ERussia, umbono wabazali ekuphethweni kwezibopho zomshado uhlale uzimisele. Uma abazali bethola ukuthi indodana yabo ifuna ukushada nentombazane, bazama ukumvimbela uma kukhona okhethiwe kakhulu. Yiqiniso, ngokusemthethweni, abazali babengenakuphikelela, kuphela ukukholisa, kodwa ngaphandle kokuhle kwabazali umshado wesonto wawubhekwa ngokungemthetho.
Ukuthengisana - amasiko
Ukumaketha kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekubhekaneni nokuphila komuntu omdala lomakoti nomkhwenyana. Ngokusho kwamasiko e-matchmaking, kwakucatshangwa ukuthi amasiko, namuhla lezi zifundo ezimbili zihlangene.
Amasiko e-matchmaking engxenyeni yomkhwenyana abilisiwe kuze kube khona abadlali bokudlala: ubaba womkhwenyana, umfowethu nodadewabo omdala. Ngezinye izikhathi, kwakuyi-matchmaker - owesifazane ongaphandle, owaziwa ngokukwazi kwakhe ukuxoxisana.
Kusukela ohlangothini lomakoti lo mdlalo angaba ngumama osemncane, uninakazi noma udadewabo.
Uma ufonela izinto ngamagama abo afanele, ukufana ngokulinganayo kuyisivumelwano phakathi kwemindeni emibili. Umndeni womyeni uzama ukuthola "inzuzo" eyengeziwe, umakoti onikeziwe onomdanso, nomndeni womlobokazi ufuna ukuthola okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka isamba esikhulu somhlengi womlobokazi.
Izinkanyezi zokumaketha
Amasiko nemikhuba yokufanisa i-matchmaking yayitshela ngisho nesikhathi ngokwaso. Kwakudingeka ukwenza umshado kusihlwa ngoLwesine, ngoLwesibili nangomgqibelo. Ngokokuqala ngqa, lo mdlalo wayevame ukuphika umkhwenyana, njengoba ukunikeza indodakazi yakhe ngokushesha ngokushesha kwakubhekwa njengefomu elibi.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kwakukhona isisho esithi: "Umkhwenyana omncane uzobonisa indlela enhle" - ukwenqaba owokuqala, abazali bakhe besalindele ukukhetha okungcono kakhulu.
I-matchmaking yokuqala yayingavumelekile. Nqabe abazali bomlobokazi bangakwazi ukwazi kangcono umndeni womyeni. Ngesibili (kakade sekusemthethweni), kwabekwa itafula lokugcoba, umakoti wayelungiselela izipho, zombili imindeni ibuthana.
Lapha indandatho yaqala: uma abazali bomlobokazi bevuma ukunikeza indodakazi yabo, imindeni yaqala ukuvumelanisa hhayi kuphela ngosuku, kodwa futhi nesabelo semali ekugubheni, futhi umkhwenyana kwakudingeka enze "umnikelo" wokuqala.