Manje kunamathuba amaningi okuthuthukiswa kwezingane zazo zonke izinhlobo zamakhono. Futhi wonke umama uyaqiniseka ukuthi ingumntwana wakhe onethalente eliyingqayizivele, futhi ngezinye izikhathi akekho owodwa. Izingane ezineminyaka emibili zithathwe emidlalweni, zifundiswa olunye ulimi ngezilimi ezintathu, futhi ezine zihanjiswa esikoleni somculo. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane ilayishiwe ngokweqile, futhi ukudlula kwezingane.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kucacile ukuthi abazali bazama ukunikeza amathuba amantombazane amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba esikhathini esizayo yonke into ingafika kahle. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izingane ezivela embuthanweni oyibuthano ziholela ekwesabeni ukulahlekelwa ikhono elithile futhi zingabonakali ithalente, ngakho-ke zihlakulela konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuze singalingani izingane, ake sizame ukubona ukuthi kukhona yini izimpawu namasu acacile okuhloswe ngazo ekukhoneni ubuphiko.
Izindlela zobuphiko
Inkinga yobuphiko ihlolisiswa ngokucophelela kwimiqondo yesayensi. Wonke umuntu uyaqonda ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukubona ngesikhathi esifanayo isimo semvelo semiklamo nokuthuthukisa ithalente, ngakho-ke izazi ze-psychologists ziye zabona izimpawu zangempela zobuciko:
- ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo okuthuthukile, ilukuluku;
- ukuqonda isitayela esingaqondakali sokucabangela ngesikhathi sokuqala;
- ikhono lokubheka isikhathi eside;
- umcabango omuhle;
- ingqondo ephakeme kakhulu, imizwelo ejulile nokuzwela;
- ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kubaluleke kakhulu ngaphambi kokubonakala komzimba;
- ubunzima ekukhulumisaneni noontanga.
Futhi kunezivivinyo ezilinganiselwe zobuphiko, ezakhiwe izazi ze-psychologist ukuhlola imikhakha ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene. Indlela yokuhlola isipho esiphelele ingasetshenziswa abazali noma othisha. Iveza izici eziyishumi okumelwe zihlolwe ngesilinganiso kusuka ku-zero kuya ku-5, kuye ngokuthi izinga lobukhulu beliphi.
Indlela ye "Gift Card" ivumela ukuhlola ubuphiko bezingane kusukela eminyakeni emihlanu kuya kweyishumi. Iqukethe imibuzo engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye esakazwa ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuziphatha kanye nemisebenzi yengane, ehlolwe ngesilinganiso samaphuzu amane.
- (++) - uma impahla ehlongozwayo ithuthukiswa kahle, ichazwe ngokucacile, iveza njalo;
- (+) - impahla ichazwe ngokucacile, kodwa ibonakala ngokungahleliwe;
- (0) - izakhiwo ezilinganisiwe neziphambene azichazwe ngokucacile, zingavamile ukubonakaliswa, zilinganisana ngokuziphatha nangomsebenzi;
- (-) - ikhulunywa kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile indawo ephikisana nalokho okulinganisiwe ibonakala.
Ngakho, ingane yakho:
- Ishukuthelwe ekuboneni okunengqondo, iyakwazi ukusebenzisana nemicabango engaqondakali.
- Ukungajwayelekile kuyacabanga futhi kuvame ukunikeza izixazululo ezingalindelekile, zangempela.
- Ufunda ulwazi olusha masinyane, konke "kubamba izindiza."
- Ayikho i-monotony emidwebo. Kuyisisekelo ekukhethweni kweziqephu. Ngokujwayelekile kubonisa izinto eziningi ezahlukene, abantu, izimo.
- Ubonisa isithakazelo esikhulu ekufundeni umculo.
- Uthanda ukubhala (ukubhala) izindaba noma izinkondlo.
- Kungena kalula kunoma yiluphi uhlamvu: umuntu, isilwane, njll.
- Unentshisekelo kumishini nemishini.
- Isinyathelo sokuxhumana nabangane.
- Inamandla, inikeza umbono wengane edinga ivolumu enkulu yokunyakaza.
- Kunesithakazelo esikhulu kanye nekhono elihlukile lokuhlukanisa.
- Ungesabi imizamo emisha, njalo uzama ukuhlola umqondo omusha.
- Ukhumbula ngokushesha lokho akuzwile futhi akufunde ngaphandle kwekhanda elikhethekile, alisebenzisi isikhathi esiningi kulokho okudingeka kukhunjulwe.
- Uba nomcabango futhi ucabange kakhulu lapho ebona isithombe esihle, ezwa umculo, ebona isithombe esijwayelekile, into enhle (eyenziwa ngobuciko).
