Ukuchaza ubuhlobo phakathi kwabantu, sivame ukusebenzisa ukusebenzisa izinkulumo ezifana nokuthi: "umphefumulo uhlala emphefumulweni," njll. Inkulumo yethu ivumela ukuthi sikwazi ukuchaza izinto ezincane zokuxhumana kwabantu. Ngakho-ke, u-Ausra Augustinavichiute, ngokusekelwe ku-Jung's typology, wahlakulela inkolelo yokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu.
Ithebula lezinhlobo zokuxhumana libonisa incazelo yobudlelwano phakathi kwabameleli bezenhlalo ezahlukene. Ngokwale mbono, kunezinhlobo ezingu-14 zokuxhumana.
Inkolelo yokusebenzelana kwezihlobo, isetshenziswe emphakathini, kusiza ukubikezela izinga lokuvumelana phakathi kobuhlobo obusolwa phakathi kwabalingani bezinhlobo ezimbili.
Cabangela ukuhlukaniswa kobudlelwane bomphakathi.
Ubuhlobo besimiso
- okubili - ubudlelwane lapho kutholakala khona ukusekela, ukuqonda okuhambisanayo kubusa. Ubudlelwane obufanele umshado, ubungane;
- ukusebenza - ukwandisa umsebenzi wabalingani;
- okufanayo - abalingani abanama-half-words baqondana;
- ubuhlobo obubili-obuhle - ubuhlobo obuhle;
- Isibuko - okungcono kakhulu kuzoba uma abalingani bezoxhumana nabo kuphela, kodwa futhi namanye amalungu e-quadra;
- okuphambene ngqo - abalingani bahlolisisa izimo ezifanayo;
- Izimpawu ezingezansi - azikho izingxabano ebuhlotsheni, ikakhulukazi izimpikiswano ezingenangqondo;
- izingxabano - ubudlelwane bokuphikisana okuqhubekayo. Kuzo ungenza ulwazi oluzimele;
- ahlobene - abalingani bafana nomunye nomunye, kepha abanakho ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile;
- superego - ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo, lapho nonke nikhathalelana;
- isimangaliso - ubuhlobo abukwazi ukusekela ngokuziphatha.
Ukungalingani.
- Umlawuli futhi ulawulwa: lo wesifazane uzizwa engakhululekile. Isilawuli sakhe sinake kakhulu, ngoba ugxila ekuhloseni kakhulu izinto zokulawula.
- Isimo sengqondo sohlelo lomphakathi. Ukuhlelwa okuncane kunesidingo isikhathi esithile ukushiya ikhasimende.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi lesi sigaba sinikeza ukhiye oyingqayizivele osiza ekusunguleni ubuhlobo. Uma ubona okuthile okufanayo okuchazwe ebuhlotsheni bakho, lokhu kuyisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuthi uqinisekise ukuvumelanisa nomphefumulo wakho womshado, kodwa futhi ukuthola ithuba lokuzithuthukisa.