Ekuphileni komuntu ngamunye ngokushesha uthando luza. Omunye uwela othandweni futhi lolu thando lungadlala njengamaminithi ambalwa, neminyaka embalwa, futhi kwenzeka ukuthi lukhula lube uthando, umuzwa wokuthi awukho usuku lokuphelelwa yisikhathi.
Amadoda nabesifazane abathandekayo baziphatha, ngokubanzi, ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngemuva kwalokho, bane-psychology ehluke ngokuphelele. Kuwo wonke owesifazane ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwane obuningi nomuntu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi uzwa yini ngempela into yakhe noma ukuqagela kwabesifazane abavamile. Ngakho-ke, ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zomuntu othandweni ezithengisa isimo sakhe sangaphakathi.
Izimpawu eziyishumi zendoda ethandweni
Cabanga ngezibonakaliso eziyinhloko ezibonisa uthando lomuntu.
- Uma kwenzeka imibono yakho iphikisana, indoda ethandana nawe ikubuka ngokucophelela isikhathi eside. Futhi kusukela Ubheka into yokudumisa kwakhe, abafundi bakhe bavutha.
- Ukuzwa kokuqala okuvela kumthandi, kuyinkimbinkimbi. Futhi myeke ngaphambi komhlangano nawe ube ngumlobi wenkosi, ojwayele ukuba ngowokuqala, uwela emandleni emizwa nemizwelo. Ngenxa yalokho, kunzima ukuthi acabange uma ukhona. Angase abukeke engavikelekile, onamahloni.
- Ubonisa isifiso esikhulu sokufunda kabanzi ngawe. Ukuphikelela okunjalo kubonakala ngezindlela ezahlukene. Isibonelo, umthandi angakumemela ku-cafe noma nje uhambehamba epaki. Isiphakamiso ngasinye esinjalo uhlela kusengaphambili, ngoba, engazi ngesimo sakho sengqondo sangempela kuye, uyesaba ukulahlwa. I-Strange njengoba ingase izwakale, kodwa ukunakwa kuye kungabonakali kuphela ngendlela enomusa, kodwa futhi ekuziphatheni okubi (ukuhleka usulu, amazwi okucasula ekhelini lakho). Iyakwazi.
- Umuntu onjalo ufuna ukuletha inzuzo ekuphileni kwakho. Uzama ukukunakekela. Umthandi uzama konke okusemandleni akhe ukuba abe iqhawe elihle empilweni yakho.
- Ngokuvamile, uhlale eseduze nawe. Ungazizwa amehlo akhe kuye. Nakuba ungakhulumi ukuthi uya kuphi. Uyazi ngalokho.
- Esinye isibonakaliso sokuthandana sithuthukisa ukubukeka kwayo. Angakwazi ukugqoka izingubo ezintsha, uye ejimini.
- Abantu abathandekayo banomhawu kakhulu. Uma kunabantu abaningi abaseduze nawe, noma ukhuluma nomuntu onentshiseko enkulu, uyakwazi ukubona kumngane wakho umphikisi.
- Uphazamiseka isimo sakhe sezezimali. Izama ukuyithuthukisa. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi izinhloso zakhe zinzulu kuwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubona kuwe umfazi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo.
- Uma umuntu onjalo eseduze nawe, akaphazanyiswa ngabesifazane abadlula.
- Phakathi nengxoxo yakho, i-timbre yezwi lakhe ihluke, ilula.
Izimpawu ezingabonakali zomuntu othandweni
Njengoba wazi, ulimi lomzimba aluqambi amanga, ngokungafani namagama omuntu. Ngakho-ke, sinikeza izibonelo zezibonakaliso ezingekho amazwi ezithandweni zesilisa.
- Ubeka izandla zakhe ezinqulwini, ebambelela iminwe yakhe emgqeni. Lesi senzo sibhekisela emisebenzini ebonisa ukukhangwa ngokocansi komxhumanisi wakho.
- Umuntu othandana ngokungenalutho ufuna ukunciphisa ibanga phakathi kwakho.
- Umbono wakhe ungatshela okuningi. Abafundi bakhe bazozulazula esithombeni sakho, kodwa ngaphandle kokugxila endaweni ethile.
Izimpawu zendoda ethandwayo
Ngaso sonke isikhathi, kwakukhona abafazi kanye nezintombi, futhi njalo benesithakazelo kuwo wonke umbuzo wokuthi ungabheka kanjani amadoda ashadile, othandweni nomunye wesifazane. Nazi izici eziyinhloko:
- Isigaba esisodwa samadoda ashadile sizohlupheka, siqaphele ukuthi abanalo ilungelo lokuthandana nabanye besifazane.
- Futhi abanye bayokukhuthazela okukhulu balwela ukunaka into yothando lwabo.
Maye, lesi simo sokuthandana, ezimweni eziningi, asihlali isikhathi eside. Kodwa kunezikhathi lapho indoda eshadile ilahlekelwa ikhanda ngenxa yayo.
Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi isinqumo esihle kakhulu sokuthandana kwamadoda kuyinto intuition abesifazane. Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukumlalela.