Akubona bonke abantu abaye baqeda izifundo zokushayela, bese behlala ngemuva kwesondo, futhi akusikho imoto. Bavele bazizwe besaba. Ikakhulukazi, besaba ukungena engozini, ukuhleka usulu, ukungakwazi ukupaka, njll. Abaningi babo bangabesifazana, kepha amadoda nawo akhathazekile lapho eqala ukuphuma ngemuva kwesondo. Yeka ukuthi ungesabi ukushayela imoto nokuthi yisiphi iseluleko isazi sezengqondo esinganikeza kule sihloko.
Ungamisa kanjani ukwesaba ukushayela imoto ngokwezengqondo?
Nawa amanye amathiphu kulokhu:
- Ungathola isipiliyoni futhi usebenzise uma uqeqesha ngaphandle kwedolobha, lapho kungekho khona ithrafikhi noma engaphansi kwesigameko.
- Ukuphepha nokuzinikela kokuzethemba okokuqala ungahamba nomuntu osuka kubangani noma izihlobo eziseduze, kodwa kuphela esimweni sokuthi lo muntu ngeke ahambe kuyo yonke imibono yabo, adonse futhi akhale. Inhloso yalo ukuhlinzeka ukwesekwa. Uma kuziwa ekuzizwa ukuthi konke kuvela, lo mngane oseduze angaphumelela imoto ngaphambili, nangemva kokungemuva.
- Kulabo abanesithakazelo sokuyeka ukushayela ukushayela, kubalulekile ukutadisha umzila ngaphambi kohambo. Ngokuqondile ayivila kakhulu ukugibela kulo njengomgibeli, ukulalelisisa izibonakaliso, ukumaka, izindawo zokupaka, njll. Khona-ke, esiteshini, akanalo izimangazingozi eziyingozi.
- Abesifazane abanesithakazelo sokuthi bangesabi ukushayela imoto bangacelwa ukuba bafake isibonakaliso esibukweni "kumshayeli wokuqala". Kumelwe ngitshele ukuthi abahlonishwayo basebevele bebekezelela abantu besifazane besondo, futhi ngesibonakaliso esinjalo bayoba nokusekela nokuhlonipha ngokwengeziwe.
- Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, labo abashayeli abangayazi imithetho yezimoto bangaphephile. Ngakho-ke, akulimazi ukubuyela phezu kwemithetho futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzibekela ukuthi uhle futhi uhlale uzitshela ukuthi konke kuhle nokuthi uNkulunkulu akazange ashise izimbiza.