Ukucwasana - kuyini, yini eyingozi futhi enempilo?

Ezinkolweni zomhlaba, ukuxhumana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane akuyona isono, uma kujabulisa uNkulunkulu futhi kuvunywe nguye. Ama-Adepts abazinikezele eNkosini, bavame ukwenza isifungo sokuzibophezela, ukuba bazihlukanise nezinto eziyize. Ibizwa ngokuthi i-celibacy, bonke abapristi abazi, kodwa akubona bonke abaphoqelekile ukuyigcina.

Ukucwasana - kuyini?

Ukwehlukanisa kuyisifungo sokuphoqelela isibopho ngenxa yezizathu zenkolo. Leligama livela egameni lesiLatini elithi caelibatus, okusho ukuthi "ongashadile." Izithembiso ezinjalo zivela ezikhathini zobuhedeni futhi zisakazwa emhlabeni jikelele.

1. Ama-monks aseBuddha ayenqaba ukudala umndeni ekukhuleni okungokomoya .
2. EbuHindu, isifungo sithatha isimo esingapheli noma sesikhashana sokulahla ucansi.
3. Ngisho nabapristikazi baseRoma basendulo onkulunkulukazi uVesta babamukela izifungo ze-celibacy.
4. Wonke amaKatolika, ngaphandle kwamadikoni, kumele angashadile.
5. Amakhogi ase-Orthodox kuphela nabapristi abangashadile bangaba ababhishobhi bama-Orthodox.

Ukucwasa kwabantu

Ngenxa yezizathu zomuntu siqu noma ngezizathu zenkolo, umuntu angakwazi ukuhlala e-bachelor futhi ngokuzithandela aholele indlela yokuphila yama-asexual. Akudingekile ukuthi ube nompristi ngalokhu - noma ngubani ongathatha isifungo sokungathembeki, eqondiswa umbono wakhe ngokuphathelene "nokufaneleka" kokuphila. Ukwehlukaniswa kwamadoda ukulahla zonke izinjabulo zenyama, isiqinisekiso sokugcina amandla enyama futhi (uma inkolo ibandakanyeka) ithuba lokusondela eNkosini ngaphandle kokubeka umndeni endleleni.

Ukucwasa abesifazane

Abamele abesilisa ababuthakathaka nabo bangazinikele ekuziqeleni futhi baphile impilo ehlanzekile ngokuzidela kuNkulunkulu noma othandekayo. Namuhla abesifazane baseYurophu nabesifazane abaningi baseNdiya banqabe ngokuzithandela ukushada. Bathuthukisa inyama, bakhonza uNkulunkulu nabantu: bafundisa, bafundiswa ezikoleni, bahlanganyela ezinkomfa zenkolo futhi bafunda ngokuzikhandla, bazindla futhi baholele imidwebo yokomoya. Kubalulekile ukungabi esikhundleni semibono, ngoba owesifazane ogcina ukukhohlakala akugcini nje ukulahla ubugqila basekhaya nokuzithoba kumuntu. Uthola ukuvumelana esimweni sakhe.

Ukucwasa ngokwe-Orthodoxy

I-Orthodoxy ingenye yezinkolo ezikhuthaza umshado nokuzidela ngokuzithandela. Ukukhathazeka yilokho ngokusakaza izimiso ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha, le mibono isekelwe engokomoya elilodwa. Ngemuva kweMkhandlu Wesithupha Wama-Ecumenical (ngo-680-681), kwakhiwa isimo sengqondo esikhethekile emnyangweni womshado. Kuhilela umhlatshelo, isimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha umndeni, ukuvuthwa. ISonto Lama-Orthodox alivimbeli umvelo wothando, ukukhiqiza, ukudala imindeni, nokunamathela kule mithetho elandelayo:

1. Bonke abefundisi bahlukaniswe baba mhlophe (bavunyelwe ukuba nomndeni) futhi bamnyama (abangavunyelwe).
2. Umshado uvunyelwe uma kuqala kunikwa abapristi noma amadikoni.
3. Ababhishobhi bakhethwa kuphela kubangashadile (abafundisi abamnyama).
4. Isibopho sokungathembeki phakathi kwama-Orthodox singathathwa kokubili okwesikhashana nangokuphila.

Kungani kungabikho ukwehlukana?

Ukubuza lo mbuzo, yikuphi ukuhlabalala, abantu abaningi bazama ukuqonda ukuthi yini umgomo wawo oyinhloko. Kwezinye izivivinyo kuyadingeka, kwabanye akusho. Imigomo ebekiwe ihluke kuye ngokuvumelana nalabo abasebenzisa lo mkhuba, nokuthi ngabe ukuzilahla ngokomzimba noma kokuziphatha kuyabonakala.

