Othintekayo owesifazane ohlala enendoda, futhi akanakho omunye umthombo wemali engenayo. Ngokungafani nendlukazi ejwayelekile, uphansi kwegunya lomxhasi futhi akanalo isimo esingokomthetho. Intombazane lena uhlobo lomsebenzi lapho umqashi engumxhasi okhethiwe.
Umxhasi angaba mahhala, futhi mhlawumbe ushadile. Isimo sezenhlalakahle, nokuvikeleka kwempahla akubalulekile. Umgcini wesifazane angaba nomshayeli wesitimela, izipho kanye nesondlo kuphela kuzoba ngesilinganiso esincane kunaleyo ye-oligarch.
Izizathu ezenza amantombazane abe abalondolozi abanele. Okuvamile kakhulu:
- Amantombazane akafuni ukusebenza futhi afuna impilo ephephile futhi enganaki. Noma bafuna ukufeza izinga eliphezulu lezenhlalo ngale ndlela;
- umgomo uwukuthola indawo enhlokodolobha;
- ithuba lokuhlala edolobheni elikhulu;
- isimo esinzima sezezimali;
- Kwabanye, ukuzingela amadoda kuyindlela yokuzilibazisa;
- i-infantilism;
- ukunganeliseki ngempilo yomndeni. Owesifazane ngale ndlela uzama ukuxazulula izinkinga ezimbili: thola umthandi futhi uthole izinzuzo zempahla.
Amantombazane nabesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi bakhululekile futhi bayabathanda. Ezingxenyeni zezimpilo zabo - iholidi elihlala njalo, kodwa kuphela labo abawaziyo ngemuva, baqonde ukuthi lokhu akuzona zonke eziyophila.
Ukunganaki kwesimo sowesifazane u-Alfonso
- I-Contemporary ayikwazi ukuzivumela ukuba ithandane. Ngokushesha nje lapho ethanda enye indoda, umxhasi u-zarevnuet futhi umxosha.
- Angeke abe nezingane.
- Okungahambisani naye, ethandana nomxhasi wakhe, uzenzele ukuhlushwa. Emva kwakho konke, khona-ke uzomhlupha umthandi ngemibuzo mayelana nomshado nezingane. Kodwa wayeqashiwe eminye imisebenzi. Amacala uma umxhasi eshada owesifazane onjalo angashadile. Embuthanweni wabo, isenzo esinjalo sibhekwa njengefomu elibi. Futhi ngaphandle kothando ngeke kube nenjabulo yangempela.
- Ukuphila kwakhe akusezandleni zakhe, kulahlwe ngumuntu okhokhelwayo. Indoda ingamnika umngane izinsuku ezimbalwa popolzovatsya. Noma kwenzeke ukuthi ukushintshaniswa kwezintombi kuqhutshwa emaqenjini.
- Akekho ozobekezelela isimo sakhe esibi nesimo sakhe sengqondo, ngakho-ke kufanele agodle imizwelo yakhe.
Uma wena, naphezu kwakho konke okushiwo ngenhla, usulokhu uthi: "Ngizoba yisiboshwa!", Bese ulalela ezinye izincomo.
Indlela yokuba ngumgcini, amathiphu:
- Umgomo wakho kufanele ube yimali, cabangela okwenzekayo njengohlobo lokuhamba emsebenzini. Ungatsheli umninikhaya wakho ngemigomo yakho kanye nezinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo. Umzwelo wokuthi uyisinyathelo esisodwa ekupheleleni kwakho kwenza umuntu azweke kakhulu futhi aqine, ngisho nomndeni.
- Zisho ngokucacile ngokwakho isikhathi senkathi yokuphila.
- Kuyadingeka ngokushesha ukuthi unqume ukuthi yisiphi isigaba samadoda osithakazelisayo, uhlale ukhumbule ukuthi impilo yomgcini wesifazane ophakeme kakhulu ivikelekile kakhulu, kodwa kukhona izidingo zamantombazane kanye nokuncintisana eziphakeme kakhulu. Amakhulu amantombazane enomzimba nokubukeka aphinde aphinde ahlinzekwe udokotela ohlinzayo wasepulasitiki ekuthandweni komuntu ocebile, futhi wazi ngenhliziyo yonke imikhuba yakhe nemikhuba yakhe iminyaka eminingi ehlukumezeka ukuba abe inkosikazi futhi abe ngumuntu ophakeme. Kodwa kukhona ithuba elilodwa kuphela. Konke okunye, kubalulekile ukuba waneliswe ezincane noma ukuhlala okhethiweyo okhethiwe.
- Ubudala bomnikazi kubalulekile. Okungaphezulu, kungcono. Kodwa ungahambi ngokweqile - umehluko eminyakeni yobudala akufanele ibe ngaphezu kweminyaka engu-25. Ngomuntu okhululekile, ungayilingisa leveli futhi ucabange
kungenzeka umshado, kodwa ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu nezezimali buzinzile kancane. Ukushada - okubonga kakhulu nokuzinzile, kodwa ebuhlotsheni kukhona umhawu, ukungathembeki nokulawula. - Izidingo kufanele zikwazi ukudala izinto ezidingekayo ukuze uthole ukwaziswa okuqhubekayo kwengcebo.
- Le mali kufanele ithunyelwe ngokushesha enhloko-dolobha, engasatholakali kumnikazi.
- Ungabuzi ngenani lemali yakhe kanye nokonga.
Noma ubani okhetha ukuba yinkosikazi, umgcini noma umfazi ukhetha ngamunye ngokuzimela futhi kuphela ukukhetha okulungile kuzokujabulisa.