- Uzwela ngesimo nomzwelo womculo.
- Kungaba lula ukwakha indaba, kusukela esakhiweni sesakhiwo bese iphetha ngokuxazulula noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana.
- Inentshisekelo yokwenza.
- Ungakwazi ukulungisa izinto ezilimazayo, sebenzisa izingxenye ezindala ukuze wenze ubuciko obusha, amathoyizi, izinto zokusebenza.
- Igcina ukuzethemba endaweni ezungeze abantu abangabazi.
- Uthanda ukuhlanganyela emidlalweni yezemidlalo nemincintiswano.
- Uyakwazi ukuveza imicabango yakhe kahle, unolwazi olukhulu.
- Ukuzikhethela ekukhethweni nasekusetshenzisweni kwezinto ezihlukahlukene (isibonelo, isebenzisa emidlalweni hhayi nje amathoyizi kuphela, kodwa futhi ifenisha, izinto zasendlini nezinye izindlela).
- Uyazi okuningi ngezenzakalo ezinjalo nezinkinga izingane zakhe ngokuvamile azi.
- Iyakwazi ukwenza izingqikithi zangempela zezimbali, imidwebo, amatshe, izitembu, amakhadikhadi, njll.
- Uhlabelela okuhle.
- Ukukhuluma ngento ethile, uyakwazi ukunamathela endabeni ekhethiwe, ayilahlekelwa umqondo oyisisekelo.
- Lishintsha ukulinganisa nokuveza kwezwi uma kubonisa omunye umuntu.
- Uthanda ukuqonda izimbangela zezinkinga zokungasebenzi, uthanda ukuphazamiseka okungavamile nemibandela "yokusesha."
- Ukuxhumana kalula nabantwana nabantu abadala.
- Ngokuvamile iwina neontanga emidlalweni yezemidlalo ehlukene.
- Kuhle ukuqonda ukuxhumana phakathi komcimbi owodwa nomunye, phakathi kwembangela nomphumela.
- Uyakwazi ukuthathwa, uphumele emkhatsini wemisebenzi ayifunayo.
- Uthola oontanga bakhe ngokutadisha iminyaka noma amabili, i.s. kufanele ngempela abe ekilasini eliphakeme kunalokhu manje.
- Uthanda ukusebenzisa noma iyiphi into entsha yokwenza amathoyizi, ama-collages, imidwebo, ekwakheni izindlu zezingane endaweni yokudlala.
- Emdlalweni onsimbi, engoma noma kumdanso, ithengisa amandla amaningi nemizwa.
- Unamathela kuphela emininingwaneni edingekayo ezindabeni zezehlakalo, ulahle konke okungabalulekile, ushiya okubaluleke kakhulu, okuyizinto ezibonakalayo.
- Ukudlala isenzakalo esimangalisayo, uyakwazi ukuqonda futhi abonise ukungqubuzana.
- Uthanda ukudweba imidwebo nemidwebo yezindlela.
- Thola izimbangela zezenzo zabanye abantu, izisusa zokuziphatha kwazo. Uqonda kahle ukungaboni kahle.
- Igijimela ngokushesha kunabo bonke abasenkulisa, ekilasini.
- Uthanda ukuxazulula imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi edinga umzamo wengqondo.
- Uyakwazi ukusondela ngokuhlukile kunenkinga efanayo.
- Kubonisa ukufuna ukwazi okuvelele.
- Ukudonsa ngokuzithandela, isikhunta, kudala izingqungquthela ezinenhloso yobuciko (ukuhlobisa indlu, izingubo, njll), ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula, ngaphandle kokukhubaza abantu abadala.
- Uthanda amarekhodi omculo. Uzama ukuya ekhonsathini noma ukulalela umculo.
- Ukhetha emazwini akhe amagama anjalo, aveza isimo sengqondo sabalingiswa, okuhlangenwe nakho nokuzizwa kahle.
- Ithambekele ekudluliseni imizwa ebusweni, ukuzithokozisa, ukunyakaza.
- Ufunda (othanda, lapho efunda) omagazini nezihloko mayelana nokudala izinto ezintsha, imishini, izindlela.
- Uvame ukuqondisa imidlalo nemisebenzi yezinye izingane.
- Ihamba kalula, ngomusa. Unokubambisana okuhle kokuhamba.
- Okuqaphele, uthanda ukuhlaziya izenzakalo kanye nezimo.
- Ayikwazi ukunikeza kuphela, kodwa futhi ihlakulele imibono yabo kanye neminye.
- Ufunda amabhuku, ama-athikili, ukuhlelwa kwesayensi okuthandwayo ngaphambi kontanga yabo unyaka noma amabili.
