Ukuhlukaniswa, ukuqamba amanga, ukuhumusha amaphupho - lokhu kuyindawo eheha abantu abaningi abafuna ukwazi ikusasa labo , kodwa ikakhulukazi bathanda amantombazane. Bese baqala ukufuna izimpendulo zemibuzo - ungathola yini ikusasa nokuthi ungabona kanjani umyeni wesikhathi esizayo ephusheni.
Umlutha wokulala ukuze ubone ikusasa nomlingani
Umqambi - lokhu kuyisiko esikhethekile, esenzelwe ukuvusa amandla okulala okungaqondakali futhi ubonise okufihliwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulandele ngokuqinile izenzo ezishiwo umkhuba - amandla aphakeme angeke akhulume ukunganaki nokungaboni kahle.
Okulungele ukubhula usuku olulandelayo ngaphambi kukaKhisimusi, ubusuku kusukela ngoLwesine kuya kuLwesihlanu kanye nezinyanga zenyanga egcwele. Ngalesi sikhathi, amandla e-otherworldly akhula, futhi impendulo yombuzo iyoba eqondile. Esinye isimo esidingekayo - emva komkhosi ongeke udle, uphuze futhi ukhulume.
Ukubona iphupho lomyeni wesikhathi esizayo kusiza ugobe ngenhlanganisela. Lona umkhosi oqinile, owodwa, ofanele kuphela ubuhle obude obude. Kusihlwa, ngaphambi kokuqala komkhosi, udinga ukugqoka igumbi lokulala elide futhi uhlale embhedeni. Khona-ke, lapho ubheka ngaphandle kwefasitela enyangeni, qala ukuhlamba izinwele zakho ngekhefu lezinkuni uphinde uziphindiselele: "Ngokujulile-ungene emzimbeni, yiza kimi endleleni yenyanga , ubheke izinwele zami bese ubonisa ubuso bami . " Ngemuva kwalokho, kufanele ulale futhi izinwele zakho zivuleke, bese ubeka izinwele ezinhlokweni noma ngaphansi komcamelo.
Izindlela ezilula zokubona umyeni wesikhathi esizayo ephusheni
NgoLwesine ngaphambi kokulala, udinga ukuthatha umshanelo, udonsa amahlumela ambalwa, ugibele ibhuloho bese uwabeka etafuleni ekhanda lombhede. Ngaphansi kwebhuloho udinga ukubeka ipuleti yamanzi. Khona-ke kubalulekile ukulala, ukuhlekisana ngaphambi kokulala: "I-betrothed-mummer, woza, ungithumelele ngebhuloho".
Uma intombazane ifuna ukufunda indlela yokumbona umyeni wayo wesikhathi esizayo ephusheni, kodwa engafuni ukugcina amasiko ayingqayizivele, kumele athenge ipakethe yamakhadi, akhethe amakhosi amane kuye futhi abeke ngaphansi komcamelo ngaphambi kokulala. Futhi noma ngabe isithombe esiphupho asiqondakali, intombazane izokwazi ukubona umbala wezinwele zomkhwenyana, ngoba uzovela ngesimo somunye wamakhosi.