Hlola nxazonke. Yini oyibonayo eduze kwakho, impilo yakho ibonakala ini, mhlawumbe yisikhathi sokushintsha okuthile noma uqale konke kusukela ekuqaleni? Abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ngakho lapho behlezi bephethe ikhanda elingcolile phambi kwe-TV inyanga, bebukela i-melodramas ngenkathi bedla amaqebelengwane, futhi bakhohlwe lapho begcina ukuphefumula umoya omusha. Uma ngabe ngawe, udinga ukulondoloza impilo yakho ngokuphuthumayo.
Finyelela esikhathini esedlule!
Okokuqala, susa isizathu sokuthi kwenzekani empilweni enjalo. Uma iphutha lendoda kanye nobuhlobo bothando obungaphumeleli , kubalulekile ukuphonsa konke okuxhuma nalesi simo. Lokhu kusebenza ezithombeni, amanothi ahlukene, izipho nokunye okunjalo. Ngisho ne-T-shirt oyikhonzile, akunike yona, kufanele ibe ebhokisini lodoti. Yenza ukuhlanzwa okuvamile kwefulethi, ususe zonke izinto ongazange uzisebenzise isikhathi eside, usule isikhala sempilo entsha.
Ngemuva kokuba insimu ikhululwe, into esemqoka ihlala ekuhlanzeni umphefumulo wakho. Udinga ukukhuluma ngengqondo ukuhlehlisa nokuthethelela bonke abantu abakulimazayo, futhi uvumele isimo esiholele kulo mbuso. Uma ungenjalo, noma yikuphi ukuzama ukushintsha nokuqala impilo entsha ngeke kuphumelele.
Izinyathelo zokuqala
Abantu abaningi besaba noma yikuphi ukushintsha, futhi ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala ngaso sonke isikhathi kunzima kakhulu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukudweba uhlelo olucacile lokuphila kwakho okusha. Thatha iphepha bese ubhala phansi zonke izifiso zakho, ngisho nezincane kakhulu, bese uchaza ngokuningiliziwe izinyathelo zokuziqalisa. Uhlu lungaba yini, isibonelo, umsebenzi omusha, uhambo oluya e-Australia, indiza ibhaluni, njll. Ngakho-ke, ukwesaba okungaziwa kuzophelela, ngoba unakho konke okulotshwe phansi ngesinyathelo.
Isibonelo, sekuyisikhathi eside ufisa ukuya ejimini. Ukuxazulula le nkinga udinga ukuthenga i- tracksuit , khetha ihholo uphinde uthenge ukubhalisa. Uyabona, konke kuvele kube lula, uma uzimisele kancane.
Izinguquko zangaphandle
Isikhathi sokuya esibukweni bese uzibuka. Isithombe akuyona ngempela engingathanda ukuyibona? Manje sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha.
Okokuqala, bhalisa ku-salon beauty lapho ochwepheshe bebhizinisi labo bezonikeza ithuba lokuzizwa njengendlovukazi. Ukuzibulala, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukugqoka i-manicure, ukubaluleka kwekhanda kuyinto ejabulisa ukuthi owesifazane ngamunye ufanelwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho unganikeza iseluleko ngendlela ongayinakekela ngayo futhi ikusize ukhethe okukhethwa kukho okwenziwe kahle. Kusukela salon uzophuma umuntu ehluke ngokuphelele, kodwa akusikho konke.
Isikhathi sokuthenga
Zama ukuthenga izinto ongazange uziqaphele ngaphambili: amabhulukwe obomvu, izicathulo eziphakeme kakhulu, ingubo enhle, enhle kakhulu. Yiba nesibindi - kungokwakho konke. Ungakhohlwa ukuthenga izimonyo zekhwalithi eziphezulu, ezokusebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha, kuzosiza ukugcizelela zonke izihlonipho, ubukeke ngendlela emangalisa futhi zikhange ukubukeka kwamadoda.
Uma kuwe, usuvele usuphile, wathola amakhilogremu engeziwe, bese ubhalisa ku-gym bese uqala ukudla kahle. Imiphumela ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside, futhi ukwandisa ukuzethemba nokuzethemba ngokweqile kuyoba usizo olukhulu kakhulu ekwakheni impilo entsha egcwele injabulo nokuchuma.
Zisebenze ngokwakho
Khumbula iqiniso elilodwa elilula: uma ungazithandi, akekho oyoke akuthande. Phinda nsuku zonke izikhathi ezingu-100 - "Ngiyena enhle kunazo zonke futhi ngijabule kakhulu", ngeke uqaphele ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ukukholelwa lokhu. Dumisa, ngisho nezinto ezivamile kakhulu.
Umphumela
Manje yisikhathi sokubuka futhi ubone impilo yakho, lapho kungekho khona ukwehla kwedlule. Ungowesifazane omuhle futhi ophumelelayo ofanelwe kuphela okungcono kakhulu. Unomsebenzi owuthandayo, abangane abahle, ukuxhumana okunikeza injabulo nokuletha injabulo, kanye nohlu lwezifiso ongazange uziqaphele.