Uyakhumbula ukuthi, ngisemncane, kwakumnandi kanjani ukufunda omunye umhloli, lapho umbulali angatholakala khona ngesandla? Iqiniso lokuthi iningi lezingane lidale ukukhathazeka, ngoba izazi zengqondo zanamuhla kanye nabameleli bezinhlaka zomthetho ziyingxenye yomsebenzi, futhi kuyingozi ngempela. Ukubhala ngesandla kungatshela okuningi ngomuntu, okuthandayo, iminyaka yakhe kanye nomzwelo wakhe. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuthi abaningi bacabange ukuthi bangabona kanjani umlingisi obhalwe ngesandla, ngokubheka iphepha elibhaliwe. Sizozama ukuvula isembozo sale mfihlakalo.
Incazelo yesichazamazwi ngokubhala ngesandla
Ukubhala ngesandla, njengohlamvu lomuntu, kuyinto ehlukile. Awuziphindaphindi futhi unemibuzo eminingi. I-slope, ukuqina kwamagama, izinga lokucindezela ipeni ephepheni kanye nezinye izici eziningi akuyona into engaphezu kokubonakala komuntu ngokusizwa kokunyakaza okuhleliwe. Yingakho kunokwenzeka ukuthi kunqunywe ngokubhala ngesandla ukuthi yini esiyicabangayo mayelana nokuthi yisiphi isimo nesimo esikulo.
I-Graphology isisiza ngokuqaphela ukuthi umlingiswa womuntu ubhalwe ngesandla. Futhi namuhla le sayensi ixhunyaniswe eduze nje kuphela ngezobugebengu kanye nokusebenza kwengqondo. Iningi lezisebenzi zanamuhla zithola isidingo sokuqhuba ukuhlaziywa kohlobo lwabaphathi nabasebenzi ngokubhala ngesandla. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba athathe ukuchazwa kombhalo obhaliwe ngesandla, ochwepheshe basebenze ngemifanekiso yemifanekiso iminyaka engaphezu konyaka. Umakhelwane olula wezintambo ezincane ngeke aqondwe. Kodwa ukuze okungenani ube nomqondo ongokwenyama walokho umuntu akhona phambi kwethu, umuntu angafunda amaphuzu aphambili.
Indlela yokunquma uhlobo lomlingisi?
Ukuze ufunde umlingiswa womuntu ekubhalweni ngesandla, ama-graphologists anake isibalo esikhulu sezimpawu. Kwenzeka ukuthi kumuntu ofanayo nomuntu ofanayo ngaphansi kwemizwelo ehlukene, izinhlobo ezahlukene zokubhala ngesandla zingatholakala. Futhi kuphela ngezizathu ezithile ochwepheshe banganquma ukuthi umuntu ofanayo wabhala yini. Okuyinhloko yalezi zimpawu kungabizwa okulandelayo:
- umthamo wezinhlamvu;
- ukuma nobukhulu befonti;
- izinga lokucindezela eshidi;
- ubukhulu bezingodo kanye nebanga phakathi kwezinhlamvu;
- isikhundla semigqa nokulinganisa isipelingi.
Lokhu akuyona yonke imingcele lapho umlingiswa womuntu kunqunywe khona ngesandla. Kodwa ukuze ube nomqondo othile womuntu, kwanele ukwazi kuphela ezimbalwa zazo:
- Ukubhala ngesandla:
- Ifomu lokubhala ngesandla elincinci nelibhubhisayo lingokomuntu wokubala nokuqonda. Uqaphele futhi unesizotha esiphelele;
- Ukubhala ngesandla okucindezelweyo kukhuluma ngokugcinwa kwe-conservatism nokuqapha komnikazi wayo;
- umbhalo omkhulu, obhalwe ngokufana nezingane, ungowomuntu othobekile, owemvelo nowethembayo;
- ukubhalwa ngesandla kubonisa abanikazi bayo njengabahleli abahle abanokucabanga okuhlelekile futhi bahlekisa;
- uma ukubhala kungabonakali, khona-ke umnikazi wayo ufihle okuthile noma wesaba ukuqondwa ngabanye. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nenkinga engokomzwelo uma le ncwadi ilula futhi kukhona ibanga elide phakathi kwabo.
- Ukuhamba kwezinhlamvu:
- ukuthambekela okuqinile kwesokudla kuvame ukwenza umuntu aphuthume ngokushesha, angakwazi ukuzilawula ngokwakhe nemizwa yakhe. Uvame ukuthukuthela futhi unesibopho sokuthukuthela;
- Ukubhala ngokuqondile kwamagama kunika umuntu oqinile futhi ovinjelwe onomlingani oqinile futhi uyothanda;
- ukuhlelwa ngakwesobunxele kunabantu abakhohlisayo nabanenkani. ngokuvamile abanikazi bokubhala okunjalo bangabantwana bezikole zokugibela noma labo abafuna ukushintsha impilo yabo;
- Isihluthulelo esihlasele ngakwesokunene nangakwesobunxele sibonisa ukuthi ungumuntu ongenakulinganisela, ngezinye izikhathi ongathandeki. Kodwa-ke, ukhona ngaphandle kokuzijabulisa.
- Izinhlamvu eziyinhloko:
- uma ziphindwe kaningi kunezinhlamvu ezinkulu, umnikazi wazo uzifunela yena nabanye;
- cishe cishe izincwadi ezincane eziphansi nezinhla zibonisa ukuthobeka komuntu;
- izinhlamvu ze-calligraphic zibonisa ukuthi umuntu ulawulwa yithonya lomunye futhi ngokuvamile akanalo umbono wakhe;
- izinhlamvu ezinkulu, ezihlotshiswe ngezingqimba ezihlukahlukene, njll. ube nobuciko futhi uthande izinto ezinhle.
- Imigqa:
- uma imigqa ihamba ngokushelela, ingcindezi iyifomu futhi umbhalo ungabizwa ngokuthi i-calligraphic;
- ngaphambi kokuba ube nomuntu oqinile futhi ozolile - amabanga amakhulu phakathi kwamagama abonisa ukuthi u-egoism womnikazi wokubhala ngesandla kanye nobunzima ekukhulumisaneni nabanye;
- uma imigqa iqhubekela phezulu - lokhu kubonisa isimo sothando, ithemba kanye neivety elula;
- izintambo eziqondiswe phansi zibonisa ukuthi umuntu unomlingiswa ozwakalayo, ulungele ukucindezeleka nokuxolisa.
Ukuze ufunde ukuthi unquma kanjani umlingiswa womuntu wonke ngokubhala ngesandla kungaba noma ubani. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kungashintsha kuye ngokuthi isimo sengqondo, isimo lapho umuntu ekhona kanye nezinye izici eziningi. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nolwazi olungenasisekelo lwe-graphology ngokuqinisekile luzosiza ukuqonda kangcono abanye abantu kanye nabo.