Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi manje abaningi banokungabaza ngemilingo ne-esotericism, imigqa yabaphili abahlukahlukene, iziqondiso kanye nabathakathi abayeki. Into ewukuthi lapho imizwa ikhulula amehlo, abaningi bazimisele ukwenza isenzo esinqunyiwe kodwa esingacatshangwa ngemiphumela eminingi: ukupela okuqinile kumyeni.
Iyini isipele kumyeni?
Njengomthetho, abesifazane basebenzisa isipelingi sothando ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo lapho owesifazane engaqiniseki ngokwabo, esaba injabulo yakhe yesifazane futhi enquma ukuthi indlela kuphela yokuyigcina ukudala ukubopha amandla.
Ngakho, yiziphi iziphonso:
- isipele somyeni ekudleni - kulokhu kuyadingeka ukuba uhlebeze emanzini, imikhiqizo noma izingxenye ezithile ucebe olukhethekile futhi ubondle umyeni;
- Ukupela kwendoda phezu kwezinwele kuyindlela eyinkimbinkimbi yokupheka eyenziwa besebenzisa izinwele ezisanda kunqunywa kusuka ekhanda noma kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba;
- i-spell yothando ngenye yezinhlamvu eziphikisana kakhulu, ezingenabuzwelo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, okubandakanya ukwengeza igazi lakho lokuya esikhathini sokudla komyeni.
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokuthandana ngothando kumyeni, kodwa nakuba incazelo yeminye imikhuba ibonakala elula, kungcono ukungathathi i-dilettante kubo - xhumana nochwepheshe. Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isinqumo esinjalo, kungcono ukujwayela imiphumela yeziphetho.
Umphumela wothando upela ngomyeni wakhe
Isaga sithi - "ngeke uziphoqe". Isenzo sopelo senzelwe ukubhubhisa isimo sengqondo somuntu sangempela, ukucindezela intando yakhe nokumphoqelela ukuba enze lokho ikhasimende lesenzo somlingo esizokwenza. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akuhlangene nokuzizwa. I-Privorot ayidali uthando lokufakelwa, lenza umuntu ahlupheke uma engekho nawe. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi uma efika kuwe, uzoyeka ukuhlupheka.
Ngakho-ke, imiphumela yesipelingi sokuthanda ikhasimende kanye "nesisulu":
- ngokuvamile kukhona ukungakwazi
babe nezingane, noma izingane zizalwa zigula; - isisulu sivame ukuphelisa impilo yakhe ngokuzibulala, singakwazi ukubhekana nokunciphisa intando;
- ukufihla ekusebenzeni kwesipelingi, izisulu ngokuvamile ziba izidakamizwa nezidakamizwa;
- ayikho injabulo kulesi sibhangqwana, ngoba ayizange ibe nokholo oluhle.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze umkhuba, cabanga zonke izinzuzo nezingozi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi umyeni wakho ususwe emndenini ngokusindiswa, khona-ke akudingeki ukwenze okunye, bese udutshulwa lowo obekwa kuso. Kunzima ukwenza lokhu ngokwakho, ezimweni ezinjalo kungcono ukufuna umuntu ongayenza.