Emphakathini wanamuhla, umfowethu nodadewethu abashadi, ngisho nomzala womzala womuntu angase alahlwe, kunokuba avunyelwe. Futhi uthando lothando phakathi kukababa nendodakazi noma umama nendodana kuyisibopho sobugebengu nesono. Kodwa isihloko sobudlelwane obuseduze nabangavamile abufanele.
Kusho ukuthini ukuthatha inzalo?
Ukuze unqume ukuthi yikuphi okufakiwe, kudingeka uphendule ku-etymology yegama. Leli gama livela egameni lesiLatini elithi incestus, elisho "isono, ubugebengu". Futhi ukuhlolisana ubuhlobo bobulili phakathi kwezihlobo eziseduze:
- abazali kanye nezingane;
- bazalwane nodadewethu;
- omalume / u-ununts kanye namantombazane / umshana.
Okusho ukuthi, ukudlwengula kuyinto ubudlelwane bobulili phakathi kwezihlobo, okuyinto eyisono kanye nobugebengu. Ngempela, i-taboo kwi-incest iyonke yonke imiphakathi. Kodwa-ke, umqondo wokuzihlanganisa emasikweni ahlukene ungahluka:
- E-Taiwan, eChina, eNyakatho naseNingizimu Korea, imishado phakathi kozala nomdadewethu ayavunyelwe.
- E-UK, isifiso sabazala bomshado ukuphetha inyunyana yomndeni ngeke ihlangabezane nezithiyo.
- I-Kazakhs inomthetho ovimbela ukuxhumana nezihlobo kuze kube sesizwe sesi-7.
I-Incest - kwengqondo
Ngombono we-psychoanalysis, ukuthuthukiswa kocansi kwezingane ezineminyaka engama-3 kuya kwemihlanu kubonakala izifiso ezimbi zabazali bobulili obuhlukile. USigmund Freud wanikeza lezi zifiso amagama angokwengqondo ezinkathazweni zasendulo zamaGreki:
- I-Oedipus complex . Abafana abancane bathola ukunamathiselwa kocansi kunina, futhi obaba, abakubona njengabaphikisana nabo, bayabutha. Ngokubunjwa kwengqondo evamile yobuntu, ukwesaba ukuphindiselelwa ngubaba, othatha uhlobo lokukhathazeka kwe-castration, kubangela ukuba umfana akhiphe izifiso zakhe ezingavunyelwe.
- Electra Complex . Amantombazane asebancane akhanga uyise, futhi umama ubonakala sengathi uyingozi.
Izizathu zokungenisa izihlobo
Eqinisweni elishaya abesifazane ukuba bahlanganyele nabayeni, iningi labama-psychologists lizama ukuliqonda. Bafunda izici zomlando, zamasiko, zokuziphatha nezifuzo zalesi simo. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi ukushada komzimba ezikhathini zasendulo kwakungeyona into enjalo. Futhi eGibhithe lasendulo, ama -harahara ayexhumana nabomama, odade kanye namadodakazi kuphela ukuze balondoloze "ukungcola komndeni."
Abantu abaningi abadumile babe nemishado ehlobene:
- Umlobi uJohn Sebastian Bach wayeshade nomzala wakhe uMaria Barbara Bach.
- Umlobi wendabuko edumile yokuziphendukela kwemvelo uCharles Darwin wayeshade nomzala wakhe u-Emma Wedgwood.
- Umlobi u-Edgar Allan Poe wathatha umzala wakhe oneminyaka engu-13 ubudala, uVirginia Klemm.
Kodwa imbangela eyinhloko ye-incest kuyinto engumphumela we-pathological wokuphazanyiswa okuthile ekuthuthukisweni kwengqondo nokuthuthukiswa komphakathi. Ukukhubazeka okuthuthukiswayo akukwazi ukugcina izingane ezivela e-Oedipus nase -Electra complex . Nakuba ngokuvamile izingane zibhekene nobudlova obungenangqondo ngabazali bazo:
- Indoda ingangena ocansini nendodakazi yakhe uma umfazi ematasa kakhulu, emnika isikhathi esincane noma kuzo zonke izinguquko, njengokuphindisela. Umbuzo uwukuthi, kungani engaphumi nayo? Lapha kudlala isici esithile sezengqondo - isifiso sokucindezela nokungahlangabezane nokumelana, okungukuthi ukwanelise ngokuhlangana nomntwana.
- Owesifazane uvame ukuzwa ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa indodana yakhe, "ukunikeza" omunye wesifazane wakhe, owamqhubela ukuba abe nobuhlobo bobulili naye. Kufana nendlela yokuba nomnikazi.
Ukuxhasana komndeni kwenzeka ngenxa yokulinganisela okungalungile ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabazali, amalungu omndeni nabanye abantu. Isibonelo, ukuthanda kwabazala bomunye nomunye kuchazwe ngokuhlukaniswa kontanga ebuntwaneni nokungafuni ukuvumela ukuphila kwabo kube "okungekho".
Ezinye izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa izimbangela ezintathu eziyinhloko zenyango:
- Ukungaphumeleli ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo.
- Isifiso sokuphulwa kwemigomo, okuhlobene nokusebenza kwengqondo.
