Uma sinikeza incazelo elula yegama elithi "ukungqubuzana", singakwazi kalula ukuveza okusemqoka kula magama alandelayo. Ukungqubuzana lapho umuntu ohlanganyele (umhlaseli) enza izinyathelo ngamabomu ngokumelene nomunye, futhi okwesibili, uyaqaphela ukuthi umhlaseli usebenza ngokulimaza kwakhe. Ngenxa yalokho, umhlanganyeli wesibili (umphikisi) uthatha izinyathelo zakhe zokwenza umonakalo kumhlaseli.
Ukubaluleka nokulimala kwale mpikiswano kwakuphikisana kusukela ngaleso sikhathi lapho lo mqondo uhlelwe khona. Ukuze siqonde kangcono imvelo yayo ejwayelekile, sizocabangela ukungqubuzana ngokuningiliziwe ezigabeni zentuthuko.
Ukulungiselela
Isigaba sokuqala ekuthuthukiseni ukungqubuzana komphakathi ukuqoqwa kwemibandela ye "ukuqhuma" kwayo.
Isibonelo:
- izinkinga zokuxhumana - lapho ukuhlangana kungatholi ukuqonda okufanayo;
- izici zendawo yomsebenzi - isitayela sobuholi bobuholi;
- izimfanelo zomuntu siqu zabasebenzi.
Ukungqubuzana emoyeni
Isigaba sesibili esiyinhloko ekuthuthukisweni kwengxabano kuyisimo sokungqubuzana, ukungafuni, ukuhlukumezeka emoyeni weqembu elisebenzayo. Bonke abahlanganyeli sebevele bazi ukuthi maduzane kukhona okuzokwenzeka.
Vula ukungqubuzana
Isigaba sesithathu empeleni, ingxabano ngokwayo. Isigaba sokuvuleka kokuthuthukiswa kwalolu daba sibonakala ngezindlela zokuxazulula inkinga , isitayela sezenzo zabathintekayo empini:
- Ukungqubuzana ukwaneliseka kwezithakazelo zakho siqu, naphezu kokuthi lokhu kuzobathinta kanjani abanye;
- ukwehlisa - inhloso yokudela ingxenye yezintshisekelo zabo egameni lamanye amaqembu ekuxabaneni;
- ukubambisana - izinhlangothi zombili zizama ukugcwalisa izithakazelo zomunye nomunye;
- ukujwayela ukulinganisa ukukhathalela komuntu uma kuqhathaniswa nezithakazelo zomphikisi;
- ukungazinaki ukuxabana - amaqembu azenza sengathi akukho lutho olwenzekayo, ukuzama ukugwema ukuxabana nabaphikisi.
Esigabeni sesine, abahlanganyeli bahlanganyela ekusungulweni kwamaqhinga, okwamkelwa esigabeni sesithathu.
Umphumela
Isigaba sesishiyagalolunye ekuthuthukiseni impikiswano sibonakala ngezithelo
Ukucabangela ukuthi kuze kube yiminyaka ye-1940 le mpikiswano yayibhekwa njengento eyingozi futhi engamukeleki esimweni sokusebenza, futhi emva kweminyaka engu-40 no-70-ithuluzi elihle kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni nasekukhona kweqembu elisebenzayo, namhlanje asikwazi ukuphendula ngalombuzo lo mbuzo . Kungenzeka ukuthi kudingekile ukwahlulela usizo noma ubuhlungu bokungqubuzana ngemuva kokunqotshwa, lapho izisulu kanye nokulahlekelwa kubalwa, futhi ukuthengwa sekufingqiwe.