Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuqhathanisa kuyithuluzi elikhulu. Ekuphileni, kaningi into eqhathaniswayo: imishini yasendlini, imikhiqizo, njll. Lokhu konke kwenza umuntu akwazi ukwenza kahle. Kodwa, uziyeka kanjani ukuqhathanisa nabanye abantu? Kungani abantu abaningi kangaka benza futhi kunjalo?
Ungakuyeka kanjani ukuziqhathanisa nomuntu nokuthi kungani sikwenza lokho?
Uma ngamunye wethu ehlelwa ebuntwaneni, kuyacaca ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi abantu abaseduze benza amaphutha amabi kakhulu - baqhathanisa nathi nezinye izingane, wabeka umuntu njengesibonelo. Kodwa, kuphutha ngokuphelele! Ngesikhathi ebuntwaneni, wonke umuntu waqonda ukuthi angeke abe njengomunye, ngoba wayenamathalenta ahluke ngokuphelele, kodwa kwakunzima ukuchaza kumuntu omdala, kanti ingane ayiqondi ukuthi ingayenza kanjani.
Abaningi kakade sebekhulile abazi ukuthi bangaqala kanjani ukuziqaphela nokuthi bangayeka kanjani ukuziqhathanisa nabanye futhi bayeke ukuhawukela impumelelo yabanye, uma ungakwazi ukufeza konke wena ngokwakho.
Futhi yimuphi umphumela?
Umuntu omdala ubonisa ngokuqondile ubuntwana bakhe. Umkhuba onjalo wengane wokufanisa uletha ukudumazeka kuphela, intukuthelo futhi akekho odinga ukucindezeleka . Uma kwenzeka umuntu ebhekene nenqwaba yezinkinga, ke, ngokwemvelo, ufuna ngempela ukuthola isizathu salokhu konke. Yiqiniso, kubi kakhulu ukuthi umuntu omdala akaqondi ukuthi angayeka kanjani ukuziqhathanisa nabanye, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo abheka impumelelo engcono, engcono futhi ephakeme.
Ukuqhathanisa nawe
Abaningi besifazane babhekana nenkinga intombazane noma umakhelwane abanengubo engcono, unenhlakanipho noma unomsebenzi ohloniphekile. Kodwa, ungayeka kanjani ukuqhathanisa nabanye besifazane futhi uhlale phezu kwabo? Into kuphela okudingeka yenziwe ukuzitholela ngokwakho izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu ezingenalo abanye.
Ngokwemvelo, wonke umuntu usekude kakhulu nokuphelela, kodwa ukuqhathaniswa kufanele kwenziwe kuphela ngezolo futhi kuphela. Njalo kusihlwa ungacabanga ukuthi usuku luhambe kanjani. Kubalulekile futhi ukubheka izimfanelo ezinhle ezizibonakalise futhi ngaleyo ndlela zithuthukise nsuku zonke.