Bathi iminyaka engamashumi amathathu yisikhathi esihle kunazo zonke ekuphileni komama, ngoba ukubukeka kusefana namashumi amabili, kanti ubuchopho bukhulu kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abaningi banezinkinga eminyakeni engama-30, ngoba akuwona wonke umuntu oye wakwazi ukufeza lokho abafuna futhi kufanele akwanelise ukuthi yini. Indlela azibonakalisa ngayo - kulesi sihloko.
Izimpawu zenkinga yeminyaka engama-30 kubesifazane
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- Ukucubungula ukubaluleka kwezimpumelelo zangaphambilini. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ekuphishekeleni imali nokukhula komsebenzi, umuntu akaqapheli ukuthi izwe lakhe elingokomoya liyashintsha kanjani, futhi ekuqapheliseni, lishintsha ngokuphawulekayo impilo yakhe, ukwenqaba ezilinganisweni ezinamadijithali ayisithupha ngokuqondene nenye into - umndeni, ukuphila esifubeni semvelo, njll. .
- Ukuzisola ngamathuba alahlekile. Inkinga yabesifazane, kanye namadoda, ibonakalisa ukuthi umuntu uqala ukuzisola ukuthi angakwazi, kodwa akazange, angenaso isikhathi, njll. Njalo manje ucabanga ngakho, kodwa kwenzekani uma ...?
- Unganaki nawe. Lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela ukuzindla esibukweni futhi usuvele uqalile ukuzibonakalisa izifo, kodwa nokuziphatha kwabo. Kukhona ukungabaza ngamakhono abo, okwakubonakala sengathi kuhle. Isibonelo, owesifazane owavame ukugqoka ngendlela enhle futhi ekwazi ukwenza izimonyo , uqala ukungabaza ukuthi unesikhathi sokulandela imfashini.
- Inkinga yobudala obuneminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala kubesifazane ibonakalisa ukuthi iyisidingo esikhulu nesimo sayo sezimali. Uma abantu abasha bengacabangi kakhulu ngalokhu futhi banakekele abazali babo njengamanje, manje akunakulinganiswa ukuthemba usizo lwabo, ngoba akudingeki bazinikezele kuphela, kodwa futhi babasize.
- Ukuziqhenya kwabanye. Le nkinga ibonakala inganeliseki ubuhlobo nomyeni, izingane, abangane. Lezi zinsuku zivame ukuba yibo abazinikezele zona, izingane azizivumeli ithemba labo, njengendoda. Kubonakala kulona wesifazane ukuthi iminyaka yakhe esemncane iyahamba nokuthi uyashintsha okuthile esikhathini esikude empilweni yakhe, nakuba ngokusobala ezwa isidingo sokushintsha. Ngalesi sigaba abantu abaningi bahlukanisa, benze ubudlelwane obusha, bashintshe imisebenzi, njll.
- Umona. Noma iyiphi inkinga yobudala yabesifazane ukuziqhathanisa neontanga yabo futhi kaningi ayifuni. Owesifazane umona umfundi ofunde naye ophumelelayo, onakho konke angakuphupha ngakho, ngenkathi yena engenawo ingxenye encane yayo.
- Ukunganaki nokungafuni ukukwenza konke okuvame ukuletha injabulo - imihlangano nabangani, ukuya ezinkampanini, amathilomu, amabhayisikobho, izinkundla zemidlalo yaseshashalazini, njll Kubonakala sengathi impilo idlulile futhi ayikho into enhle, futhi okusha kuyo ngeke kube khona.