Umbuzo wokuthi yiziphi amabele afana namadoda, athokoza bonke abesifazane ngaphandle kokuhlukile, akuyona imfihlo ukuthi kuyisimangaliso ukuthi amehlo abo awela njalo ekuzileni, ngakho-ke isayizi nobujamo bawo bubaluleke kakhulu. Yingakho abesifazane behlala besebenzisa izingubo zangaphansi zokulungisa , kanti abanye basebenzisa izindlela eziningi ezikhethekile, ikakhulukazi, ukuhlinza ngeplastiki. Kodwa ingabe kubaluleke kakhulu kumadoda?
Kungani amadoda afana namabele amabhinqa?
Ezinye izazi ze-psychologists zikholelwa ukuthi isimo sengqondo esibucayi kulesi sigaba sowesifazane sisekwesana, lapho umntwana esanda kuzalwa khona-futhi ungumthombo wokudla, kanye nendlela yokududuza, kanye nesiginamagama sokunakekelwa. Lezi zimbono zokuqala zihlala zingenalwazi futhi, ngemva kweminyaka eminingi, zithululiselwa esimweni esingcwele esifubeni, umuntu angasho nokuthi amadoda akhulekele njengento ethile yobuntu. Bamkhathaza ngolimi lwakhe nangezindebe, bamba ngezandla zakhe futhi bathole injabulo yangempela lapho bebona ukuthi bathanda kangakanani lo wesifazane.
Ngokuqondene nosayizi, ke, njengoba bethi, ukunambitheka nombala wabangane akusikho. Abantu abaningi bayazibuza ukuthi kungani amadoda afana namabele amakhulu, kodwa uma ukholwa izibalo, kuphela ngo-10% kuphela. Mhlawumbe futhi, ukungazi lutho kanye nokuzalwa komzimba kungukusola owesifazane ozokwazi ukondla yonke inzalo ngenxa yesifuba esikhulu kanye nobisi obuningi. Ukukhuluma ngokuthi yiliphi amabele amancane afana namadoda, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi impendulo yalo ngokuyinhloko inqunywa ngokuziqhenya komfashini nokujwayelekile: kubhekwe kwami kunesifuba esikhulu kakhulu futhi kuphelile.
Kodwa-ke, iningi labameleli besigamu esiphezulu sabantu bayavuma ukuthi isifuba kumele sibe nesimiso esihle, esiqinile, esimweni esihle, kodwa ubukhulu bunikezwa yendalo futhi akukho nhlobo ekuphikisana nokushintsha okuthile. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokuthi ngabe amadoda afana nesifuba esincane, awukwazi ukuphendula ngokungaqondile. Uma kuyisifuba sowesifazane, indoda ayikhathaleli ukuthi iyini.