Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyamangala kangakanani, ama-lapel angase ahluke. Kukhona i-lapel esetshenziswe kumlingo omnyama . Lesi yisigaba sokuqala sopela. Lokho, okokuqala, yenza i-lapel ye "isisulu" esivela kumuntu wangempela, othandekayo, bese usuvele uvele, uthathe ikhasimende noma umenzi we-rite. Loluhlobo lwe-lapel luyingozi kakhulu kokubili nomculi kanye nesisulu, ngoba isenzo sonakalisa yonke insimu yamandla.
Kukhona ne-lapel emhlophe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, umfazi waqaphela ukuthi umyeni wakhe, owayeneye idyll ephelele, waba yisisulu sesipelingi. Wayenenkosikazi.
Kulesi simo, i-lapel yenziwa kumuntu owenzayo. Lokhu kuyathethelelwa emlenzeni, ngoba amandla omkhosi unomlingiswa wokubuyisela. Okusho ukuthi, "silungisa" lokho okushiwo umuntu. Ukuhlelwa okunjalo, nakuba kudinga amandla amakhulu okutshalwa kwezimali, kodwa namanje, ngeke kubangele noma iyiphi yabahlanganyeli.
Uma ukuzama ukuqonda uthando bekuyize, sekuyisikhathi sokuthola indlela yokwenza i-lapel. Sizohlaziya izibonelo ezivela "ezinhlokweni" ezahlukene.
I-Lapel ngokwayo
Isibonelo sokuqala ukuthi ungenza kanjani i-lapel uma ukwaziswa.
Izimpawu zesimo salesi simo yizi:
- awukwazi ukucabanga nganoma ubani, futhi akukho, ngoba ekhanda lakho yonke into ihlala "ngumqashi";
- udinga ukuba khona kwalowo muntu;
- uzwa injabulo ebuhlungu ngaphambi komhlangano;
- uzwela kakhulu ekuhlukaneni kancane;
- ngakho konke lokhu, uyaqaphela ngokucacile ukuthi lokhu akusilo uthando (!).
Uma kunjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokuba ucabange ukuthi ungenza kanjani i-lapel yothando. Sinikeza i-lapel emanzini. Ukuze kubulawe, kuzodingeka ukuthi uhlale uphapheme ubusuku obulunye ulandelana.
Qoqa amanzi asentwasahlobo e-jug ebonakalayo. Ebusuku yibeke ngaphansi kwemisebe yenyanga. Ekuseni, thatha lapho kungekho ukukhanya kwelanga okufinyelela khona. Phinda ubusuku obunye obuningi, futhi ngakusasa kweyesithathu, uphuze konke phansi, ubike umbhalo wesakhiwo bese ucabanga isithombe sokuqothulwa "sabathandekayo." Bese ufunda izikhathi ezingu-9 "uBaba wethu".
Lapel kusuka inkosikazi
Isibonelo sesibili yindlela yokwenza i-lapel yomyeni evela kunkosikazi yakhe ngokwakhe. Lokhu kunjalo uma kuziwa kumlingo omhlophe. Uvuselela imindeni (uma nje umndeni wawuthandana futhi uphumelela). Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi umyeni ushiye ngenxa yokupela, hhayi ngoba umnike amaqanda iminyaka eyishumi kakade.
Ukuze uthole i-lapel, udinga isithombe somyeni wakho nomlingani obhubhise umndeni. Ngenhlanhla, namuhla uthole izithombe kusuka ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ngeke kube nzima.
Umkhuba uchithe ngenyanga. Udinga ukuphumula ekushoneni kwelanga ngesigamu, uhlukanisa umyeni wakho nomphikisi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, udinga ukufisa, futhi uthi lezi zifiso, ukuze bahambe bashiye futhi bangalokothi bakhumbule. Faka kulo mkhuba olula konke okubi, konke ukufutheka nentukuthelo, ngenxa yobuhlobo obususwe.
Ukunquma izithombe kuzomele zingcwatshwe ezingxenyeni ezihlukene zedolobha.
Lapel kusuka kumkami
Futhi isibonelo sokugcina, esingahlonishwa kakhulu, ngoba uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzuza uthando ngokwakho, kukufanelekile ukukhuphuka ebuhlotsheni babanye abantu. Ake sikhulume ngendlela yokwenza i-lapel ethandweni lo mbhangqwana.
Umkhosi olandelayo usetshenziselwa inyanga edlulayo. Udinga ukukhanyisa ikhandlela elibomvu, ulibambe ezandleni zakho, iya efasiteleni ufunde umbhalo wesakhiwo. Phinda ubusuku obubusuku obuthathu ngokulandelana.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ama-lapels wokuphula ubudlelwane bomshado abenzile kuphela ngamakhosikazi angakhohlisi, kodwa futhi ngamadoda / abafazi. Isibonelo, umfazi ufuna isahlukaniso, kepha umyeni kunoma yikuphi ingxoxo kule ndaba ugijimela ekufutheni. Uma kungekho mandla, ngokuzimela ukuqonda nokuxazulula umbuzo, owesifazane (noma esimweni esifanayo, lo muntu) uvala konke ukuxhumana ngezinga lamandla. Ngemuva kwe-lapel, indoda izojabula ngokusayina isehlukaniso.
Plot phezu kwamanzi, i-lapel ngokwayo
"Amanzi ahlanzekile, amanzi ahlanzekile, amanzi aphelile, inyanga ihlukanisiwe,
ungaphuthelwa muntu, awukwazi usizi,
Thatha usizi lwami, thatha wena ngokwakho, ukuthi angingeke ngazi ngami ukudabuka noma usizi,
Isihluthulelo sisesibhakabhakeni. Inqaba elwandle. Amen. "
Lapel kusuka kumkami
"Uthando lwethu alupheli, njengendandatho yokuzibandakanya. Izinyosi zanyathelisa utshani, inja yashaya inja, ikati yagijima ikati, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni) nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) laphikisana. Ungahlangani nathi, ungabeki, sizogwema omunye nomunye impilo yethu yonke. Izwi lami linamandla, njengetshe, njengomcibisholo ngokuqinisekile. Okushiwo kuzokwenzeka, Amen. "