Igama elithi "snobbery" alitholakali enkulumweni yanamuhla njalo, kodwa into echaza ngayo ingatholakala kunoma imuphi umphakathi. USobob uzibheka njengomphakeme kwabanye ngenxa yokuba ngumndeni wakhe okhethekile, okuhlangene. Ukholelwa ukuthi ufanelwe ukuhlonishwa, nakuba empeleni ukuziqhenya, ukuziqhenya nokuzikhukhumeza kwe-snob kududuza abantu kude naye futhi kubangele ukucasuka.
Snobbery - kuyini?
Ukuzindla ngalokhu, i-snobbery - ukuthi kuyini, umuntu kufanele aphenduke ku-etymology yaleli gama. Ngokuphathelene nomsuka wegama elithi "snobbery" kunezinguqulo ezahlukene, kodwa zonke zipheka phansi ukuthi omunye umuntu uzibeka ngaphezu kwamanye. Esikhatsini lesichazamazwi leli gama lalisungulwa eminyakeni engama-18-19, lapho bethi le snobbery isifiso sokuba ngumphakathi ophakeme. Futhi i-snob yayivame ukuvela ezigabeni ezilula zabantu, kodwa ngazo zonke izindlela kungenzeka zazama ukubizwa ngokuthi indoda evela emibuthanweni ephakeme kakhulu.
I-Snobbery ingabhekwa njengezinga labantu abazungezile. Kuye ngesigaba esabelwe umuntu, i-snob ikhetha indlela yokuxhumana naye. Ukukhulumisana kwakhe kuyakhethi: indlela engavumelani nalabo abangaphansi kwesigaba, futhi ehambisana nalabo abasembindeni abafuna ukungena nabo. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ingahlanganiswa nokungacabangi nokungafaneleki maqondana nabantu abakuzungezile.
I-Snobbery ingathuthuka kwenye yezinhlaka noma ihlanganise ubunzima:
- i-snestbery yokuzijabulisa;
- snobbery yengqondo;
- ukuqhuma kwabantu abacebile;
- i-snobbery yobuchwepheshe.
I-snobbery ye-aesthetic - iyini?
Ngenxa yobuchwepheshe babo, abantu bezobuciko babhekwa ngokuhlelwa kwesibindi. Bazibona behlakaniphile, behlakaniphile futhi befundisiwe, kunokuba abamele ezinye izisebenzi. Ngenxa yalokho, kukhona ungqimba olukhethekile lomphakathi, olubizwa ngokuthi i-snobbery futhi luhlangene nokugula kwe-stellar . Umphumela we-snobbery yiyona imbangela yokuzalwa kwamanga, ukuziqhenya nokuzethemba ekuphakameni kwayo.
Izimbangela ze-snobbery
Kunezizathu ezihlukahlukene zokwenzeka kwe-snobbery:
- umndeni lapho yonke into yayihlanganiswe ne-snobbery;
- I-snobbery yesifundazwe ingakhula isifiso sokubalekela endaweni "emzaneni";
- ithonya elihlangene emsebenzini;
- ubugovu, lapho umuntu engaboni imizwa nezifiso zabanye abantu;
- ukunciphisa nokuqina kokucabanga, ngenxa yalokho i-snob ibheka kuphela ukuziphatha okuthile kanye nezici zobuntu ukuba zilungile futhi zibalulekile;
- kuncike ekuzihloniphekeni, okuyinto umuntu azama ukukhokha ngokukhuphula okwenziwe ngesimo sakhe nokuhlazeka kwabanye.
I-Snobbery yizibonakaliso
USobob ungumuntu ozibheka njengento ehlukile futhi efanelwe inhlonipho enkulu kunabanye, ngakho-ke izibonakaliso ezinkulu ze-snob ziyizi:
- izimo zengqondo ezihlukene kubantu abangezigaba ezahlukene;
- ukukhwabanisa okukhulu;
- ukuqiniseka ukuthi iphuzu lakhe lokubheka kuphela elilungile kakhulu;
- Unganaki abantu abangahambisani nemibono nezinga lobuhlakani le-snob;
- ukuzibeka emndenini okhethekile, abahlakaniphileyo abahlakaniphile, ukhilimu womphakathi;
- Ukungaqiniseki ezinkingeni zabanye kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho;
- ukuzethemba okukhulu.
Snobbery - okuhle noma kubi?
I-Snobbery ingumqondo ongaqondakali, kodwa izazi zezenhlalo zilokhu zithatha ukuveza ukuthi izinto ezimbi zenzeke emphakathini. Ngokusho kwengqondo, i-snobs yilabo bantu abanemvono ebonakalayo ebonakalayo. Bathanda ukuzungezile ngezinto ezinhle kanye nabantu abalungile. Bazizwa bebukeka behle ubuhle bemvelo, njengokuvakashela iminyuziyamu, ukufunda izincwadi zobuciko, ukuya emabhayisikobho. Abathandi ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle, ukukhwabanisa, izitayela ezingahlelekile, ubuciko obuphansi bebanga. Loluhlangothi oluhle lwe-snobbery, kodwa luholela emiphumeleni emibi.
I-Snobs ihlukanisa ngokwabo esiklasini esikhethekile, esikhethekile emphakathini. Ngokuzicabangela ukuthi bangabalingani, bonke labo abangahambisani nemibono yabo, bangafaka noma yini. Abanye abantu kubo bangabantu abahamba ngesilinganiso sesibili, abangenanzuzo futhi abangafaneleki ukunakwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ama-snobs aphikisana nayo yonke into entsha, engeyona ejwayelekile, engeyona yendabuko. Batshela ukuthi isiko langeklasi kuphela kanye namasiko alamukeleke kakhulu kufanele alandelwe umuntu ofundisiwe. Nakuba bona bengenalo ulwazi lwangempela emkhakheni wezamasiko.
Snobbery nobuzenzisi
I-Snob ne-prude kukhona imiqondo emibili ehlukile. Badidekile omunye nomunye ngesizathu sokuthi kokubili owokuqala nowesibili bazicabangela ngaphezu kwamanye futhi babuke abanye ngokungafuni. Uma kungenjalo, le mibono ihlukanisa. USobob ukholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi ungcono kunabanye, ukuziphatha okuhlanzekile nokunye okukhuliswe. Ufuna ukuxhumana kuphela nomusa wakhe futhi uzama ukuhlangabezana namazinga abo.
Ngokungafani ne-snob, i-prude ayinayo izindinganiso ezithile. Izimfuno zakhe zihlobene nabanye abantu abafuna ukufundisa ukuphila, ubeka imibono kubo. U-Hanja uyindoda ebhekene nambili enezindinganiso ezimbili. Akaboni amaphutha akhe, kodwa njalo uyaqaphela ukuqonda nezono zabanye. Ufundisa abantu abazungezile, ezama ukuzibonakalisa yena nabanye ngokungahambi kwakhe, ulwazi noma ukuthanda okuphezulu.