Abangane bangabantu abathembelana futhi balungele ukwenza ngokungafuni. Basiza esimweni esinzima futhi basekelwa. Phakathi kwabo, ngokuvamile, kukhona ukuzwelana, ukwethembeka nokuhlonipha. Njengomthetho, enhliziyweni yobungane kukhona izithakazelo kanye nezithakazelo ezivamile. Ngokuvamile, ubuhlobo obuseduze buvuka ngesikhathi kunqoba ubunzima.
Kuhle uma kukhona abangane abaseduze nathi abangathembeka futhi bakhulume ngakho konke. Sonke sidinga ukukhulumisana, kodwa ngeshwa, ezweni lanamuhla izimo ezinjalo zenziwa ukuthi kube nzima ukuthola abangane, futhi ubungane obudala buyaphela futhi bulahlekelwe isikhathi. Omunye akanalo ubuhlobo nabantu abakuzungezile, futhi othile nje akakwazi ukuthola abangane ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo.
Nazi ezinye izicebiso zokuthola abangane.
Ungathola kanjani abangane abasha?
Abangane abasha imizwa emisha, ukuvezwa okusha kanye nokuzijabulisa okusha. Izinzuzo eziningi, kodwa ukusesha okugxile kubangane akuvamile ukuholela embonweni oyifunayo, ngoba ubungane abulaleli imithetho enengqondo. Kodwa uma, ufuna ukuthola abangane, kufanele ube seqenjini ukukwenza. Futhi umgomo wakho wokuqala ukuxhumana. Ukusesha abangcono kungcono ezindaweni lapho abantu bahlanganyela kulokho okubumbene nabo, isibonelo: ithimba lomsebenzi, iqembu lezempilo noma i-disco. Hlangana nabantu abanesithakazelo bese uchitha isikhathi ndawonye. Ngokuvamile ngemva kokuxhumana nomuntu, uyaqonda ukuthi unesithakazelo naye. Futhi maduzane unquma ukuthi ufuna yini ukuba nomngane wakho.
Yenza konke okusemandleni ukuze uthole abangane futhi ube abangane ngokwakho, khona-ke imizamo yakho iyokhishwa ngempumelelo!
Ungathola kanjani abangane bangempela?
Ngokungahleliwe, ubungane beqiniso abuvuki, kufanele buhlonywe futhi bubekwe imali. Ngakho-ke, wena ngokwakho kufanele ube umngane weqiniso futhi, ngokungangabazeki, abantu abafanayo bayodonseka kuwe.
Kodwa-ke, ukusungula ubungane obunamandla besifazane noma ubungane nomuntu, akudingekile ukufuna abangane phakathi kwalabo abangabazi. Uma unabangane, kungcono ukuqinisa nokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo obuseduze, ngokuba abangane obuseduze komunye nomunye. Abangane abadala abazinikele bayisipho esingavamile, futhi kufanele ahlonishwe futhi ahlonishwe yibo.
Ngendlela, ukuze ube nabangane bangempela, akwanele nje ukufuna, udinga ukwenza umzamo nomzamo ngokwakho.
Okokuqala, kufanele ufunde ukuqonda umuntu, naphezu kokuthi ungaba nemibono ehlukile kokuthile. Futhi ukwazi ukujabula ngaye ngobuqotho, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele ukhuthaze, ngisho noma lo muntu engaziphathe kahle. Kodwa khumbula, ukuthuka akufanele kube yindlela yokusebenzisa.
Umngane weqiniso akayena owenza amaphutha, kodwa owazi ukuthethelela.