Ukuze uchaze amaphupho ngabantu abafile, kubalulekile ukucabangela ezinye izimo. Ngisho nemininingwane encane kakhulu ingathinta kakhulu ulwazi lokugcina. Okubaluleke kakhulu nakho izenzakalo ezenzeka empilweni yangempela. Uma uhlaziya ngokucophelela leli phupho futhi ucabangele konke okungenhla, ungaqala ukuhumusha.
Abantu abafile baphupha ngani?
Ngokuvamile amaphupho lapho umuntu oshonile ephuphe khona yizinkumbulo kanye nokubonakaliswa kosizi. Uma ukhuluma nomuntu ofile, ibhuku lephupho likhuthaza ukuthi ulalele amagama, ngoba angase abe namacebo nezeluleko ezinhle. Iphupho, lapho ubona khona abantu abaziwa ngaphambili bephila, kuyinhloko yezinhlanhla. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzobe uhambisane nenhlanhla, kodwa kuphela endaweni eyodwa, lapho, kufike kuwe. Umhumushi wephupho, lapho indoda efile ephupha ebhokisini, ihumusha ukuthi ingozi yezinkinga ezihlukahlukene, ezingasongela ngisho nokuphila. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele futhi uqaphele kakhulu. Uma wenza imizamo yokuvuselela umuntu oshonile - lokhu kuyisixwayiso ukuthi kuzodingeka ubhekane nezinkinga zakudala. Kuyafaneleka ukuzihlanganisa ndawonye bese uxazulula ngokuthula konke. Abantu abangajwayelekile abangafelwayo bayamahloni okuthola usizo oluvela engalindelekile.
Kuyothakazelisa ukwazi ukuthi kungani abantu abafile abazungezwe nxazonke bephupha. Kulokhu, ibhuku lephupho lithi maduzane uzogonywa izinkinga eziningi ezindaweni ezahlukene. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha, kukhona ulwazi lokuthi amaphupho abantu abafile abangela izinkinga emkhakheni wezezimali nezemisebenzi.
Uma umuntu ofile ephupha umuntu ophilayo ngendlela enhle - lokhu kuyisimangaliso esihle, okufanekisela impilo enhle. Ukuze umbone edabukile, kusho ukuthi maduzane uzolindela izinkinga eziningi. Uma uhlala etafuleni nabantu abafile bese uzama ukubondla - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle esithembisa isimo esiqinile sezezimali nenjabulo emndenini. Umhumushi wephupho, lapho umuntu oshonile evame ukuphupha ngokuphila, ahumushe, njengokuba khona empilweni yakhe enomuzwa wecala mayelana nezenzo ezenziwa esikhathini esidlule. Uma ubona isithombe nabafileyo - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokulangazelela laba bantu. Umbono webusuku lapho oshonile ebiza khona ukuthi uyisibonakaliso esingathandeki esithembisa ukugula okungathí sina noma ukufa.