngaye futhi bakhetha umphathi wabathandi. U-Valentine, njengomfel 'ukholo ongumKristu, owahlupheka ngenxa yokholo, wahlonishwa iSonto LamaKatolika. Usuku lwe-Valentine eNtshonalanga Yurophu lugujwa kusukela ngekhulu le-13, iMelika - kusukela ngo-1777.
Yini ongayethula ngoSuku Luka-Valentine?
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ngoFebruwari 14, okudingekayo nganoma isiphi isipho kufanele sibe i-valentine ngamazwi amnandi nokuvuma kumuntu othandekayo. Ukunikeza omunye i-valentine sesivele isiko elihle. Amadoda anika izimbali, amaswidi namahlobiso. Abesifazane banika amadoda abo iphunga elimnandi, ibhodlela lewayini, amakhofflink nakho konke, okwanele kumnandi.
Izinhliziyo zingabhalwa, zikhonjiswe, ziphuphuthekiswe, ziboshwe futhi zibhakwe ngezandla zakhe. Izinto zokwenza izinhliziyo zingasetshenziswa ezahlukene: ubuhlalu, amagobolondo, izimbali ezomile, izimpaphe, izingcezu zendwangu, ubomvu.
Indlela yokugubha uSuku Luka-Valentine?
Abathandi bavame ukubuza ukuthi bangawugubha kanjani uSuku Lwase-Valentine, ngakho-ke leli holide lizokhunjulwa isikhathi eside ngobusuku obuthandana, obumnene obugcwele injabulo nothando.
Lolu suku lunamandla emilingo. Bonke abathandi balinda ngoFebhuwari 14 futhi, naphezu kwamaqhwa, la madoda ayaletha izimbali nezipho zabo. Kusihlwa, imibhangqwana ejabulayo, efihla ekuhloleni amehlo, ehlela i-candlelit dinner ku-cafe ethokomele. Ungagubha usuku lwabo bonke abathandi kanye nenkampani enomsindo. Khona-ke, kuyoba mnandi, kodwa iyophela
Uma ungafuni ukuya noma yikuphi emakhazeni noma nje unesifiso sokuchitha ubusuku bokuthula, ungahlala ekhaya. Hlela isidlo sangokwenyama ngewayini elibomvu, amakhandlela, uqalise esibhakabhakeni izibani-izinhliziyo. Ukwakha indawo yamaholide, ukuhlobisa indlu ngezimpawu zalolu suku - izinhliziyo, izingelosi, amajuba. Futhi umhlobiso obalulekile kanye nesibonakaliso sosuku lwabathandi yizimbali. Indoda kufanele inike izimbali zayo ezithandekayo zezimbali. Yiqiniso, akufanelekile ukukhuluma ngalokhu, kodwa uma umuntu engazi, ungafakazela ngokusobala ukuthi isidlo sothando sisilindela kusihlwa.