Isibonakaliso "Ukulahlekelwa indandatho yokuzibandakanya"

Izwe ligcwele izimfihlakalo nezimfihlakalo, kodwa abaningi bakholelwa ekukholelweni kwezinkolelo noma emibhalweni yendawo yonke. Ngakho-ke, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abakhokhela lokho, kubalulekile ekuboneni kuqala, ukwamukela ngokuthi "Ukulahlekelwa indandatho yokuzibandakanya". Phela, izindandatho ngokwemvelo yazo zinomthelela omkhulu wezinkolelo kanye nezincazelo ezingavamile, ikakhulukazi uma ziyizipho zomshado.

Izimpawu mayelana namasongo omshado

Ngakho-ke, sibhala izibonakaliso ezahlukahlukene ezihambisana nalezi zesekeli.

1. Izindandatho zomshado kufanele zihlale zivela ensimbi efanayo futhi zingenalo ukudweba okuhlukile: awufuni ukuba nomshado oshade naye oshade naye.
2. Ngaphambi kokuzikhawula, susa amagilavu.
3. Khumbula ukuthi igolide igcina labo abasanda kushada bevela ezinhlobonhlobo zokuphazamiseka kokuphila, izifo ezimbi kanye nosizi. Khumbula ukuthi ezikhathini zesikhathi esidala, izindandatho zomshado zegolide zazigqokwa ngaphandle kokukhipha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zigqoke kuphela eminwebeni - umunwe welanga, okuwuphawu lothando oluhle.
4. Izimpawu mayelana ne-ring zixwayisa ukuthi akekho ongalinika indandatho. Wena empeleni awufisi ukunikeza injabulo yowesifazane nenhlalakahle kumuntu womunye umuntu?
5. Ngisho noma umshado wabazali bakho wawuyisibonelo, futhi bakunikezela izindandatho zabo - akunconywa ukuba uzigqoke, ngisho nalapho uncibilikile.
6. Abafelokazi bendandatho akufanele bagqoke hhayi ngakwesokunene, kodwa, maye, ngakwesobunxele.
7. Uma owesifazane ofelokazi ephindela okwesibili ngaphansi komqhele, khona-ke indandatho entsha yomshado igqoke ngakwesokunene sayo, futhi yini okusalayo yomshado wokuqala kufanele isuswe, ibeke endaweni ethile eyimfihlo. Futhi kunoma yikuphi, unganiki izingane ezinjalo indandatho. Lithinta ulwazi lwakho lwamandla ngaphakathi kwakho: ukudlulisa ubuhlobo obunjalo, ubhubhisa inzalo yakho esimweni somfelokazi.
8. Isibonakaliso esithi "I-Ring Lose" sisho esibaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi isibonakaliso esinjalo sithembisa ukuhlukaniswa nomthandekayo. Futhi, uma le ring is ukubandakanya, banakekele umshado wakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ngisho nezinkolelo-ze ezinjalo, ezifakwe engqondweni yabaningi njengezibi, zingalungiswa. Ngakho-ke, uma uthola ukulahlekelwa, gxila futhi uzame ukukhumbula ukuthi ungayifaka kuphi noma ukuphi lapho ugcine khona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, Amakholwa Adala athi amasongo ayathanda ama-brownies ahlala kuzo zonke izindlu. Kukholelwa ukuthi uzobadlala futhi abuyele.
Kodwa nokho, uma ukusesha kwehluleka, sincoma Ukuqala ukunciphisa ithonya elibi lale nkolelo. Udinga ukubuza umyeni owuthandayo ukuthi ususe indandatho endala, bese uthenge i-pair entsha. Ngaphezulu kwalowo omdala, kubalulekile ukufunda umthandazo okhethekile (lokhu kuzothathwa umpristi). Khona-ke indandatho inikezwa njengomnikelo ethempelini noma ungakwazi ukuyifihla ekuhloleni amehlo. Kunconywa futhi esontweni ukuthenga ikhandlela, ulibeke phambi kwesithonjana ngesithombe sikaJesu. Mcele ukuba axazulule le nkinga, ukuvikela umshado kusuka enhlekeleleni, ukubusisa abashadile.
9. Kodwa, uma othile elahlekelwe indandatho, ngokuqinisekile, ngokushesha noma kamuva, kodwa isibonakaliso esithi "Thola Inkinobho" sizokwenza empilweni yomunye. Ungagqoki izindandatho ezinjalo. Kungcono ukuncibilika kube ngomunye umkhiqizo, ngaleyo ndlela uhlanza izinsiza ezivela kwamandla angaphandle bese uvala uxhumano nomnikazi wangaphambili.