- Ubulili bobulili. Ehlanganiswe nezinkinga zesimo socansi, ezitholwe kusencane.
Izinhlobo zohlobo oluthile
Ukushada kwezingane ekhaya kuvame ukuhambisana nobudlova, kodwa futhi ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane obusondelene nabo ngokuvumelana. Kukhona ukungezwani phakathi:
- abadala nabantwana;
- phakathi kwabazalwane nodade;
- okazikazi / omalume nabaphangi / amantombazane;
Iyini ingozi yokulala naye?
Enye yezinto eziwusizo ze-incest taboo ukuthi ukuvinjelwa kwe-incest kunciphisa izigameko zokukhubazeka kokuzalwa kanye nezifo ezibucayi zofuzo. Kuyaziwa kabanzi ukuthi izingane ezivela emndenini zingabalwa kabi, zikhubazekile ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ukusondelana kwezibopho zegazi kubazali, kuphakamisa amathuba okukhulelwa kwesisu, ukukhulelwa okuqhubekayo, noma ukuzalwa kwengane ngokuziphatha kabi. Izakhi zofuzo ezithintekayo eziyingozi ziyingozi kwezifo ezinzulu ezifana nalezi:
- isithulu;
- i-albinism;
- i-hemophilia;
- I-Thea-Sachs isifo (idiocy yezingane).
Imiphumela ye-incest
Ubuhlobo obuseduze kwezihlobo eziseduze abuhambisani nemiphumela emibi njalo. Kodwa usongo lwezinkinga zokubeletha nezifuzo ziyakhula ngempela. Ithuba lokuhlangabeza izakhi zofuzo ezifanayo "ezigulayo" ezivela kubantu abangabazi akuzona ezinkulu, ngokungafani nezihlobo eziseduze. Ngakho-ke, odokotela bayenqatshelwe ukudlwengula.
Yini engathandana nabantwana abahlukumezwe ngokocansi ngabazali babo? Lezi yimiphumela:
- ukuthembela kotshwala nezinye izinto ezishintsha ukuqonda;
- ukuthambekela kokuzibulala;
- ukuthuthukiswa kwama-phobias nokucindezeleka ekukhuleni;
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
Kuthiwani uma kwenzeka ukushaywa indiva?
Noma yikuphi ubudlelwane obuthakathaka buwumphumela wokunakekelwa okungaqondakali kwengane noma umama kumntanakho, umphumela wokushintshwa kwemicabango nokuhlukaniswa. Ukungenwa kwemali kubi, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ngobudlova, nazo zonke izinkinga ezibangela ukuthi kunzima ukuzixazulula ngokwabo. Umphumela uba yimpilo yomuntu siqu engaphumeleli nezinkinga zokuzikhethela emphakathini. Ezimweni ezinjalo, usizo lwe-psychotherapist lobuchwepheshe lunconywa.
Ukungenelela eBhayibhelini
Ngokuya imiyalo yobuKristu, noma yikuphi ukuphinga kuyisono, futhi ukuzalwa komunye umuntu kuyisono sokungenwa yindlala. Nakuba ngokusho kweBhayibheli, isihlobo esithandana naye emhlabeni sokuqala senziwa ngabantwana baka- Adamu no-Eva . Kodwa njengoba ephoqelelwe, wayengcwele. Kunomunye umlando ovela emiBhalweni Engcwele mayelana nohlobo lwangaphakathi. Ngemva kokubhujiswa kukaNkulunkulu emzini wesono waseSodoma, uLoti namadodakazi akhe amabili basindiswa. Bacabanga ukuthi bonke abantu bafa. Ngemva kokuphuza iwayini likayise, amantombazane ahlangana naye ngokuqhubeka komndeni.
Amabhayisikobho mayelana nokufakiwe
Ukungena emabhayisikobho kuvamile. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuguqulwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi - ngokungenhloso nangokwemvelo. Ezinye ifilimu ezithinta isihloko sokuxhumana okuseduze phakathi kwezihlobo zegazi ngandlela-thile:
- Umuthi uvela empilweni . Le ifilimu ivela kumqondisi wePirates yamaCaribbean, iNtaba iVerbinsky. Wafika ekuqashweni kwezwe ngo-2017. I-thriller yama-Mystic, ezenza izenzo zeSanatorium eSwitzerland phakathi kwamazwe amahle kakhulu, ihlala isongela wonke amahora amabili nesigamu.
- Indlu lapho bathi Yebo . Umqondisi waseMelika uMark Waters udwebe i-movie mayelana nendawo lapho kungcolile ukuthi "cha." Igama lisikisela ...
- Bliss . I-melodrama ebonakalayo evela kuLance Young ikhuluma ngomdlalo ojabulisayo wezocansi wabalingiswa abakhulu.
- Oldboy . Isithombe esaziwayo saseNingizimu Korea sasePak Chang-po esingaziwa kakhulu ngezingxenye zomculi, idrama nomsasazo ngeke kushiye noma ubani ongenandaba.
- 2:37 . Idrama yomqondisi wase-Australia uMurally K. Tallouri mayelana nentsha eyisithupha, izinkinga zabo nobuhlobo babo.