Emsebenzini, umuntu ubhekene nezinkinga ezahlukene futhi ngezinye izikhathi uphela ngokuxoshwa. Thola umsebenzi omuhle, kunzima futhi ngezinye izikhathi usesho ludonsa izinyanga. Kuneseluleko sengqondo ngalokho okufanele ukwenze uma umyeni engafuni ukusebenza. Lesi simo sibangela izinkinga eziningi, kanti kwezinye izimo zonke ziphela ngesehlukaniso.
Kunezizathu eziningi ezingabangela isimo esinjalo futhi kubalulekile ukunquma, kungenjalo kuyoba nzima ukushintsha okuthile. Ezingqondweni, kunezizathu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani indoda ingathandi ukusebenza:
- inkinga yeminyaka ephakathi, lapho kuhlolwa kabusha izinto eziza kuqala;
- umlingisi obuthakathaka, ngisho nalapho ubunzima obuncane buxoshwa khona;
- ngezinye izikhathi umyeni ovilaphayo futhi akafuni ukusebenza, ukhetha ukubeka yonke imisebenzi yakhe emagxeni omkakhe;
- ungumuntu ongaqondakali futhi ulindele ukuba anikezwe indawo efanelekayo.
Kuthiwani uma umyeni wami engafuni ukusebenza?
Kunezeluleko ezimbalwa ezingasiza ukulungisa isimo.
- Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, izazi zengqondo zithi akufanele neze owesifazane ahlazeke futhi ahlazise umyeni wakhe. Kungcono ukugqugquzela indoda ngokudumisa, ukuphakamisa ukuzethemba kwayo.
- Umfazi akufanele ashintshe emahlombe omlingani ongasebenzi yonke imisebenzi yabesifazane, ngoba, ngakho-ke, isimiso sakhe somuntu sibhujiswa.
- Owesifazane ohlakaniphile ukhetha isu elibuthakathaka yena ngokwakhe, enikeza izinso ezandleni zomuntu. Oshade naye kufanele ahlele isabelomali sakhe nomyeni wakhe ukuze azi ukuthi kungakanani nokuthi imali iya kuphi.
- Ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuthatha izinto ezandleni zakho futhi ulawule inqubo yokuthola umsebenzi ofanele. Umkami kufanele asize ekutholeni umsebenzi, hlola ukuthi oshade naye ubhalisele ukuxoxisana, njll, kodwa noma kunjalo, yenza lokhu okungahambisani nokucindezela ngokweqile.
- Uma isizathu silele kwesaba esithile sangaphakathi, kungcono ukufuna usizo kumuntu wezokwelapha ozosiza umuntu aziqonde yena.