"Uphi futhi ungathola kanjani umlingani wakho womuntu?" - ngokushesha wonke umuntu ubuzwa lo mbuzo, kuphela umuntu onomlingani empilweni ngokushesha, futhi omunye umuntu kufanele amlinde futhi amfune isikhathi eside. Ngakho uthola kanjani isigamu sakho sesibili, sifihlaphi kithi? Ake sizame ukuthola impendulo ndawonye.
Phansi nezikhulu!
Cha, akusikho ukudiliza amandla obukhosi emadodaneni ambalwa asaphila. Manje okuthakazelisayo kakhulu yisithombe se-betrothed ekahle, isigamu sakho sesibili, ongawazi ukuthola. Wonke amantombazane anecala lale, futhi wena, mhlawumbe, awufani. Ungathanda inkosana nge-roses ngehhashi elimhlophe? Futhi kuthiwani uma ihhashi lincane, noma ingabe isikhulu sine-roses esikhundleni se-roses? Khuluma, ngenjabulo, ucabangele lowo okhethiwe? Futhi manje sibuyele eqinisweni, sikhumbule ukuthi zingaki "izikhulu" ozihlungile ngaphandle, ngoba nje azihambisani nemibono owasungula? Kulungile, kwakungekho noyedwa wabo phakathi kwabo. Kodwa ingabe uqinisekile ukuthi ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka ngezinhloso ezingenangqondo akuphuthelwa isiphetho sakho? Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukwenza isiphetho ngokuthi ngabe lo muntu ufanelwe yini noma cha, kufanele ufunde okungenani, futhi ungayinaki ukuba khona kwehhashi. Ngakho-ke yini oyicelayo, ukushiya ngokuphelele ezinye zezidingo zakho zomngane wokuphila? Yiqiniso, cha, khona-ke ungayithola kanjani enye ingxenye yakho uma ugijima kuwo wonke umuntu? Vele ube nokunciphisa kancane, ukubekezela okuncane, ngoba abakho abantu abahle. Futhi ngeke kube lula ukuhlala nomqondo omuhle, cabanga nje, awukwazi ngisho nokuphikisana nayo, ngoba akukho lutho kuwo, okulungile.
Ngaphansi kwetshe elihle ...
Sihlezi ngefasitela, sithukuthele, sicabanga ukuthi singathola kanjani umlingani wethu womphefumulo, futhi silindele ukuba avele ngokungazelelwe? Yebo, manje, indoda yamaphupho akho izovela efasiteleni futhi izongqongqoza ngesicelo sokuyivumela, uma nje uhlala esiteji leshumi. Cha, akusebenzi ngaleyo ndlela, kungukuthi ngisho namakati angeke abelethe, futhi ngisho nesikhulu ngeke siphume emoyeni omncane. Ngakho-ke yeka ukuphupha, futhi uye phansi ebhizinisini. Udinga ukuzibonakalisa emhlabeni, ngakho-ke zama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphandle kwendlu - uhamba epakini, kuma-nightclub, emibuthweni yamakhofi nabangani, kodwa kuncane ongakwenza! Ukubuyela ekhaya, ungathathi indawo oyithandayo embhedeni, iya ku-inthanethi, ubuyekeze ikhasi lakho ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Yebo, mhlawumbe ukuphola kuyi-intanethi kungathembeki, futhi imibhangqwana esebenze ubudlelwane ngale ndlela ayivamile, kodwa mhlawumbe ungomunye walabo abanenhlanhla? Ngeke unikeze ithuba lakho lokudlula, udinga ukusebenzisa zonke izindlela ozitholayo.
Not self-confidence, kodwa ukuzethemba
Ngiyaxolisa, kodwa uzobheka injabulo yakho, ubuke phansi, uzingele futhi ukhohlwe ukuthi ukumomotheka okungahle kwenzeke ngempela? Kungani udinga le maski yentombazane enezinyosi? Uhle, u-sexy futhi ukhangayo. Ningikholelwa mina? Isikhathi sokuzikholisa kulokhu, futhi emva kwakho konke nonke umuntu okuzungezile.