Ukuphila nokusebenza komuntu kuncike ezinhlobonhlobo ezithile. Ngenxa yokuthi ikhona, imvelo isishukumisela ukuba sihlale sisesha ukudla, izingubo kanye nezinye izinto ezibonakalayo. Emphakathini, abantu bazama ukuzibamba futhi bathole ukuqashelwa kwabanye abantu. Ukuze uqhubeke nomusa, umuntu udinga ukuhlanganisa ubuhlobo nabammeli obuhlukile, ukushada nokuzala. Kunezici eziningi lapho impilo yethu yonke ixhomeke ngqo. Zingahle zikhethwe yizici ezintathu eziyisisekelo.
Uhlobo lunikeza?
Imvelo efanayo efanayo inikeza umuntu inzuzo enkulu empilweni, idlala indima yokuzikhandla okukhulu ukufeza imigomo ebekiwe. Ngosizo lwabo, ungazikhuthaza ukuba uphumelele kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Uma umuntu engazilawuli, uhamba ngezandla. Le nqubo ilula, futhi isebenza kahle kakhulu. Iqiniso liwukuthi lapho izenzo nezifiso zigcwaliseka, ungakwazi ukumelana nokuxhaphazwa, sebenzisa izindlela ezinjalo ngokwakho, futhi impumelelo enkulu izuze imiphumela. Kunezinhlobo ezintathu eziyisisekelo (eziyisisekelo) zemiqondo:
- Isifiso sokuzivikela nokuphila.
- Isimo socansi (ukuzala).
- I-Instinct yomholi.
Izimo zabantu zenza izidingo:
- inhlalakahle yempahla; isidingo sokuphepha;
- sesha umlingani wezocansi;
- ukunakekela izingane;
- isidingo sokuthonya abantu abaseduze nabo.
Ngendlela efanayo, kunezinye izimo zemvelo: umama, isimo sokuvikela indawo yakho, isimo sokulandela, uma siphindaphinda lokho abanye abakwenzayo. Ngokungafani nezilwane, singakwazi ukulawula izimo zethu zengqondo nomoya wethu. Kumele futhi kuqaphele ukuthi izilwane ziphila kuphela ngenxa yemvelo, kuyilapho umuntu ebiza ulwazi lwakhe.
Imininingwane eminingi
Isimo sokuzivikela emuntwini sisekelwe kokwesaba impilo yakho nenhlalakahle, kusenza siqaphe futhi sibonise umthwalo wemfanelo. Kungacatshangwa ukuthi kuphakeme kunezinye.
Isifiso sokuqhubeka nomusa wabo nesifiso samandla sisekelwe esimisweni sokuphila.
Isimo socansi akuyona into edlula isidingo sokushiya ngemuva kokuzalwa, okubonisa futhi nesifiso sokuzivikela.
Emkhakheni wamandla, kungaphawulwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ngumuntu ukuphepha okukhulu. Uma umuntu ecabanga ngokucophelela futhi enza ngokucophelela, khona-ke noma yiziphi ezinye ze-phobias zakhe ezilahlekelwa amandla. Noma ubani oqonda izimbangela zokwesaba angawaqeda kalula. Ngokushesha kunabo bonke abafa labo abamesabayo, ngoba baqhutshwa ngeso lengqondo lokuzimela. Ephuthelwe yisifiso sokubusa, abantu ngokuvamile "baphelelwa ingqondo yabo," okuholela emiphumeleni engathandeki. Kumele futhi kuqaphele ukuthi zingaki izinto ezimbi ezenzeka ngenxa yezinkinga zobulili obuhlukile. Konke lokhu kwesaba nokwesaba
Ukuhlakanipha kwemvelo kumuntu kufakwe isidingo sengqondo. Isixuku sihlotshaniswa namandla kuningi. Amandla kusho ukuvikelwa. Futhi kubuye kubonakale ukuthi isisekelo salesi simvelo kungesaba impilo yomuntu kanye nesifiso sokuzigcina. Abantu abangenangqondo abafuni ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo futhi abakwazi ukunqoba ukwesaba kwabo balandela isixuku lapho kukhona "umholi". Lezi zinsuku ziphinde zenze ikhono lokuxhaphaza.
Ungavumeli ukwesaba kwakho kukubusise. Phatha izintandokazi zakho futhi uthathe ukulawula impilo yakho.