Uthando ngezinye izikhathi luhlanganisa amehlo ukuze umphikisi anqume ukwephula imithetho yemvelo futhi ahlele inhliziyo yomunye. Futhi uhamba ngokuya kumlingo omnyama osindayo - isipelingi. Ngale ndlela, ngendlela, ayikhuthazi uthando, ibopha kuphela umsizi kumlumbi. Futhi umuntu ophethwe isipelingi, ubhekene nosizi olukhulu. Ulahlekelwa isifiso sakhe, eba nesibindi, acindezeleke, angaqala ukuphuza. Uma uqaphela ukuthi indoda yakho iziphatha ngendlela engafanele, futhi usolisa ukuthi isiqalekiso sesimiswe kuye, thatha le ndaba ngezandla zakho. Ngempela, isenzo sensimbi enamandla kakhulu asiyena kuphela kumuntu othakazelisayo, kodwa nasemndenini wakhe, kubandakanya nezingane. Ungasusa kanjani isipelingi esinamandla sothando ngokwakho, uzofunda kulolu lwazi.
Ungasusa kanjani isipele esontweni?
Isonto lilahla noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwemilingo, okungukuthi, uma ungumuntu okholwayo ngobuqotho, khona-ke umpristi ngeke akubusise nganoma iyiphi enye indlela.
Uma lesi sipelingi sabekwa yintombazane encane, engenalwazi, ngezinye izikhathi amakhandlela anele okwenza impilo yemithandazo ethandekayo nokufunda ukuze ikwazi ukulinganisa. Kodwa-ke, uma ubhekene nobuthakathi obuqinile, kuzodingeka uchithe isikhathi eside kakhulu ukupaka isipele:
- ikheli kumuntu ophakeme ongokomoya;
- gqoka isiphambano, uye esontweni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, imithandazo yokufunda impilo. Yiya ezinsizeni, ikakhulukazi ngamaholide;
- ngenkathi kususwa isipele, wenqaba ukuvakashela ukuzijabulisa (ukuya ezinkolweni, zokudlela, njll);
- landela izincomo ezinikezwe umfundisi.
Ungasusa kanjani ukuthanda wena?
Zama omunye wemikhuba elandelayo:
Isiko nesinkwa imvuthu
- uzodinga: ucezu lwesinkwa se-rye esomile, amakhandlela ama-5 anikezelwe esontweni (omnyama, waxy) kanye ne-napkin;
- Ukuhlala wedwa ekhaya, ukhanyisa wonke amakhandlela ngesikhathi esisodwa, usakaze i-napkin phambi kwakho;
- izikhathi ezintathu uzithinte wena nesinkwa bese uqala ukuwaphuca ngesambatho esasakazekayo, ukhulume amazwi athi "isinkwa sinqamuka kanjani, ngakho-ke isibopho sakho siyanqamuka";
- uqoqe isinkwa, ubophe ngefonto bese uhlala phezulu. Ukuhlala kuzoba namahora angu-2;
- emva kwe-crumb, uthele emaphaketheni nezicathulo zomyeni wakhe. Kwengeza kancane ekudleni.
Isiko ngamakhandlela
Lolu khetho lufanelekile uma wazi igama lenkosikazi.
- uthathe ikhandlela elimnyama nelinombala obomvu, futhi ephepheni ubhale emaceleni omabili amagama: indoda nendodakazi;
- ukukhanyisa amakhandlela, bese usika iphepha phakathi kwamagama, ukuwanqamula;
- bashise iphepha elilodwa negama lomyeni kwelinye ikhandlela, ngakolunye - negama lekosikazi;
- ubeke umlotha ngezandla ezahlukene, uphume waya emgwaqweni futhi emva kokulinda umoya, uthuthukise umlotha ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Ungasusa kanjani isipele sothando kusuka wena ekhaya?
Kwenzeka ukuthi thina ngokwethu singaba yisisulu somlingo omnyama. Uma wazi ukuthi ungubani isandla, bese usebenzisa indlela elandelayo:
- thatha isithombe noma into yomuntu siqu womuntu owenza lo mkhosi, futhi uthenge ikhandlela lesonto elingcwelisiwe;
- hlala ngesibuko bese ubeka le nto phambi kwakho ukuze ukwazi ukukubona ngokucabangela, kodwa ukuthi akuvimbeli ubuso bakho;
- ukukhanyisa ikhandlela bese uqala ukubuka isithombe somuntu noma into yakhe, uzama ukugubha amandla akhe;
- Uma ulinganisiwe, qala ukuxoxa ngengqondo nayo. Sebenzisa imisho emifushane, ekugcineni lapho uphinda "vumela".
Yenza kahle:
- uma evezile, vula into noma isithombe uhlangothi olungezansi, bese usimboza ngotshani lomhlonyane noma unambuzane. Beka ikhandlela;
- ekuseni ubeke isithunde sekhandlela esontweni ukuze uthole impilo ye-bewitching.
Manje uyakwazi ukususa kuwe (noma kusuka kuwe) isipelingi sothando ngokwakho. Nokho, ukususa isipele akuqinisekisi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubuya komuntu othandekayo. Uma lesi sipelingi sabekwa umlingo oqinile, ke, cishe, naye wenza umkhosi wokubhujiswa kobuhlobo. Ngakho-ke, lungele ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukubuyisela uthando lomuntu othandekayo kuwe .