Indlela yokuthola ukupela kwe-love?

Uma ngokungazelelwe uqaphele ushintsho oluphawulekayo ekuziphatheni komuntu futhi nje ungaliqapheli, lokhu kungabonisa ukuthi uyaphila, kodwa ungayithola kanjani?

Izimpawu zesipelingi

Kunezibonakaliso eziningi ezahlukene ezibonisa ukuthi kukhona ukupela, kodwa okujwayelekile kakhulu yilokhu:

  1. Umuntu angalahlekelwa intando yakhe evamile, akanalo intando noma amandla okwenza noma yini.
  2. Umuntu ukhuluma njalo futhi ucabange ukuthi ubani owenza lesi sipelingi, ebheka ukuthi kusho ukuthini impilo yakhe.

Indlela yokunquma uma kukhona isipelingi sothando?

Ngosizo lweqanda lezinkukhu

Le ndlela idala ngokwanele, yayisetshenziswe okhokho bethu. Ukuze wenze umkhuba, udinga amaqanda amasha ayenziwe, isithombe somuntu owakhanyiswa, nesitsha samanzi. Iqanda kumele lilethwe esithombeni bese liyijikeleza ngokuzenzekelayo imizuzu engu-3. Okulandelayo, faka isithombe esiseduze nesitsha, uphinde uphule iqanda ngomese bese uthela esitsheni. Uma amaprotheni ahlala ehlanzekile, khona-ke akukho sipelingi sothando. Uma iprotheni i-turbid iphinde inike iphunga elimnandi, lokhu kubonisa ukuba khona kwesikhala.

Enye indlela yokunquma ukupaka ngothando kumuntu ngosizo lweqanda ukuwujikelezisa ngeso lengqondo phezu kwekhanda lomdwebi, bese uphinde uwaphule ube yisitsha.

Ngosizo lwe-wax

Lena indlela elula kakhulu yokunquma ukupela kwesipelingi. Kuye udinga ikhandlela lesonto nesitsha samanzi ahlanzekile. Ikhandlela kumele lichotshozwe futhi lichithelelwe ku-spoon. Ngaphezu kwalokho kuyadingeka kungakapheli imizuzu emithathu. gcina i-spoon ngaphambi komuntu (isithombe), bese uyisilisa phezu komthombo wokushisa bese uthele embizeni yamanzi. Uma i-wax iqinisile njengombalo oqinile, khona-ke ayikho isipelingi, uma lesi sibalo sinomqondo ongajwayelekile ngamagatsha ahlukene, lokhu kubonisa ukuba khona kwesipelingi.

Qinisekisa ukuthi isipele senziwe futhi ngokuzimela, ngoba ngenxa yalokhu ungathatha isithombe sakho uphinde uqhube imizila engenhla.