Iyini - owesifazane okhangayo emehlweni abantu? Abaningi bafuna ukuthola ukuthandwa nokuthanda, kodwa abazi ukuthi bazoqala kuphi. Kodwa ukukhangisa akuyona nzima kakhulu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akukho idatha yangaphandle noma umlingiswa odlala indima. Isimo esibalulekile sokukhangisa ukuzethemba nokuzithanda.
Indlela yokuheha abantu: into esemqoka
Uma ungathandwa kakhulu, cishe, inkinga ukuthi awunayo uthando olwanele kuwe. Intombazane ehlushwa ukuzithoba, iveza yena kanye namazwi, nokuzibonakalisa, nendlela yokugcina.
Ungazethemba kanjani wena? Uma abazali bengakhulusanga kuwe, ungakwenza ngokwakho futhi ngokushesha uthole imiphumela emihle kakhulu.
- Uthando ngokwakho kufanele lufaneleke. Okusho ukuthi, udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi ungumuntu omuhle kakhulu futhi ufanelekele konke okusemandleni akho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, thola i- "Diary of Confidence" - thatha incwadi noma incwadi bese ubhala phansi zonke izinzuzo zakho nezimpumelelo zakho. Kufanele kwenziwe ngokoqobo imizuzu emi-5-10 ngosuku, kodwa njalo futhi ufunde kabusha lokho okulotshiwe kakade.
- Ukuzethemba ngokweqile kuyatholakala kulabo bantu abazi ukuthi banamakhono namakhono abahlukanisa nabanye. Cabanga, ingabe unayo? Uma kungenjalo, akunandaba. Vele uzitholele ukuzilibazisa - izithombe, ukuhlobisa, ezemidlalo, ukudansa noma okunye okuthandayo. Ukuthuthukisa endaweni ekhethiwe nokwenza impumelelo, uzokholelwa kalula kuwe.
- Ukuzethemba ngokweqile kuyadingeka ukuba uthuthuke uqobo futhi ube nolwazi kunoma iyiphi insimu encane. Khetha okuthile ngokwakho, ukuthi ukulungele ukuba yimuphi umsebenzi. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuyokuphoqa ukuba wakhe ukuzethemba.
Futhi-ke, akekho owesifazane ongabaqiniseka kuze kube sekupheleni, uma engaqiniseki ngokubonakala kwakhe. Yebo, awukwazi "ukukhula" ngamasentimitha angu-10 noma ushintshe uhlobo lwesibalo, kodwa ungakwazi ukulawula isisindo sakho, unakekele isikhumba sakho, izinwele, amazinyo nezipikili, futhi ulethe idatha yakho yemvelo iphelele!
Ungabheka kanjani ukukhangisa kumadoda?
Ukuze ubukeke buhle, udinga ukuqapha izinkomba eziyinhloko zobuhle besifazane. Mhlawumbe ngaphambi kokuba ube mnandi kumadoda, kuzodingeka ulahlekelwe isisindo, uvakashele i-dermatologist, udokotela wamazinyo kanye ne-trichologist, shintsha ikhabethe lakho noma umbala wezinwele - kodwa kholwa mina, umphumela uzowufanele!
- Into eyinhloko amadoda ayinake ngayo isici esivamile. Akunandaba ukuthi ugqoka ama-48 noma ama-42 wezingubo zokugqoka. Into eyinhloko - isibalo sakho kufanele sivumelane: akukho isisu esidlwengulayo, ayikho iminyango yokugcoba. Uma kunesidingo - ukulahlekelwa isisindo, yenzeni ekuzivocavoca, kodwa ulethe isithombe sakho ekupheleleni! Lokhu kuzokwandisa ukuzethemba.
- Indima ekhethekile ekubukeni kwentombazane idlala isikhumba. Ngenhlanhla, manje kukhona amathuluzi amaningi kakhulu kunoma yiluphi uhlobo ongahlala ugcina umbono ohlotshiswe kahle futhi omuhle. Uma unenkinga yesikhumba - bhalisela i-dermatologist, ungalibali. Mhlawumbe inkinga okukuhlupha iminyaka eminingana izoxazululwa emasontweni ambalwa noma ezinyangeni ezimbalwa.
- Endaweni yesithathu yizinwele. Okokuqala - kufanele bahlanzeke, banombala omubala, bebushelelezi futhi bahlobise kahle. Gcwalisa njalo izimpande, uma kunesidingo, sebenzisa ama-shampoos ochwepheshe kanye nezinwele zezinwele.
Khetha i-elegant nge-styling elula, ongayenza wena kalula. - Izingubo zisesine. Uma uphuma endlini, isikhathi ngasinye sakha isithombe esiqinile lapho yonke imininingwane ihlanganiswa khona futhi ibukeka ivumelana. Ungasebenzisa izesekeli ngalokhu. Thuthukisa ukunambitheka, ubuyekeze omagazini bezemfashini futhi ufunde amathiphu ama-stylists.
- Indawo yesihlanu ukulungiswa kwemininingwane encane - ukumamatheka, izandla, izinyawo. Buka umuthi wakho wokugcoba nokuhamba, vakashela udokotela wamazinyo njalo. Kumelwe ube ophelele!
Ukuzinakekela njalo kukhulisa ukuzethemba. Uma utshalwa ngokwengeziwe ekuthuthukiseni kwakho nokubukeka kwakho, uzibheka ngokwengeziwe futhi uzikhanga nakakhulu kubantu oba yibo.