Izimo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila, ukucindezeleka kanye nezifo, konke lokhu kuyathinta kabi isimo somphefumulo womuntu. Izinkinga eziqoqiwe unyaka nonyaka zakha umthwalo ongabonakali ophazamisa ukuphila okujabulisayo nokuthula. Yingakho abaningi badinga ukuphulukiswa karmic komphefumulo nomzimba. Kufanele ukuphawula iphutha elivamile, ngoba abaningi bathembela ngesikhathi, okuzosiza ukukhohlwa futhi "ukuphulukisa", kodwa akunjalo.
Ukuphiliswa komphefumulo nomzimba kanjani?
Ukuxhumana phakathi komphefumulo nomzimba sekuye kwafakazelwa futhi umuntu akanakuphilile uma izinkumbulo ezingathandeki, ukucasuka nezinye imizwelo zidla ngaphakathi kuye. Kukhona ngisho netafula elithile elibonisa ubuhlobo bezizwelo nezifo. Lokhu ngeke kusetshenziswe njengesisekelo, ngoba bonke abantu bodwa. Uthando nokuhlakanipha kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphulukiseni umphefumulo. Ngokuvamile, kunezindlela eziningi ezahlukene ezikuvumela ukuba ubuyele esimweni esivamile nesisimeme. Ake sicabangele enye yazo.
I-Technique "Ukuguqulwa kwesithombe"
Njenganoma iyiphi enye inkinga, udinga ukuqala ngokunquma imbangela, futhi kungenzeka kube neziningana. Yiba nesimo esihle, phumula futhi uqale ucabange ngesifo noma inkinga ekhona. Zibuze umbuzo:
"Yini eyabangela lesi sifo?"
. Isithombe sokuqala esiza engqondweni futhi yimpendulo efanele. Ukuze ukuphulukiswa komphefumulo kudlule, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngendlela engqondweni ukuthi le nkinga icindezelwa kanjani futhi ekugcineni ihlakazeke ngokuphelele.Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukudala isithombe sempilo. Udinga ukuzicabangela esikhathini esizayo umuntu ojabulayo ngaphandle kwezinkinga nezifo. Isithombe kufanele sibe nenembile ngangokunokwenzeka futhi isethwe njengomhlahlandlela. Manje udinga ukufaka esikhundleni sesibangela sesifo ngesimo esinempilo. Le nqubo kufanele ibe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ake ucabange ukuthi umzimba ugwinya kanjani futhi ukhanyisa ukushisa. Phinda konke izikhathi ezingaba ngu-5. Manje kudingeke wenze ukuhlolwa okuthile, bese uzama ukukhumbula futhi ucabange isithombe se-causal. Uma konke kwenziwe kahle, ngeke kusebenze. Ekupheleni kokuphulukisa, udinga ukuzama futhi ukukhumbula ngesifo sakho, kaningi akusebenzi noma isithombe sibonakala sihluke kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi indlela efanele ikhethiwe. Kunconywa ukuthi usebenzise le nqubo njalo kuze kube yilapho inkinga iphela.