Amantombazane amaningi akwazi ukuphatha ngokucophelela iqiniso lokuthi aphonsa umfana, futhi acabanga ukuthi angaziphindiselela kanjani. Uma kukhona isifiso esinjalo - kholwa kimi, akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi kulokhu. Nokho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ezimweni eziningi ubuhlobo bubuyiselwe ... Kodwa emva kokuphindiselela kwakho okuyisimanga, ngeke ngokucacile kwenzeke.
Yini engafanele ukuyenza?
Ukuqala, sizoxoxa ngalezo zinyathelo ezingeke ziholele kunoma yini enhle. Kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi isifiso sokuziphindiselela ngokwaso sincane futhi siyinhlekelele, kodwa kunezikhathi lapho lokhu kuyindlela kuphela ongakwenza ukuze unciphise umphefumulo wakho ovukelayo. Kunoma yikuphi, zama ukuzenza lezi zinto ezilandelayo:
- Buyela emuva ukuphindiselela. Ngezinye izikhathi kuvela ukuthi akulula kakhulu ukubuyela, futhi uzochitha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo kule nqubo, futhi uma uziqhenya ukushiya, umshiya, uzokubona nje ukuthi uyisidenge esiyisiwula esingazi ukuthi ufuna ukuthini. Futhi imizwa yakho iyoba nzima - awuyena robot. Ngakho le nketho inqatshelwe ngokushesha.
- Spoilage of property. Uma uthatha i-suit yakhe ebiza kakhulu, bhala phansi imoto yakhe noma uphule okuthile kusuka emishini yakhe yasendlini, futhi angakufakazela, uzobe unomthwalo wemfanelo ngaphambi komthetho. Imizwa imizwa, futhi imali yimali. Ukuziphindiselela okunjalo kuzophuma othandekayo ngokwengeziwe kuwe, futhi kungcono ukungathathi amathuba.
- Ukuphindiselela, okudinga izimali. Abanye abesimame abacasuliwe abakhulumi ngisho nangokuhleleka ibhodi lokukhangisa elinombhalo ongathandeki kanye nesithombe sangaphambili. Ngakho ubonisa nje ukungabi namandla, ukuhlazeka nokucasuka, okusobala ukuthi ngeke kukuhle. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke bamhleke, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho.
- Ukuphindiselela, okungaba nzima kuwe. Abesifazane abaningi, becabanga ukuthi bangaziphindiselela kanjani kumyeni wabo wangaphambili, banquma ukuba nomthandi omuhle futhi bambize ngamehlo kumlingani oshiyiwe. Kodwa-ke, uma ungezwa lutho ngalowo muntu, naye, noma kuwe, lobu buhlobo ngeke bunganikeze lutho, futhi akufanelekile ukuba u-ex wakho akwazi ukukugcina. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma ubuhlobo bakho bubi futhi engashiya ngenxa yokuphila okungenakubekezelelwa nawe, ekuboneni nomunye umuntu ngokushesha, uzokubiza nje enye yalezo zindaba ezikhuni ezikhuluma ngabesifazane abanobuhle obuhle futhi bajabule , ukuthi wafika ngisho nawe.
- Ukunyuka ekuphileni kwakhe. Abanye besifazane abanomgomo wokulimaza owake waqala ukubhaka ukuthanda kwakhe okwamanje. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, akekho okhathalelayo ngalokhu, futhi yilokho okuphindwa yi-avenges.
Into eyinhloko ekukhetheni kwakho ukuphindiselela isici sayo esilula. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ungalokothi uphindiselele kumuntu onemizwa enika ithemba lokuvuselela ubudlelwano. Ngemuva kwalokho, ukuvunguza kwemizwelo kuyohlala phansi, kodwa ukuphindisela kwakho akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhohliwe.
Ungaziphindiselela kanjani ngaphambili?
Kunezindlela eziningi zokuziphindiselela kumuntu kalula futhi ngaphandle kokutshalwa kwezimali okukhethekile. Into esemqoka - isifiso sakho nobuhlakani bakho!
- Uma lowo owayekade eshiye omunye, futhi uyazi ukuthi unabo manje, ungabenza kube kusihlwa okungenakulibaleka. Shayela ukulethwa kwe-pizza, i-sushi, imithi - cishe noma yini - bese ubeka ikheli lekheli lakhe. Ngokufanelekile, udinga ukuhlela konke ngendlela yokuthi abahlengikazi beze kanye ngesigamu sehora. Ukuze angabonakali ngaphambi kwendoda entsha njengesiphakamiso, kungenzeka ukuthi ngisho nokuthenga izimpahla ezimbalwa zokuqala, kodwa ekugcineni kuyomletha ekuziphatheni kwangempela!
- Uma uhlala ndawonye, futhi isizathu sokuhlambalaza kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu, ungenza impilo yakhe ingenakulinganiswa. Omunye owesifazane ohlakaniphile wabeka inhlanzi eluhlaza okwenziwe ngendwangu yesikhumba - futhi akatholakalanga isikhathi eside ngenkathi ediliza futhi ephunga iphunga elimangalisayo lezinhlanzi ezilolile.
- Yini enye into ethandekayo kumuntu? Imoto yakhe! I-chip efanayo nephunga elimnandi lingaphenduka futhi kulo, liphonsa imfucumfutho ngaphansi kwesihlalo.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukulimala kwempahla kungakulimaza, hhayi yena, ngakhoke ukuyeka umqondo wokumisa ipayipi yakhe yokukhipha noma ukuthulukisa ushukela emathini kagesi.