Ubisi lomama nesifuba kuwuphawu lokuhlanzeka nokuzala, ngoba, mhlawumbe, akekho umuntu onjalo onomama wokuncelisa ukuxubana nokuthile okubi. Ukubona amaphupho anjalo - 90% athembisa okuhle. Futhi, njengoba sicabanga ukuthi sonke siba yizinkolelo-ze nabalandeli bezincwadi zephupho, kuphela lapho kunethemba lokuhumusha okuhle, lungela, uthathe amanothi! Kulesi sihloko, incwadi yethu yokuphupha izohlotshaniswa namaphupho lapho ubone ubisi lwebele.
Iyini iphupho lebisi labesifazane?
Mhlawumbe, icala elilodwa lapho kungekho sidingo sokuchaza ukuthi yini amaphupho ayenayo mayelana nokunciphisa ubisi yiphupho lomama onesihlengikazi. Uma kunjalo, kuzomele uqonde ukuthi wena, kokubili empeleni nasebusuku, uzibandakanya emicabangweni yokunakekela ingane yakho, ngakho-ke leli phupho livele libonise iqiniso lakho, noma kunjalo, lihle.
Uma sikhuluma ngobisi lwebele, sinomfazi osekhulile okhulelwe isikhathi eside, ukhuluma ngamakhono akhe amakhulu, okuthi, ngenxa yobudala, ahlonishwa kokubili ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Futhi, ngezindlela eziningi kusezinkonzweni - kungaholela iqembu futhi "londle" isizukulwane esisha sochwepheshe. Abesifazane abanjalo bafuna ukufisa inhlanhla nokholo ngokwabo - ngoba emva kokuba bakholwe ekuqinisweni kokubikezelwa okunjalo, ungayisebenzisa ngempela.
Icala eliphikisayo - uma ngiphupha ubisi oluningi lwebele, intombazane engenamntwana. Amaphupho athembisa ukugcwaliswa kokuqala - azikho izibonakaliso zomzimba zokukhulelwa okwamanje, mhlawumbe akekho ngisho nomuntu ozobhalwa ngumzali, kepha ingqondo yakho engacabangi isivele isilungele. Futhi lokhu kuyisiqinisekiso esingu-100% sokuthi ngokushesha futhi ozobhapathizwa nezibonakaliso uzovela.
Into ethakazelisayo - uma ubisi lwebele kanye nenqubo yokuveza iphupho lomuntu. Abanye ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi kufanele abuze intombi yakhe ukuthi ulindele umntwana - mhlawumbe akazizi, noma mhlawumbe uyesaba futhi akwazi
Usho ukuthini ubisi lomama mayelana nokuhumusha okungalungile
Zonke izinhla ezingenhla zilungile futhi zithembekile ekuchazeni, ngenkathi ephusheni lakho kukhona ubisi olusha, oluhlanzekile. Uma ubisi lungcolile, futhi bubi kakhulu, ngegazi, izinkinga ziqala ...
Ngokuyinhloko, ubisi lomama lubonisa isimo esinqabile esiholela emphakathini wesifazane okhuthele kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukubhekwa kobisi ngokuzwa okubuhlungu negazi kusho ukuthi isikhundla senkosikazi ephuphayo siyozanyazanyiswa. Iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukudideka empilweni yomndeni, ushintsho olubi emkhakheni webhizinisi, nokuphumula kuzo zonke izinhlelo zakho.
Uma uthola igazi elingaphezulu ephusheni, uqinisa ubuhlungu, uphakamise amathuba okugula okuqala futhi okubi kakhulu. Futhi, njengoba owesifazane ephusheni elinjalo-njengokungathi, unesibopho kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni wakhe, lesi sifo asikwazi ukumthinta, kodwa amalungu omndeni.