Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyayithanda noma cha, sihlale sibhekana nokuzikhethela. Sakhetha ukuthi siphila, kuphi lapho sizofunda khona, ukhethe umsebenzi, futhi esikhathini esizayo nomsebenzi. Inqubo yokwenza izinqumo ayinakugwemeka. Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukukhetha. Kufanele sicabange, sihlaziye, siqhathanise yonke "pluses" ne "minuses", sikhathazeke ngokungabaza futhi uhambe ngenhlobo yengozi.
Umbuzo walokho okumele ukhethe - umsebenzi noma umndeni wezingxabano eziningi. Futhi lokhu ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane, ngoba banakekele umndeni, bakhulisa izingane futhi bahlela ukuwa kwezidleke zomndeni kumahlombe ethu abuthakathaka. Asikho okumele kwenziwe, sizokhetha ...
Ngaphansi kwezinkolelo
Emphakathini wamukelwa kanjalo-owesifazane oshada naye, ubeletha izingane futhi, ejabule kuze kube yilahla, uchitha ubusuku ekulindeni oshade naye. Ngokuqinisekile, othile ofana nalokhu kuphila ufanelana futhi kuhle. Uma kungenjalo, akudingeki wenze umhlatshelo futhi wenze ngokuphambene nezifiso nezinjongo zakho. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi awunakho lutho kumuntu kulokhu kuphila. Akekho oyokwakha injabulo yakho, ngeke afinyelele isifiso futhi angeke afinyelele imigomo. Uma uzizwa ungumuntu ocebile ongathanda ukuwuqaphela emsebenzini wakho, hhayi emndenini, yenza isinyathelo. Abesifazane batjhadile abaneminyaka engama-35 begodu babeletha abantwana, nanyana kunjalo i-last latter idinga imizamo enengi begodu nesimo sengqondo esithintekayo ngokuphathelene nempilo.
Owesifazane ophumelelayo angakwazi ukuvakashela ama-beauty salons, asebenzise ikhwalithi eliphakeme ukuthi azizinakekele yena, ukubuka ukuba njalo abe nesimo esihle. Abesifazane abanjalo ngeke banqatshelwe ukunakwa kwamadoda. Kodwa-ke, kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuthola "owesilisa" ofanelekayo, ngoba kufanele akhiphe kokubili izinto ezibonakalayo nangokwengqondo. Uma kungenjalo, kuzodingeka ubekezelele ukuzithoba kwakhe ngokumelene nesizinda sempumelelo yakho.
Ngakho, embuzweni wokuthi yini ebaluleke nakakhulu - umndeni noma umsebenzi, sikhetha umsebenzi wethu. Ngokwemvelo, kuphela uma kwenzeka ungakatholi umndeni, kodwa ubeke izinto zakho eziza kuqala esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Cabanga ngenhliziyo yakho
Ngakho weza, thanda. Futhi manje akunandaba - ngengozi noma ngokukhethekile, kodwa imizwa igcwele, futhi ibhizinisi lisondela emshadweni. Futhi unomsebenzi wokulungiselela "ihora lakho lezinkanyezi", futhi ngandlela-thile konke kungalungile, kodwa uthando ngemuva kwakho konke ... Lapha kufika isikhathi sokuzikhethela, lona wesifazane uphuthuma, ngoba akazi ukuthi yini ongayikhetha - umsebenzi noma umndeni. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi emva komshado, njengokubusa, izingane zizalwa, futhi lokhu kuyithekithi elijabulisayo kulo myalelo. Uhlobo luni lomsebenzi okhona, ukhuluma ngani ...?
Kulesi simo, kuzodingeka ukhethe inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo, hhayi ikhanda lakho. Bheka umuntu oseduze nawe. Mhlawumbe wabonakala empilweni yakho futhi wenza kube lula futhi okuthakazelisayo, okungeziwe kuye. Indoda yakho ilungele ukwakha umndeni, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ngenhliziyo yakhe yonke iyayifuna. Uma uqiniseka ukuthi uzokwazi ukukunikeza impilo ehloniphekile wena nezingane zakho zesikhathi esizayo, uma ubona njengoyise wezingane zakho, cabanga ngakho. Ngokusobala, usulungele ukuba ngumkami nomama onothando, uyajabula ngalolu mbono futhi ngokucophelela usuvele ukhethe.
Ukuthola othandekayo akulula kakhulu. Ngaki kaningi ongabonana nomuntu oweqa imilingo evela enesizungu. Ungazwelana nemibhangqwana, naphezu kwazo zonke izimpumelelo zemithi yanamuhla, ayikwazi ukuba nezingane futhi iwele ithemba.
Okwenza umndeni ubaluleke kakhulu kunomsebenzi - wonke umuntu uyazikhethela yena. Ngomunye umuntu, injabulo ezinganeni kanye nokunakekela umyeni wakhe, othile ngokusemthethweni akafuni ukusebenza futhi angakwazi ukuyikhokhela, abanye bahlabela egameni lothando. Wonke umuntu unelungelo lokukhetha, kodwa umuntu akasoze asola noma ubani. Ukhetha, futhi unomthwalo wemiphumela yawo.
Owesifazane wanamuhla, uma efunwa, angathola ithuba lokuhlanganisa ukunakekelwa komndeni kanye nomsebenzi ophumelelayo. Futhi uma eduze kwakhe ngempela indoda ehloniphekile, uzoqonda futhi asekele.