Ukufa komuntu othandekayo kungukulahlekelwa okukhulu, okungeke kunqobe ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukusinda ekulahlekelweni komama, osondelene kakhulu nomuntu ngamunye. Ngisho noma umuntu enesimo esiphezulu sengqondo nokuziphatha okuhle, kusathatha isikhathi ukuqaphela ukulahlekelwa nokwakha impilo ngaphandle komama ofile.
Ngesikhathi sokudabuka, umuntu ufuna ukusinda ekufeni komama wakhe futhi angaphuli. Kodwa-ke, kunoma yikuphi, kufanele alungiselele ukuthi inqubo yokuthola kabusha ngeke ibe lula. Imizwelo enzima, ubuhlungu, ukudumala, izinyembezi, isimo sokukhungatheka - konke lokhu kusadingeka kudlule. Kodwa-ke, kuzofika isikhathi lapho uzothola khona futhi uqaphele ukuthi impilo iyaqhubeka. Ngemuva kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukufa kukukhulula umuntu ofile. Futhi asinalo muntu ngokwakhe, kodwa ukuthi ngeke esasempilweni yethu.
Amathiphu wezengqondo, indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama
Labo abaye babhekana nokulahlekelwa othandekayo, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuthi ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo ngemuva kokucindezeleka okukhulu kwenzeka ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye. Lesi yisikhathi esithathayo ukuba izinkumbulo zomuntu oshonile ziyeke ukuba zibuhlungu. Izazi zengqondo zinikeza iseluleko esinjalo kubantu abasinda ekufeni komuntu othandekayo:
- okokuqala emva kokulahlekelwa kungcono ukuthi ungahlali wodwa, makabe kukhona abantu abaseduze osondelene nabo futhi uhlanganyele ezinkumbulo ndawonye;
- ukuthatha inhlangano yomngcwabo nezinye izinkinga zansuku zonke ezidinga ukuxazululwa - lokhu kuzosiza ukuphazamisa emicabangweni edabukisayo;
- zivumele izinsuku ezimbalwa ukulila nokukhala;
- Shayela udokotela ukuba anikeze imishanguzo enomphumela omuhle ozokusiza ukuba usinde ezikhathini ezinzima;
- Ungavumeli ubuhlungu ngotshwala, ngoba kuzophazamisa inqubo yokubuyisa i-psyche futhi ngeke inikeze inzuzo egcwele ebuhlungu futhi uthi yikuhle;
- shintsha isimo, uthathe iholidi emsebenzini;
- sebenze;
- indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama ingafundiswa esilulekweni salabo abaye balahlekelwa yibo abathandekayo futhi bangasikisela ukuthi umuntu angaphila kanjani ukulahleka;
- hhayi ukugwema ukuxhumana, uphakathi kwabantu;
- Ngemva kwesikhashana, izinto zomuntu oshonile kufanele zisuswe ekubukeni ukuze zimise ukugeleza kwezinkumbulo;
- Uma ufuna ukuvakashela ethuneni lomuntu oshonile, akufanele uzivimbele;
- uma imizwelo inamandla kakhulu, futhi umuntu akakwazi ukubhekana nawo, kufanele axoxe nomuthi ozosiza ochwepheshe.
Amaphilisi umfundisi, indlela yokusinda ekufeni komama
I-Orthodoxy inombono wayo ngendlela yokusinda ekufeni komama noma abanye abantu abaseduze. Isiko lobuKristu likhuluma ngokufa njengokuguqula impilo entsha. Umuntu ofileyo uyeka ukuhlupheka kuleli zwe eliyisono futhi athole ithuba lokuya ezulwini.
- Abapristi babheka ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuyala emva kokufa komuntu u- sorokoust wokuphumula komphefumulo wakhe kanye ne-requiem.
- Iphuzu elibalulekile embuzweni wokuthi ungaphila kanjani umama, e-Orthodoxy, unikezwa emthandazweni nasekufundeni i-Psalter. Emthandazweni kubalulekile ukucela uNkulunkulu amandla nokuthula kwengqondo ukuze uthobe ngokuthobeka ukulahleka.
- Ngaphezu kwalokho, kutuswa ukuba uvakashele isonto lobu-Orthodox phakathi nesevisi naphakathi kwezinsizakalo, ukuze uthole ukuthula okungokomoya okungaphezulu nokuhlakanipha kokuphila kwesikhathi esizayo.
- Naphezu kokuthi ukufa komuntu othandekayo kuyisihlungu esikhulu kithi, kubhekwa njengokungalungile ukumtshela isikhathi eside. Omunye kufanele abonge uNkulunkulu ngokusinika abantu abanjalo abalungile, ngaphandle kwalokho esingathandi ukuhlala khona. Umuntu ofile kufanele ahambe, ngoba kuyintando yoPhezukonke ukuthi kufanele ashiye izwe lesono.
- Ekukhunjweni komuntu oshonile, kunconywa ukwenza imisebenzi emihle kanye nokusizwa okunokwenzeka.