Isixuku esimhlophe siyinyoni engavamile kakhulu, ngakho-ke abantu abawela ngokuqinile emphakathini nasezindleleni zokuziphatha zomphakathi kuthiwa lokho. Kusukela emashumini eminyaka edlule ama-albino izikhukhula ziye zaba yinto engavamile kakhulu, singakwazi ukukhuluma kabanzi nge-phraseology. Kungani abantu bakhetha isithombe esinjalo: ngentando yabo noma ngokuzalwa?
Kusho ukuthini "ukukhala okumhlophe"?
Inkulumo ethi "isikhala esimhlophe" isetshenziswe ngezincazelo ezimbili:
- Ezweni lemvelo - ukukhala kwe-albino. I-albinism i-anomaly, izidalwa ezinesifo esifanayo zibhekwa njengezikhethekile.
- Umkhumbi omhlophe emphakathini ubuntu obuvela esixukwini ngokubukeka, ukuthanda, imikhuba nokuziphatha.
Izimpungushe ezimhlophe emvelweni azihambisani kahle, kunzima ukuba zifihlwe ezidumbini ngenxa yemifula yazo ekhanyayo. Abafani nabanye. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi imvelaphi ye-phraseology "i-white crow", ngakho yaqala ukubiza abantu ngendlela engavamile ekuziphatheni, okuvela esixukwini ngemikhuba yabo nokubukwa. Le nkulumo ihambelana nezinhlobo ezimbili zobuntu be- polar:
- Abaculi, abalobi, ososayensi, abahlala ezweni labo lemisindo, izithombe nemicabango.
- Abantu bayisiphukuphuku futhi banomqondo omncane, abanesilonda kakhulu noma abanzima ukuphakama ezingeni elijwayelekile.
"I-White Crow" - i-psychology
Njengengqikithi, le nkulumo isithole uhlelo lokusebenza kwengqondo. Ngezindinganiso ze-psychology, "isikhala esimhlophe" ngumuntu umphakathi obheka njengento engekho ngenxa yokungafani kwabanye. Lokhu akukhona ngokubukeka, kodwa mayelana nemigomo yokuziphatha nokuhlola okwenzekayo. Ngokuvamile, le ndlela yokuziphatha ikhethwa abantu abasha noma abantu abadala ukuze bazibikezele, ukuze baqaphele. Izici zezici zabantu abanjalo:
- Musa ukufihla imibono yabo, umahluko owakwamukelekile futhi uyaziqhenya;
- abafuni ukwamukela izinkolelo zomphakathi ukuze baphumelele ngokwabo;
- abonise ukuphikiswa kwabo emigomeni yomphakathi.
Ingabe kulula ukuba "izimvu ezimnyama"?
"I-White Crow" yindoda enezici zobuntu bakhe , ngokungafani nonconformist, umuntu onjalo akazibekeli umgomo wokuma ngaphandle, ubheka nje ukuthi izindinganiso zakhe zokuziphatha zilungile kakhulu. Ngaso sonke isikhathi, abantu abanjalo baye baba nobunzima, ngoba:
- awaziqondi, aphuthele futhi avame ukudelela;
- zama ukucindezela umuntu;
- bodwa noma bathola abangane phakathi kwabantu abanjalo;
- umbono wabo unganakwa yiziningi.
Kuthiwani uma "uphuphu omhlophe"?
Abazali abaningi banesithakazelo kulo mbuzo: indlela yokuphila "isikhala esimhlophe"? Izingane ngokwazo azigcini isikhathi eside ngenxa yedwa, ngezinye izikhathi intsha iyabonisa ukungafani kwabo. Futhi unina nobaba bakhathazekile ngokuthi ingane izohlelwa kanjani lapho isikhulile. Ngokuvamile, nabantu abadala bayabhekene nokuhluleka kwabo ukuzivumelanisa nomphakathi. Izazi zengqondo zinikeza izincomo ezinjalo:
- Ungaphathi kahle imvelo yakho, ugcine umusa, thola imibono yabanye;
- ukuphawula lokho okungafundwa kwabanye;
- ukuveza ngokuthula isimo sabo, ngaphandle kokuthukuthela kanye nezigwebo zesigaba;
- uma inkinga isici esingokomzimba, njengokukhula okukhulu noma okuncane, ungayishintsha ibe yisithunzi. Bhalisela izifundo ze-model, basketball noma uye esitolo sokugqoka esincane;
- ujwayele ubuntu bakho, wamukele futhi uzithande njengoba ukhona.
Ungaba kanjani "izimvu ezimnyama"?
Ukuwela esigabeni salabo ababizwa ngokuthi "izimvu ezimnyama" kulula kakhulu, kuzolungela ukuveza imibono ephikisana kakhulu nezikhundla ezivunyelwe ngokuvamile, ukushintsha isitayela sokugqoka, ukugqoka izinwele kanye nendlela yokukhuluma. Ukunciphisa iselula, i-iphone, i-iphone, amakhasi ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, ukubonisa ukuzimela kwabo emithethweni. Nakuba nje nje isimo se-Intanethi siqala ukuhlukanisa umqondo we "crow crow" enhle, uma kuziwa ebhizinisini kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Iseluleko okudingeki ungesabi ngokuba "izimvu ezimnyama":
- ukuza nomqondo wangempela wesikhangiso sakho;
- ukumangala izilaleli ngesiphakamiso esithakazelisayo;
- Ungesabi ukumema ukuvakashela nokuxhumana;
Umfanekiso we-White Crow
I-plumage yokukhanya eyingqayizivele yanikeza umdwebo ofundisayo ngesikhumba esimhlophe. Kusukela esemncane, wayengathandwanga umbala ongajwayelekile, ngakho washeshe wakhula. Lesi sikhwama sasizondwa ngabaningi, kodwa wayengenakuqonda ukuthi kungani futhi kungani. Benza amaqhinga angcolile, kodwa inyoni yaphendula ngomusa, futhi ukuxhumana kancane, yaqala ukuphakama phezulu esibhakabhakeni, kude nezihlobo. Ukuphila kwesikhumba esimhlophe kwakunzima, kepha wakhula, onamandla, okwakunomona omkhulu.
Futhi lapho iqhubu elimhlophe lithatha ukuhamba ngezinyawo ukuze lifune izinyoni ezimhlophe njengaye, ngakho wamukelwa emhlambini omusha. Futhi ngemva kokunyamalala kwenyoni emhlophe, abanye bawazisa izimfanelo zabo futhi baqala ukuzisola ngamaphutha abo. Ukuziphatha kwalesi sithombe ukuthi akudingeki ukwesaba ukuba ngokwakho, ukugcina ukuziqhenya nesithunzi, ukwazi ukufuna abantu abafana nomqondo futhi ungalokothi uzame ekugcineni komunye umuntu.