- Iphendukela kumdwebo noma ukufanekisa ukuveza imizwa yakho nemizwelo yakho.
- Udlala kahle kwenye insimbi.
- Uyazi ukuthi ungadlulisela kanjani imininingwane enjalo ezindabeni ezibalulekile ekuqondeni umcimbi (lokho oontanga bakhe ngokuvamile abangazi ukuthi benzeni), futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo akaphuthelwa umgqa oyinhloko wezenzakalo azikhulumayo.
- Uzama ukuvusa ukusabela ngokomzwelo kwabanye abantu, lapho etshela okuthile ngentshiseko.
- Uthanda ukuxoxa ngezenzakalo zesayensi, izinto eziqalwa, ngokuvamile ukucabanga ngakho.
- Kuthambekele ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo, owela ngaphezu kwemingcele evamile yobudala bakhe.
- Uthanda ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukudlala emidlalweni yezemidlalo yangaphandle.
- Iyakwazi ukugcina izimpawu, izincwadi, amagama isikhathi eside.
- Uthanda ukuzama izindlela ezintsha zokuxazulula izinkinga zokuphila, akathandi okukhethwa kakade.
- Uyakwazi ukudweba iziphetho nokukhiqiza.
- Uthanda ukudala izithombe ezintathu-ntathu, ukusebenza nodaka, i-plasticine, iphepha ne-glue.
- Ekuculeni nasemculweni, uzama ukuveza imizwa yakhe nemizwa yakhe.
- Uzimisele ukucabanga, uzama ukwengeza into entsha futhi engavamile lapho ekhuluma ngento esaziwayo futhi yaziwa kuwo wonke umuntu.
- Ngokukhululeka kalula, kudlulisa imizwa nokuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzwelo.
- Uchitha isikhathi esiningi ekuklanyeni nasekusebenzeni "amaphrojekthi" akhe (amamodeli ezindiza, izimoto, imikhumbi).
- Ezinye izingane zikhetha ukumkhetha njengomlingani emidlalweni nasemakilasini.
- Ukhetha ukuchitha isikhathi sakhe samahhala emidlalweni yeselula (hockey, basketball, football, njll).
- Unentshisekelo ehlukahlukene, ibuza imibuzo eminingi mayelana nemvelaphi nemisebenzi yezinto.
- Ukukhiqiza, noma yini okwenzayo (ukudweba, ukubhala izindaba, ukuklama, njll), uyakwazi ukunikeza inombolo enkulu yemibono nezixazululo ezihlukene kakhulu.
- Ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula uthanda ukufunda izincwadi ezithandwayo zesayensi (i-encyclopaedia yezingane kanye nezincwadi zokubhekisela) ngaphezu kokufunda izincwadi zobuciko (inganekwane, abahloli, njll).
- Ungabonisa ukwazisa kwakhe ngemisebenzi yobuciko, ezama ukukhiqiza lokho akuthandayo, emdwebeni wakhe, ithoyizi, ukudweba.
- Uqamba izingoma zakhe zokuqala.
- Uyakwazi ukukhombisa abalingiswa bakhe bephila kakhulu endabeni, uveza uhlamvu lwabo, imizwa yabo, imizwa yabo.
- Uthanda imidlalo yemidlalo.
- Ngokushesha futhi kalula usebenzise ikhompyutha.
- Unesipho sokukholisa, uyakwazi ukukhuthaza imibono yakhe kwabanye.
- Ukukhuthazela ngokwemvelo kunokwenyama.
Ukucutshungulwa kwemiphumela:
Bala inani lama-pluses nama-minus ku-vertical (plus and minus mutually cancel). Imiphumela yokubala ibhaliwe ngezansi, ngaphansi kwekholomu ngayinye. Izindleko ezitholiwe zamaphuzu zibonisa ukulinganisa kwakho kwezinga lokuthuthukiswa kwengane yezinhlobo ezilandelayo zobuphiko:
- ubuhlakani;
- ukudala;
- isikole (sesayensi);
- ubuciko-okubukwayo;
- umculo;
- umbhalo;
- ubuciko;
- ubuchwepheshe;
- Ubuholi;
- ezemidlalo.
Le nqubo ingenza nje ukuxilonga, kodwa futhi iphinde ithuthukise umsebenzi, ngoba ngokuqinisekile uzothola uhlu lwezitatimende ezokuheha futhi lusebenze njengohlobo lwenqubo yokuthuthukisa.
Ungazami ukuphoqa ingane yakho amaphupho akho futhi akukho cala ungacindezeli ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kungcono ukunaka lokho akwenzayo ngokuthakazelisa, ukusekela izinto ezithandwayo futhi uzame ukwandisa ama-horizons akhe, cishe, amandla akhona ekuthandweni okuqotho kwengane yakho.