Njengamanje, lapho izisebenzi zokuzithandela emadolobheni ahlukene zidala ukunyakaza okhethekile ekubaleni nasekungenikeleni kwezingane ezihamba phambili, inkulumo enjengokuthi abesifazane besifazane abahlala emphakathini. Ngokuvamile, i-pedophilia uhlobo lokuhlukana ngokocansi , oluhlanganisa ukukhanga izingane, futhi akumangalisi ukuthi kungabonakala kokubili amadoda nabesifazane.
Pedophilia njengesifo
I-Pedophilia (noma i-infantosexualism, i-paederosis) yinkinga yengqondo eyinkimbinkimbi ehlobene nokuphambukiswa kobulili. Esikhathini sokuhlukaniswa kwezifo zamazwe ngamazwe, lesi sifo kubhekwa njengesiyaluyalu sezintando zocansi. Esikhundleni sokukhanga okuvamile kubantu beminyaka yakhe, abahamba ngezinyawo badonseleka kubafana noma ngamantombazane (futhi ngezinye izikhathi bobabili) abaneminyaka eyisithupha kuya kweyishumi nambili (lezi zibalo zingahluka). Endabeni yama-pedophilia wesifazane, ngokuvamile kubhekisela ekuhlanganeni nenkathi yokukhulelwa kwentsha - iminyaka engu-13-17.
Kukholelwa ukuthi ukuphambuka okunjalo kubonisa inani elincane labantu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuwona wonke umuntu ozohamba naye ongumdlwenguli noma odukisayo. I-Pedophilia yabesifazane ingazibonakalisa njengezifiso zocansi noma ukucabanga ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu futhi ungalokothi uhambe ngale mingcele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-pedophilia ingadlulisa futhi ikhulume nezingane noma ixoxe nabo kuyi-intanethi. I-Pedophilia kwabesifazane kaningi kangako ejwayelekile kunokuba i-pedophilia emadodeni - mhlawumbe lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi amadoda azimisele ukuvimbela izifiso zabo ezibuhlungu.
Ukwelashwa kwe-pedophilia
Ukwelashwa nokuvimbela i-pedophilia okwamanje ayinayo iphethini enembile. Ukulungisa ukuphambuka okunjalo ezimweni eziningi kunzima kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, ukuthuthuka kwenzeka kuphela uma umuntu ekhathazeka kakhulu ukuba aphulukiswe. Ezimweni eziningi, lesi sibikezelo sinokungabaza.
Izimbangela zokuhamba ngezinyawo
I-Pedophilia akuyona isifo esihlukile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwezinye izimo, kungomunye wemibonakaliso ye-schizophrenia, ingqondo, i-hysteria noma imfundo ephikisayo. Ngokuvamile kuleli cala izifo zengqondo zikhuluma ngokukhubazeka kwemvelo, ngoba iningi labahamba ngezinyawo liqonda kahle ukuthi izenzo zabo zingezona ezingokoqobo, zonakalisa futhi zingabangela ingane ingozi engafaneleki yokuziphatha.
Esinye isizathu esingaba khona singase sibe isisekelo sokuziqaphela - okungukuthi, naphezu kokuthi owesifazane usevele esekhulile, usazihlanganisa nabantwana futhi wesaba amadoda amadala. Ngezinye izikhathi i-pedophilia iqala kusukela ekuvinjisweni kwe-banal ukusungula oxhumana nabo nabantu abadala. Ngakho-ke, i-pedophilia ingabonakala njengobonakaliso bokuphuza kwengqondo, ukubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa ngokocansi.
Inkinga ye-pedophilia yabesifazane
I-pedophilia yabesifazane ithule ngesizathu esisodwa esilula: uma owesifazane ehlangana nomfana, konke kuphelele ngokuzithandela. Yingakho abafana ngemuva kokuxhumana nabo bengabhekwa njengezisulu, futhi iminyaka yabo isivele iyazi kahle. Lona umehluko omkhulu kule psychology of pedophilia, owesilisa nowesifazane.
Indlela yokubhekana ne-pedophilia?
Njengomthetho, uma beqala ukukhuluma ngokulwa nokulwa, sikhuluma ngabadlwenguli besilisa. Uma owesifazane ehlangana nomfana, akakwazi ukwenza lokhu ngaphandle kwesifiso sakhe, okusho ukuthi kunzima ukubona ukwakheka kobugebengu kulokhu. Futhi lo mfana, cishe kungenzeka, akavumeli, kodwa uyaziqhenya kuphela nabalingane nabo ekilasini.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kwenzeka owesilisa ehamba phambili, owesilisa usongelwa nge-castration, ngabe kanjani ukubhekana nabesifazane? Uma yena ngokwakhe engavumelani nokwamukela izifo zengqondo, akekho ozokwazi ukuthi unenkinga yokungajwayelekile kwengqondo. Futhi-ke uma ukulwa nomuntu wesilisa kunomuthi othile othize, ngabe yini okumayelana nabesifazane abonakalisa lo mfana engakaziwa.