Ekholweni lobuKristu, ukuqhosha kuyingozi kakhulu ezonweni eziyisikhombisa ezibulalayo. Ingozi yalolu daba ukuthi umuntu ozidlayo, ongenalutho, ozikhukhumelayo uvulekile kuzo zonke ezinye izinkanuko nezono. Umbuzo wokuthi ungaqeda kanjani ukuziqhenya, ukhathazeka abantu abaningi abaqaphela ukungabi nalutho kwabo futhi baqonde ukuthi lo mkhuba ubavimbela ekwakheni ubuhlobo nabanye nabathandekayo.
Kuyini ukuziqhenya nokuthi ungayinqoba kanjani?
Ukuziqhenya nokuziqhenya - imibono ayifani, kodwa inencazelo. Ukuziqhenya kuyisizotha nokwethenjelwa okwanele, ukuziqhenya kungumqondo wokuphakama phezu kwabanye abantu, ukudelela ubuthakathaka kanye nokushiyeka kwabanye.
Esikhathini esingokwenkolo, ukuziqhenya kuyisono, okwaboniswa okokuqala yingelosi ecabanga ukuthi ulingana noNkulunkulu. Ukuhlubuka kukaLucifer, owaba uSathane , kungumphumela wokubonakaliswa kokuziqhenya ezingeni eliphezulu kakhulu.
Ukuziqhenya nokuqhosha kungabonakalisa ngezimo ezihlukahlukene. Ukuziqaphela ngokwakho kulula:
- ukwenqaba umbono womunye umuntu;
- ukuzizwa kokubaluleka;
- ukungabi nalutho nokudumisa;
- ukukhathazeka ngezinkinga zomuntu siqu;
- ukwelashwa okuhlekisayo kwabantu ababuthakathaka nabangaphansi kakhulu;
- ukuhlukaniswa kwabantu kube yimigomo kanye nezigaba.
Umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ukuziqhenya awubuzwa abantu abangazange baqaphele ingozi egcwele yalolu daba. Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo sokuqala emzabalazweni nalesi sono ngokuqondile ukugcwaliseka kwalokhu okushiwo. Wonke umuntu ngezikhathi ezithile kufanele azibuke angaphandle futhi ahlole izenzo zabo ngokuqondile.
Uma wenze isinyathelo sokuqala, uqaphela lokhu kukhubazeka ngokwakho, umuntu angakwazi ukuhlola ngokwanele izenzo zakhe futhi avume amaphutha akhe. Abanye abantu abanegunya namandla bawubheka njengobuthakathaka ukuvuma amaphutha abo. Kodwa-ke, ukuqaphela nokuphenduka okuqotho kuyindlela eyokusiza ukulwa nokuziqhenya, kanye nezinye izono, izinkanuko kanye nokungaphumeleli.
Umuntu oziqhenyayo kudingeka aphenduke futhi afunde ukuthethelela abantu ngenxa yobuthakathaka babo kanye nokungaphumeleli. Okholwayo kule ndaba uzosizwa ngemithandazo kanye nezeluleko zomvuma. Kumuntu ongakholelwa kuNkulunkulu, inqubo yokukhipha nokulawula ukuziqhenya iyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa uma efunda ukulandelela izenzo zakhe futhi azihlole ngokufanele, angathola ibhalansi, ukuvumelana phakathi kwakhe. Ukuqwashisa kusiza ukushintsha ukuziphatha komuntu nokuthuthukisa impilo yomuntu.