Umuntu ohlala kahle, uhlangabezana nazo zonke izithiyo endleleni yakhe. Lokhu kukhetha wonke umuntu ukuthi angaphila kanjani-ukuze abe umdali ophumelelayo wekusasa labo noma ukuhlupheka njalo futhi athole indawo. Wonke umuntu unayo zonke izimfanelo ezidingekayo ukuze enze izihloko zithande, ziphumelele futhi zijabule. Ikusasa kuwumphumela wokucabanga namuhla, yingakho isisusa esihle yisithuluzi esingashintsha impilo ibe ngcono.
Uzolungisa kanjani ukucabanga okuhle?
Okokuqala, umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi ngokufaka ukuphila kwakhe umkhuba onjalo njengemiqondo eqhubekayo mayelana nombi, thina ngokwethu siveza izimo ezenzeka kithi esikhathini esizayo. Ngakho-ke, ukuvivinya umzimba kukhona ukuqeda ukuqonda kwakho kokungabi nalutho okukhona ekhanda lethu nsuku zonke. Kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuthi, njengokwesiko lomzimba, ukufeza umphumela udinga umsebenzi oqhubekayo nobuhlungu kuwe. Ngokusho kososayensi, ukuthuthukisa umkhuba omusha, ubuchopho badinga isikhathi sezinsuku ezingu-21 kuya kwezingu-60.
Ukuzivocavoca kokucabanga okuhle kukusiza ukukhipha konke okungalungile. Baqala ngokulahla amagama amabi, imisho yokungaqiniseki. Zama ukushintsha isitatimende ngasinye esibi kumuntu omuhle.
Sebenzisa ukuzindla ukuxhuma okungaqondakali.
Ungakhohlwa ngokubonga. Ukubonga okubhekwa njengenye yezivivinyo ezinamandla kakhulu futhi eziphumelelayo. Siyabonga ngakho konke okwenzekayo empilweni yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyisimo esibi noma isimo esihle. Okubi kunomlando futhi kunika amandla amasha, kodwa akusibi. Izindlela zokusebenza kwengqondo enhle zinikeza ukuqoshwa kwansuku zonke kwezikhathi eziyisihlanu ezinhle empilweni, ozwa ngayo ukubonga. Futhi, phindaphinda imishwana emihle njalo, ulungiselela impilo, ngoba akukho lutho olungcono kunokuba uphile futhi ujabulele konke okuzungezile. Cabanga ngamagama. Uphilile, ujabule, uzungezwe uthando nomoya omuhle. Qaphela izinto ezincane, ngokushesha nje lapho uzakha ngokwakho ngendlela enjalo, zonke izinto zizohamba ngqo entabeni, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi le nqubo empeleni ishintsha ukuphila.
Umsizi omuhle kulokhu kuzoba ukuqinisekiswa . Ngenxa yokuthi iningi lalezi zinkinga lichaphazela abamele ingxenye enhle yesintu, kuneziqinisekiso eziqinisekisayo kwabesifazane abazisiza ukuba baqiniseke futhi bafeze imiphumela ebalulekile.