Ukufa kungenakugwemeka, sonke sizokufa ngolunye usuku, kepha akusiwo wonke umuntu othinteka ngokulinganayo ukunakekelwa kwabathandekayo babo. Omunye wabaphenyi okuhlangenwe nakho kokufa kwabulawa u-Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, udokotela owaletha izigaba ezinhlanu zokufa. Bonke abantu babo bazizwa ngendlela yabo, kuye ngokuthi amandla esimo sabo siphila .
Izigaba ezinhlanu zokufa
Lokhu kufaka:
- Yeka . Ngesikhathi umuntu ekwaziswa ngokufa komuntu othandekayo, akakholelwa kulokho okwenzekile. Futhi noma ngabe othandekayo uye waya kwelinye izwe ezandleni zakhe, uqhubeka ekholelwa ukuthi ulele futhi uzovuka ngokushesha. Ungakwazi ukukhuluma naye, ukulungiselela ukudla, futhi ungashintshi lutho ekamelweni lomuntu oshonile.
- Intukuthelo . Kulesi sigaba sokwamukela ukufa kwabathandekayo, abantu bayathukuthela futhi bashiswe. Uthukuthelele umhlaba wonke, ikusasa ne-karma, ubuza umbuzo: "Kungani lokhu kwenzeka kimi? Kungani nginecala kangaka? "Uhambisa umzwelo wakhe kumuntu oshonile, emangalela ukuthi ushiye masinyane, eshiya abathandekayo bakhe, ukuthi angaphila, njll.
- Yenza noma uxoxe . Ngalesi sigaba, umuntu ngokuphindaphindiwe upheqa ekhanda ukufa komuntu othandekayo futhi udonse izithombe ezingavimbela inhlekelele. Uma kwenzeka ukushayeka kwezindiza, ucabanga ukuthi umuntu akakwazanga ukuthenga ithikithi yale ndege, shiya kamuva, njll. Uma othandekayo eshona,
bese uvala izingcingo kuNkulunkulu, ucela ukugcina umuntu obizayo futhi uthathe indawo yakhe, isibonelo, umsebenzi. Bathembisa ukuthuthukisa, ukuba ngcono, uma othandekayo kuphela esiseduze. - Ukucindezeleka . Kulesi sigaba sokwamukela ukufa komuntu othandekayo, umzuzwana wokuphelelwa ithemba, ukuphelelwa ithemba, ukufutheka nokuzihawukela kuza. Umuntu ekugcineni uqala ukubona ukuthi kwenzekani, ukuqonda isimo. Zonke izifiso namaphupho ziyawa, ukuqonda kuvela ukuthi manje ukuphila ngeke kube okufanayo futhi kuyo ngeke kube yintandokazi nomuntu othandekayo kakhulu.
- Ukwamukelwa . Kulesi sigaba, umuntu uthola iqiniso elingenakugwemeka, livumelanisa nokulahlekelwa futhi libuyele empilweni ejwayelekile.