Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, imfundo yamantombazane nabafana iye yahluke kakhulu: yini eyayivunyelwe kubafana, ngenxa yentombazane - lokhu kwakungukubonakaliswa okungamukeleki kokunambitheka okubi futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi ekuqaleni ekucabangeni kwethu kufakwa kokubili ukungafani ngokomzimba nokuhlukana kwezwe.
Kuze kube manje, uhlelo lwezemfundo jikelele lwanamuhla luye lwasusa kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuqwashisa ukuthi kunabesifazane nabasilisa nokuthi lokhu kunemibono.
Muva nje, abanye besifazane bayeka ukulalela ukunakekelwa kwabo besifazane. Izizathu zalokhu zingaba yizikhala emfundweni yomuntu lapho eseyintombazane encane noma iminyaka yesikole eyathonya ukubunjwa kwemibono efanele mayelana nokuthi amandla obuntombi.
Okokuqala, kungokwesifazane okwenza izinhliziyo zamadoda zishaye ngokushesha. Futhi imfihlo ayikho ebuhleni bangaphandle, isikhathi eside, esikhanyayo elangeni, izinwele noma ubuso obuhle kahle, kodwa futhi nobuhle bangaphakathi, imikhuba.
Izwe langaphakathi lobufazi
Ubuntfu emkhatsini wemuntfu kufane nemikhuba yetintfo. Ukuzwela, ukuthobeka, ukuthobeka nokuhlekisa - lezi yizimfanelo, ngokubona kwamadoda, ezifanekisela ubufazi. Kuzohlale kukhuthaza umuntu othandekayo okwazi ukujabula nsuku zonke.
Ukudlala kuyisici esibalulekile somlingisi ochaza umqondo wesifazane. Ukudlala kwenza owesifazane afiseke kakhulu futhi adume. Ngeke kube okungenakuqhathaniswa ukubonisa lo mkhuba wobuciko ngengqondo futhi njalo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuthuthukiswa nokudalulwa komuntu wesifazane kwakha ubuhlobo besifazane, kokubili kuye nakwezwe elikuzungezile. Ubuntfu ngamehlo abantu kusho ukuthi owesifazane akufanele athande yena kuphela, kodwa futhi nabantu abakuzungezile. Ukuzwelana nemfihlakalo kwenza owesifazane indlovukazi yangempela emehlweni abantu.
Akungabazeki ukuthi kunezinqubo eziningi ezengeziwe, ezivela ekuboneni kwamadoda, zichaza umqondo wesifazane. Kodwa-ke, yiqiniso, wonke umuntu obalulekile ukuhlonipha owesifazane ngaye. Njalo ilungu lezocansi ezinamandla liyakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi owesifazane uyakwazi ukuqonda indoda futhi uyakwazisa izenzo zakhe.
Amadoda mayelana nobufazi - ubuhle bangaphandle
Ingxenye ebalulekile yokubonakaliswa kweqiniso kwebesifazane ubuhle. Wonke owesifazane kufanele agcobe kahle futhi emuhle. Isibonelo, amadoda afana nawo uma izinwele ezinde ziwela kumahlombe abathandekayo besifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bathanda ukubukela lapho abesifazane beka izinwele zabo, bebathinta. Ngaphezu kwakho konke bathanda ukukhanya kwemvelo nombala wendwele.
Futhi igcizelela ubuhle besifazane kanye nephunga elimnandi, okuyingxenye lidlala indima yebhizinisi lebhizinisi labesifazane bonke. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokunyakaza kokunyakaza, indlela yokuxoxa. Ukunciphisa kwezwi kanye nomusa wokunyakaza - yilokho okuyohlala kube yinye yezici zobuntombi emehlweni abantu.
Khumbula ikhono elivela enhliziyweni, ngokuhle, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa okuncane nje kokungcoliswa, ukuhleka. Vumela ukuhleka kwakho kufane nomsindo we-rivulet.
Funda ukuthi ubalekile futhi ukhanya.
Yiqiniso, okwesifazane ngokusebenzisa amehlo abantu kuyincazelo eningi kakhulu. Kodwa wonke owesifazane angaba ngumhle kumuntu othandekayo wakhe, naphezu kokungabikho kwezinto ezibalwe ngenhla kumlingisi wakhe. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuguqula isimo sakho sengqondo, uzikhumbuze ukuthi ungowesifazane ongabonisa ukuthi usengozini kumuntu wesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ukunikeza ukuzwa kumuntu wakhe ukuthi nguye kuphela umvikeli wakhe kanye nesimo sakhe sengqondo kuye, kuxhomeke ukuthi uzozizwa owesifazane ojabulayo noma cha.