Indlela yokuphila yethu, njengombuso, ifakwe ngemibala emibili - emnyama nomhlophe . Uma sihamba emgqeni omhlophe, impilo ibonakala kumathoni aqhakazile, agcwele, kodwa uma iphenduka emnyama, abantu abaningi behlehlisa izandla, bakhothamise amakhanda futhi bavume ukuthi abafuni nje ukuqhubeka ... Angifuni ukuhlala.
Namuhla sizokutshela ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma izinto zihamba kahle nokuthi maduzane kanjani ukuphuma ebhentshini elimnyama bese ubuyela ezweni elihle lembala nemibala ekhanyayo.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma kubonakala sengathi konke kubi?
- Khumbula ukuthi imicabango iyimpahla. Ukucabanga ngokubi uheha izinto ezimbi, ezingenabuhlungu nezingenabuhlungu empilweni yakho, uyazifuna? Uma ufuna konke kube kuhle, kufanele ucabange kahle. Shintsha imicabango yakho, futhi izwe elizungezile lizoshintsha.
- Ezemidlalo ngumuthi omuhle kakhulu! Njengoba bethi "emzimbeni onempilo - umoya othokozayo." Ngena ngemvume ehholo, ngena ukuze udansa, ugijima ... yebo, noma yini! Into eyinhloko akumele uhlale ungenzi lutho. Imisebenzi yezemidlalo inecala ngesimo sengqondo esihle futhi ikuvumela ukuba uzizwe unhle futhi ulungile. Yini enye edingekayo ukuze injabulo kubamele abengxenye engcono yabantu, ngaphandle komzimba omuhle nokugqama okunempilo.
- Ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana kanye nokuxhumana. Ingabe ufuna ukuvala ngaphakathi kwakho futhi ungavumeli noma ubani esikhala sakho siqu? Qonda, lena indlela engafanele. Uma ikati ihlambalaza emphefumulweni futhi kubonakala sengathi impilo iphelile, into esemqoka ukusekelwa kwezihlobo nabangane. Manje ukukhulumisana kuyadingeka ukuthi ungathandi nanini ngaphambili.
- Ungazigcini konke. Ufuna ukukhala - ukhale! Ufuna ukumemeza - ukhuphukela entabeni bese umemeza ukuthi kukhona umchamo. Imizwelo efihlekile iphenduka izifo ezinzima ezingokwengqondo, kungcono ukuwachitha futhi ungacabangi ngemibono yabantu abakuzungezile.
- Ungesabi ukucela usizo. Ngezinye izikhathi sikhathele kakhulu ngobunzima bokuphila nokuphila, futhi sonke sasize sasiza
kudingekile nje. Unganqikazi ukucela ukukusiza, usizo olufika ngesikhathi nokusekelwa ngezinye izikhathi kusiza ukuphuma ekucindezelekeni. - Ungagijimi ezinkingeni. Ukulutha kwezidakamizwa, ukubhema nokuphuza akuyona inketho. Lezi zindlela azixazulula le nkinga, kodwa kulula ukulimaza kakhulu impilo.
Ungavumeli ukucindezeleka kuthathe wena. Lahla umuzwa wokulangazelela bonke, okutholakala kuwe, izindlela. Hambisa, uthuthuke, ujabulele! Ukuphila kwethu kuyamangalisa futhi kuyathandeka futhi kuyichitha yedwa , ukukhononda ngokuthi konke kubi, okungenani, akufanele.