Abesifazane abaningi abesilisa nabesifazane abanobuhle obuhle namafomu aluhlaza ngokuvamile bahlukumezeka ngesibalo sabo. Umbuzo wokuthi ngabe amadoda afana nabesifazane abagcwele, manje usebenza kakhulu. Phela, wonke owesifazane ufuna ukuthandwa nokufiswa. Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke umuntu ongangena ohlelweni lwezindinganiso zobuhle ezithathwa yimfashini.
Kungani amadoda afana nabesifazane abahlanzi?
Indoda izohlala ikhetha kuqala owesifazane angakwazi ukuphumula, ukhohlwe impilo yansuku zonke futhi uzizwe ekhululekile eceleni kwakhe. Amantombazane amaningi amancane ajabule, akwazi ukusekela izingxoxo kunoma yisiphi isihloko, ihlaya, ujabule. Kodwa kukhona labo abaye bathukuthele futhi bengathokozi ngakho konke okwenzekayo nxazonke ngenxa yenkimbinkimbi yabo. Ngokuvamile, eduze kwabesifazane abanjalo, amadoda ngeke azizwe kahle, ngakho azama ukuwagwema. Laba bantu baphawula isisindo esiningi futhi bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda abathandi abesifazane abagcwele, nakuba lokhu kungenjalo.
Uma sicabanga ukuthi ngabe amadoda afana nabesifazane abagcwele, kufanele kubone ukuthi okokuqala banakekele abesifazane abazethembayo. Lapho intombazane izithanda yona, iyohlale ihlotshiswe, inesikhumba esihlanzekile, izinwele ezibekiwe kanye nokuhleleka komzimba. Ngesikhathi esifanayo uyamnandi ekukhulumisaneni , ukumomotheka okumnandi nobungane ebusweni bakhe, futhi amehlo akhe akhanya. Owesifazane onjalo ngeke ashiywe ngaphandle kobulili obuhlukile, kanti inani lamakhilogremu angeke alubaluleke kakhulu.
Yini amadoda ayithandayo abesifazane abagcwele?
Ezinye izifundo zibonise ukuthi amadoda angaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 afana namantombazane amaningi. Kule minyaka yobudala, ubulili obunamandla buba nolwazi oluningi futhi alinakekelwa kuphela ekubukeni, kodwa nasezweni elingaphakathi. Futhi, abantu abaningi bathi abesifazane abathandekayo bayamnandi kakhulu. Futhi, njengoba wazi, indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini.