I-psychotherapy yomndeni

Umndeni, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyisigqila esishashintshayo somphakathi (amalungu amasha omndeni azalwa, izingane zikhula, isizukulwane esidala sikhula futhi sife), ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyisimo esisebenza kahle esizama ukugcina ukungahlali ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lezi ziphikisana ezimbili, ukuthuthukiswa kanye nesifiso sokungaziphathi kahle, kungabangela ukungqubuzana okukhulu, futhi, ngokufanayo, izinkinga ebuhlotsheni bomndeni. Kungenxa yenkinga eyenziwe yile mpikiswano ukuthi i-psychotherapy yomndeni isebenza.

Izikhathi lapho izingxabano nokuxabana kungenakugwemeka

I-psychotherapy yokuziphatha komndeni idale ukukhishwa okuthile, ukuhlukaniswa komndeni womuntu, kube yizikhathi ezivame ukubhekana nezinkinga zasemakhaya. Babonakala kanje:

1. Abantu abasha banquma ukuhlala ndawonye - bobabili banemiqondo yabo mayelana nokuphila kwansuku zonke, ubudlelwane, futhi njengoba le mibono ingavumelani ngokulinganayo, umsebenzi wezinkinga ukubafundisa ukuletha ekhaya "imithetho yomdlalo."
2. Ukuzalwa kwezingane - abazali banemibono yabo ekukhuliseni, imibono yomthwalo wemfanelo kanye nomqondo wokusebenza.
3. "Isilinganiso seminyaka yobudala" sihloko esibi kakhulu emakhabhinethi we-psychotherapy ebuhlotsheni bomndeni. Abantu bayaqaphela ukuthi impilo ayinakuphela, okusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokubamba imiphumela yokuqala. Amabutho aphelile, futhi athole isikhathi eside, lo mbhangqwana uvame ukuzitholela abathandi abasha.
4. Izingane zakhula-ama-scions asekhulile aletha abashade nabo endlini. Ukuhlobana phakathi kwabazali nezingane kuyabuthakathaka, omama banomona ngamadodana kumalokazana bawo, futhi umndeni kufanele ubuyekeze "imithetho yalo mdlalo."
5. Ukufa komunye wabashade kuyinkinga yokugcina yalo mndeni. Ukuphila nokuhleleka kushintsha kakhulu, izinkinga, izingxabano, ukucindezeleka , ukuphazamiseka, ukugula kwengqondo kungenzeka.

I-psychotherapy yokuxhumana

Nge-psychotherapy yokukhulumisana komndeni (isiqondiso esivele sisanda kuvele) sihlotshaniswa nesifundo esithakazelisayo kakhulu. Ngama-1970, isifundo senziwa nge-schizophrenia yefa. Kwavela ukuthi lesi sifo sibonakala ezimweni eziningi emindenini enezimakhono zokuxhumana ezingakhiwe, ngokungaqondani komunye nomunye, ngokungahambisani njalo.

Inkinga yokuqala okufanele ixazululwe ehhovisi le-psychotherapist ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okuxhumana. Kungenxa yokuntula kwabo, ukuthuthukiswa kwengcindezi futhi kukhona izinkinga zomndeni.

Izinkinga zobulili

Futhi ngokuqondene nesihloko esibuhlungu kakhulu nesisondelene emakamelweni okulala omshado, i-psychotherapy yokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi emndenini ihlukanisa kuphela ezine izizathu zokwenzeka kwazo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma yikuphi ubuhlobo bobulili phakathi kwalabo abashadile, kubhekwa njengokuvumelana, uma bobabili abalingani beneliseka ngabo.

Uhlu lokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi:

1. Ukungabi namandla.
2. Ukujula kwe-premature.
3. Ukwehliswa (ukungabi nesifiso sobulili kumuntu wesifazane).
4. Anorgasmia (ukungakwazi komfazi ukuzwa i-orgasm).

Ngaphezu kwalokho, zonke lezi zixazululo zivame ukukhula kusuka kubantu abanengqondo, hhayi ezithombeni zabo zobulili.