1. Ezinkolweni zaseNtshonalanga, isifungo sokungathembeki sinikezwa ngenxa kaKristu. Ufundisa ukuthobeka kumuntu futhi uvula indlela eya eNkosini.
2. Ezimfundisweni ezisempumalanga, kuyindlela yokuthola ukukhanya okungokomoya.
3. Ukuziqeda isisekelo se-yoga. Ukuzindla nokufisa akuhambisani.

Ukucwasa - kuhle nokubi

Isimo sengqondo sesifungo sokungathembeki ezweni lonke sehlukile, seshintshwe amakhulu eminyaka. Futhi namuhla kunabasekeli nabaphikisi be-"bachelor system". Abapristi bamaKatolika kudingeka baqaphele ukuzinza okunzima, kodwa maduzane lolu daba lwakhuliswa ngamandla, njengoba amalungu esonto athi: ukuyeka ukuphoqeleka kunomthelela omubi emsebenzini wabafundisi. I-celibacy yama-Orthodox inokwethenjelwa kakhulu, kodwa lapha kungaba khona ukuhumusha okuhlukile.

Ukusetshenziswa kwe-celibacy

Ukwehlisa isimo esidingekayo sokukhula ngokomoya. Abapristi basondelene noNkulunkulu kunabantu abahlala "emhlabeni." Bazibamba kuzo zonke izibusiso, izifiso, injabulo futhi abafaki muntu (noma umfazi, noma abantwana) phakathi kwabo kanye neNkosi. Kuyini ukuphanga kubapristi? Isikhathi sakho, ukuthandaza nokuzindla emgodini ophakeme. Uma ucabanga ngomqondo wokuzithiba ngokocansi, ungathola ama-pluses:

1. Ngalo mqondo, ukuxolisa kuyisiqinisekiso sokugcina amandla angaphakathi omuntu, amangqamuzana omzimba nobuchopho.
2. Njengobungqina bokuthi ukugcinwa kwenzalo kunomphumela omuhle emqondweni, kuholele abacabangi abakhulu njengoPlato, u-Aristotle, uPythagoras, uLeonardo da Vinci, uNewton, uBeethoven nabanye. Bahola impilo yokuzilahla.
3. Kunengqondo ukugwema ubuhlobo bobulili obuphathekayo hhayi kuphela ebusheni, kodwa futhi ekuvuthweni. Lokhu kuzolondoloza isimo sempilo nokuziphatha komuntu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili.

Ukucwasa - ukulimala

Kuyiphutha ukukholelwa ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kuyakulahla zonke izinkolo zezwe. Isimo sengqondo esibi ngesifungo sokungabikho ubuJuda, ngoba eBhayibhelini kunqunywe - abantu kudingeka "bande futhi bande." Ama-Anglican namaProthestani amaningi akhetha nabapristi abashadile. Ingxabano eyinhloko ehola abantu abangawamukeli ukuxhaswa: yikuphi lokhu kufundisa, okuphikisana nemisebenzi yemvelo, izidingo zomuntu. Kukhona nezinye izinkinga:

1. Ukungabikho komuntu obuseduze kungaholela ezifweni zesifo sofuzo: i-prostatitis, i-atrophy yemisipha ye-pelvic, umdlavuza, njll.
2. Ngenxa yokuntula ukuphumula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kuba imbangela yezinkimbinkimbi, izifiso ezifihliwe. Ngezinye izikhathi kubangela ukuthunyelwa kobugebengu.
3. I-Clyus celibacy ingabantu kuphela abakulungele lokhu. Udinga ukuthobeka kanye nesinqumo sakho sokuzithandela.
4. Ukuchaza ngokungaqondile imfundiso, abanye bapristi babona ukuxhunywa kwesono nomfazi futhi baba muzhetozhtsami. Kunezimo eziningi lapho abapristi bamaKatolika bekhohlisa izingane, ukuze nje bagweme isifiso sabo.
5. Okunye ukulala ocansini ngokushaya indlwabu, okuyisono.

Ungayithatha kanjani indlela yokuqapha?

Uma umuntu ezimisele ukudela impilo yakhe ukuze afeze imigomo yakhe, uyazibuza: kanjani ukuthatha isifungo sokungathembeki? Akudingekile ukuthi lokhu kufike kwizindwendwe, ukwenza ezinye izinqubo. Uma umqondo wokuphila unjengokuthi akukho ndawo yomndeni nobuhlobo kuwo, umuntu - owesifazane noma indoda - angakwazi ngokuzithandela ukuya kulo mhlatshelo. Isifungo sinikezwa ngaphambi kwesithonjana. Isikhulumi siphendukela kuNkulunkulu, sithembisa ukuthi singalokothi sibe nobuhlobo futhi sihlale singangcolile (singangcolile) kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku zakhe.