Noma yimuphi umuntu unamaphutha. Omunye ubaphathe ngokuthula, othile uzama ukufihla konke ngamandla akhe onke, abe namahloni kakhulu ngenxa yokungapheleli kwabo. Kancane kancane lesi simo siphuthumayo, futhi umuntu ukhulisa izakhiwo . Izazi zengqondo zibafanelekela njengokungaziphambuka okuthile kusuka esimweni esijwayelekile, kuze kube ngaphansi noma ngaphezulu. Esikhathini esilandelayo, isiguli singase sidinge ukwelashwa okunzulu.
Psychology of complexes
Izinkimbinkimbi zizibonakalisa ngokwazo ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kungabonakali nhlobo, kodwa njengoba ukuqhubekela phambili kuqhubekela phambili, ukuphutha kuzoholela ekusebenziseni izinzwa, ukuphazamiseka, ukucindezeleka, ukuhlaselwa okungaqondakali kokuhlukunyezwa, njalonjalo. Ngakho-ke, kunoma yikuphi, izinkimbinkimbi zabantu zibhekwa njengento engalungile.
Izizathu zokubonakala kwazo zingaba:
- imfundo engalungile;
- ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo;
- Indoda ehlosiwe, ukucindezeleka;
- ukungqubuzana kokuziphatha - uma umuntu ephoqeleka ukuba enze okuthile okubalulekile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo izinkolelo zakhe zingena ukuphikisana okungekho emthethweni nezinhloso;
- ngokuvamile, isimo sengqondo esibi ngokuphathelene nokuphila.
Izinhlobo zinkimbinkimbi
Okuvame kakhulu kuyinkimbinkimbi encane, ngoba ngamunye wethu unento engathandi kuye futhi angathanda ukulungisa noma ngisho nokususa. Lokhu kungaba uhlobo oluthile lwesici somlingiswa, nokubukeka, nesimo somphakathi, njll.
Kodwa-ke, kunezinye izinhlobo eziningi zezinkimbinkimbi, isibonelo, i- "antipode" yokuphambuka okungenhla kuyinkimbinkimbi yokuphakama. Kubonakala ngokuzethemba okuzenzekelayo, lapho umuntu eqiniseka ukuthi uyindoda ephakeme kunazo zonke kuzo zonke izici, ngakho-ke uziphatha ngokufanele - ngokuzidla, ngokuzidela, ngokungahloniphi. Ezinye izinhlobo:
- Inkimbinkimbi yobutha nokuvikelwa.
- Inkimbinkimbi yecala.
- I-Oedipus complex kanye nendawo ehlukile ye-Electra .
- I-Peter Pan ixakile emadodeni nasezindlini zeCinderella kwabesifazane.
- Umfel 'ukholo onzima (noma isisulu), njll.
Ungakwazi ukubhala isikhathi eside.
Izakhiwo zebesifazane
Izingqinamba zengqondo zengxenye enhle yesintu njengento yonke zibonakalisa ngendlela efanayo nabo bonke abanye, kodwa izinga lomzwelo lizophakama. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kochwepheshe, abesifazane bavame ukuhlukunyezwa ngokubukeka kwabo kanye nokubekwa kwemingcele ebuhlotsheni. Futhi uma okokuqala kwenzeka ukwehlukana kwenzeke kaningi ebusheni futhi kudlule esikhathini sokukhula, ekugcineni, ngokuphambene nalokho, bavame ukutholakala lapho bekhulile - emva komshado ongaphumeleli, inkaba.