"Hhayi, futhi, ukubola kwamanzi kuye kwaphela" - umyeni uzokutshela okhethiweyo wakhe, owaqala ukukhala izinyembezi futhi, ngokusobala ngenxa yesizathu esicacile. Yingakho abesifazane bekhala, futhi amadoda nje ahlehliswa ngalokhu? Ungase ucabange ukuthi senza izinyembezi ngenjabulo yethu! "Owesifazane oqinile uyakhala ewindini" - ngakho-ke lapho ehlabelela A. Pugacheva. Futhi sasivame ukubheka izinyembezi njengobonakaliso obuthakathaka, kodwa kunjalo njalo?
Kungani abesifazane bekhala?
- Kusukela ebuntwaneni sesizwile isipho sokukhala, uma kukhona okubi, kubonakala kulula emva kwalokho. Futhi kuyiqiniso, emva kokugeleza kwezinyembezi kuphelile, kusukela emphefumulweni njengokungathi ingxenye yomthwalo isusiwe. Izenzo ezinjalo zokukhala izinyembezi zihlelwe ngokomzimba - kanye nawo amaqabunga e-hormone okucindezeleka, akhululwa ngaphansi kokuphazamiseka okuqinile kwezinhlobo ezahlukene. Yingakho abesifazane bekhala ngenxa yosizi nenjabulo.
- Owesifazane ukhalela ngamandla ... Yebo, kusukela kulokho oye wacabanga ukuthi le nkosikazi iyakhala ngoba kukhona into embi eyenziwe kuye! Noma yikuphi okufanayo, abesifazane bangakhalela izizathu ezihluke kakhulu, futhi kusukela ekukhathazeni lokho. Ubulili obuhle nje ngokwemvelo bunzima kakhulu. Ngakho-ke umyalo othi owesifazane ungumgcini wendlu, okukhathazeka ngomyeni wakhe nezingane, akukho lutho olungamshiya engenandaba. Futhi uma umuntu eqoqa ngomoya ozolile amaqabunga ephukile ephukile nge-violets futhi ephonsa udoti namaqabunga aphukile, lo wesifazane uzozizwa ngisho nangenxa yobuncane obunjalo.
- Kungani abesifazane bekhala, futhi abantu abakwazi ukuqonda isizathu? Futhi ngoba abesifazane bane-hormone yeprolactin, okubangela ukunikezwa kwezinyembezi. Emadodeni, kukhona i-testosterone, engavumeli ukuqoqwa kwezinhlanzi ezinyembezi.
- Abesifazane abanamandla nabo bayakhala. Futhi uyazi ukuthi kungani? Ngoba wonke owesifazane unamandla amakhulu kangangokuthi akekho umgijimi oye waphupha. Kulula nje, leli gunya linemvelo ehlukile, isisekelo sayo sisekudalweni. Futhi uma kungekho lutho olwakhiwayo, nesithakazelo njengoba ufuna, amandla angenawo amandla aphuma ngezinyembezi.
- Futhi owesifazane oqinile uyakhala, efuna ukuvumela indoda enomzimba okhuni ukuba ikwazi iphutha lakhe. Phikisana futhi ufunge ngesidalwa esingenhla, sinzima kakhulu futhi unamandla kunokwakho, kodwa ukukhala, ungamenza acabange. Kuphela ukuhlukunyezwa akudingekile - akekho ozophendulela izinyembezi zokukhala.
Njengoba sibona izinyembezi - lokhu akusibuthakathaka, kodwa enye indlela enamandla yokuzivikela evumela ukuthi ungadabuki kusuka ekuzweleni okukhulu kuya emasontweni ahlukene epilo.