Kukholelwa ukuthi izihlobo noma abantu ababazi kahle lo mshonile, abakwazi ukugqoka izinto emva kokufa kwakhe. Ngakho-ke, konke okungasakazwa kubantu abahlukile abayidinga. Ngakho, izihlobo zisiza isihlobo esifikile ukuze sithole ukuthula kwengqondo. Lapha kubalulekile ukucabangela, kulokho umuntu afela khona. Izinto zingagcina amabhaktheriya namagciwane isikhathi eside. Kuyinto engafanele, futhi akuphephile ngisho nokushiya noma ukunikeza izinto ezinjalo kubantu.
Kukholelwa ukuthi izinto zingabona amandla omuntu abengobani. Kukhona ukungabaza - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukugqoka izinto emva komuntu oshonile. Kukhona ukwesaba amandla amabi - izinto zithumela i-karma. Kumuntu oshonile jikelele kungaba nesimo sengqondo esikhethekile. Isibonelo, uma kuyinto engakhohlwayo okukukhumbuza uxhumano oluthandayo, kodwa olufile oluthandekayo. Kodwa, njengoba wazi, umuntu uhlala isikhathi eside njengoba akhunjulwa kuleli zwe.
Yini okudingeka uyikhumbule?
Ngezinye izikhathi isikhumbuzo esengeziwe salowo oshonile sikhathaza kakhulu abafuywayo. Kunezinkinga eziningi ezihlobene nezinto, kodwa ukukhathazeka ngokuthi ungakwazi yini ukuthwala izinto emva komfowenu oshonile, umfowethu, umlingisi, ngoba nje lezi zinto ziyizinto zomuntu oshonile, akufanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwesaba. Lokhu kuwubuqaba. Kungcono ukudlulisa izinto njenge-charity, ukwenza umsebenzi wokusiza.
Kubalulekile ukuthi izihlobo eziseduze zomuntu oshonile zinqobe isivinini sengqondo. Nguye ovimbelayo obangela ukwesaba okuhlobene nokufa . Ukukhuluma ngokufa akuvunyelwanga, kepha ukuvimbela kwengqondo okuhlobene nezinto zomuntu oshonile kususwe kalula. Kulezizinto udinga ukulahla, ukuze ungazitholi izinkumbulo, hhayi ukusola ukushona komunye umuntu.
Nini futhi kungani ungakwazi ukuphatha izinto zomuntu oshonile?
Izazi zengqondo ziyazi amacala lapho abantu abaseduze belahlekelwa ukuthintana neqiniso, bawela ekucindezelekeni, behlushwa isifo sengqondo. Futhi konke ngenxa yokwehluleka ukwamukela iqiniso. Babengafuni ukuhlukanisa nezinto zomuntu oshonile, becabanga ukuthi babelokhu bexhumana naye. Vumela futhi ezingeni lomzwelo-kwengqondo.
Lapho ugcina amasiko, lapho izihlobo zizama ukusabalalisa izinto zomuntu oshonile, imiphumela enjalo ayitholakali. Izazi zengqondo azicebisi ukuzwa umcimbi odabukisayo wedwa. Lapho wonke umuntu encibilika nxazonke, ematasa emingcwabeni, ehambisa izinto, ehlangana nezihlobo eziseduze nezikude, iqiniso lokufa ngokwalo lenza kube nzima ukunakwa.
Amathiphu amaningi
Abefundisi bezinkolo ezahlukene nabo banombono okhethekile ngemvelo yezinto. Isibonelo, umpristi wama-Orthodox uzokululeka ukuba ufafaze izinto ngamanzi angcwelisiwe. Kuyinto evamile ukuba amaSulumane asakaze izinto zomuntu oshonile ukuze athole isibusiso somphefumulo. Noma kunjalo, ukwesaba kwenkohlakalo neso elibi, okungasakazwa ngezinto, sekugxilwe ngokuqinile engqondweni ye-philistine. Iseluleko esinjalo singasebenza lapha.
- Ukugqoka izinto emva komuntu oshonile kungenzeka uma kuzifundo zezimo ezihloniphekile - azikho ukungathandi, ukwesaba, ukuzonda. Uma udinga ukulahla izinto, akukho okukuvimbela.
- Izambatho zekhwalithi, izingubo, izicathulo, ubucwebe kufanelekile.
- Izinto zensimbi zingathengiswa.
Izinto ngaphakathi kwazo azibe yingozi yangempela. Kulabo abafayo bonke abahlala endlini badinga izinto eziningi ezidingekayo nezingadingekile. Mhlawumbe, okuningi kwalesi skarba kwakuhloselwe izihlobo. Ngokujwayelekile abantu bafunda ngakho kusukela embhedeni womuntu ogulayo obulalayo, osakwazi ukwenza imiyalo ethile mayelana nempahla yakhe.
Ngokuvumelana nezinkolelo zenkolo, kubalulekile ukusabalalisa izinto kuze kube usuku lwamashumi amane. Ngakho oshonile uzothola ithuba lokuthola iminikelo ngezihlobo ukuze athole isihe nokuthethelelwa ezweni elizayo. Yingakho ungakwazi ukugqoka izinto zomuntu oshonile.
Yiqiniso, ngezinye izimo kuzodingeka ubhekane nesikhathi eside. Isibonelo, ngokuhlukaniswa kwempahla, ifa. Izinto zasekhaya ezijwayelekile azithakazelanga kakhulu. Nakuba isimo sihlukile. Futhi ukuze kungabi nesilingo sokuwela ezinkolelo-ze noma ukuthola i-neurosis, kungcono ukumane usakaze into ongakaze uyenze.