Uke wacabanga ukuthi imibala oyikhonzile ingakutshela izimfanelo zakho nobuntu bakho, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ungafunda ngezwe langaphakathi le-interlocutor, izinto ezithandwayo, njll.
Isiqondiso "Indlela yokwazi uhlobo lwezimbali zakho ozithandayo"
- Okubomvu kuwuphawu lokufisa phezulu kwempumelelo . Labo abanalo lo mbala empilweni yokuqala bavezwa amandla okuthuthukiswa, ukuxhumaneka, ukukhungatheka, isibindi. Abayena abafokazi ekuziphenduleleni, kodwa-ke, abakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngesineke.
- Pink . Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale ukuthi ukucacisa uhlobo lombala kulula: umuntu othandana naye, ohlwengile, onomoya omnene othanda ukuhlala ezweni eliyinkimbinkimbi, hhayi ezweni langempela. I-Pink ihlanganisa kokubili ukuthanda nokuhlanzeka. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuphuluka ngokushesha ngemva kokuhlupheka kobuchopho. Yiqiniso, "lolu suku" oluyinkimbinkimbi ezinenkathazo lungasikhipha isikhathi eside lukhuni.
- I-Orange - umbala oyintandokazi walabo abanobuzenzisi bobuzenzisi babo nobungane babo abahlanganisiwe, futhi incazelo yamandla omuntu kuwo akulula: bane-intuition esebenze kahle, bayaphupha futhi balungele ukuzala imibono yangempela njalo ngomzuzu.
- Uhlobo olubomvu luba nabantu abathandekayo, abavumelanisa kalula, abanolukuluku, abanethemba, abahlakaniphile. It yenza ukunambitheka kwezobuciko.
- Okuhlaza . Ekukhethweni kwalo mbala, ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi umuntu onjalo ungumzali onakekelayo oyisibonelo, futhi esimeni sakhe, inkani nokuphikelela kuyaqhubeka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba azinikezele kulokhu kuphila.
- I-Blue ithi ngokunganaki, ukuthi umuntu uyakuthanda ukuphila, uphumelela kalula kunoma yikuphi ukuzama. Njalo isikhathi ezama ukuzithuthukisa.
Kuyinto ukwesaba isizungu esicindezela ukuphila kwakhe. - UBrown ukhethwe yilabo abenza izenzo eziningi ngokuzithandela. Ebuhlotsheni, zibhekene nobuqili, futhi ezimweni zokuphila - ukuqina nokuqina.
- Ubumhlophe ubala abantu abanobuhle, abaqaphelayo futhi abaqaphile, ababucayi.
- Umnyama ukhuluma ngokungakwazi ukuhlola ngokucophelela ukuthi kwenzekani. Lezi yizimo ezithandekayo. Ngokwenhloso yabo, bazimisele ukuqhubeka. Ubudlelwane ngezinye izikhathi bubonisa imizwelo engalawuleki.