Cishe wonke umuntu owake wathi empilweni yakhe, "Owesifazane ushayela njenge-monkey nge-grenade," futhi uyakhumbula "ingqondo yesifazane". Abesifazane bacasulwa, ngoba lokhu akusilo iqiniso, kodwa nje umlingisi wesilisa kanye namahlaya angaphumelelanga. "Ubulili obuthakathaka" bulawulwa ngemoto akukho okubi nakakhulu kunokuba lube namandla, kodwa namanje kunezici eziningana ezinikeza ilungelo lokuvela amahlaya ahlukene.
Imvelo yowesifazane
Ngokwemvelo, indoda nowesifazane bahlukile, okuthinta ngokuqondile isitayela sokushayela:
- Umehluko wokuqala uyibona. Owesifazane ungumbono ongcono wokuthuthukiswa kombono, uthatha yonke imiyalezo ye-nuances nemininingwane encane, lapho amadoda angayinaki nhlobo. Kwabesifazane abathile, umbono wesiphambano ufinyelela kuma-degree angu-180. Ngenxa yalokhu, owesifazane ogudini angaphazanyiswa yizo zonke izinto ezincane azibona ezinhlangothini. "Ubulili obunamandla" bunombono othuthukisiwe wombono, okungukuthi, bahlola lokho abakubonayo ngaphambili. Ukuze ufunde lokhu, owesifazane udinga ukudlula isikhathi, umkhuba omncane futhi konke kuzovela.
- Abesifazane abaziqondisi kahle emkhathini, okubonakalayo ngesikhathi sokupaka.
- Abesifazane, uma beqhathaniswa namadoda, musa ukuzijwayela kahle kakhulu ebumnyameni, ngenxa yalokhu abakwazi ukuhlukanisa ukuthi yikuphi ukushayela imoto ehambayo idonsela kusihlwa.
- Kubonakala ukuthi isinqumo senjazana sihamba kancane kakhulu kunamadoda ngoba lokhu kuvame ukungena engozini. Kunzima futhi abesifazane ukuba bacabange ngokusebenzisa indlela efanele.
- Uma owesifazane ebhekene nokucindezeleka okukhulu ngokomzwelo, angase awele "kwi-stupor", ngenxa yalokhu, futhi kwakukhona inkolelo yokuthi ngengozi owesifazane uphonsa isondo bese evala amehlo akhe ngezandla zakhe.
Ukulingana
Bonke abesifazane bafuna ukubonakala ngemuva kwesondo njengamadoda. Kodwa isigamu esiqinile sabantu asifuni ukubekezelela lokhu, ngoba owesifazane akufanele aphathe noma yini ekuphileni, ngisho nemoto evamile. Lokhu kuthinta abafazi ngokwabo, njengoba bejwayele ukuphathwa futhi ngakho-ke kufanele bajwayele indima entsha.
Isici somuntu
Umbono omubi wamadoda unethonya elinamandla kuwo wonke owesifazane ohlala ngemuva kwesondo lemoto. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukufunda ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani umshini ngokwakho, bese wenqaba usizo lomuntu ozohlala eduze kwakhe futhi abonise ukuthi kufanele akwenze.
Uma unethuba lokuthenga imoto yakho, futhi ungamceli kumyeni wakho, khona-ke yenzeni, ngoba kubo imoto ingcebo engafuni ukwabelana ngayo.
Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi emgwaqweni uzohlangana namadoda angeke ajabule. Ngisho nangokweqile kancane nokungaqiniseki, uzozwa ungavumi izimpawu zemoto kanye namazwana "wabantu abashayeli". Izenzo ezinjalo zandisa ukwedlula ukucindezeleka okwenzeka yilo wesifazane esiteshini.
Owesifazane ngemuva kwesondo
Naphezu kwakho konke, usuku nosuku abesifazane abaningi-abashayeli bezimoto bavele emigwaqweni. Ngokuya ngobumnene, ukuhlakanipha nokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuhlukaniswa okulandelayo kukhona:
- Ukwaziswa "kwe-Konnail" okushayela ngaphasi kwenyanga. Laba besifazane baqhuba imoto ngokucophelela nangokucophelela,
ayashesha futhi anembile kakhulu. - "I-Caterpillar" inokuhlangenwe nakho kokushayela izinyanga eziyisithupha. Abesifazane abanjalo bahola ngokubheke kakhulu, ngoba bazicabangela abaqeqeshiwe. Akakhathaleli ngemibono yabanye, into eyinhloko ukuthi ukhululekile.
- "Wasp" yinto yokushayela yonyaka. Abesifazane abanjalo baphatha kabi futhi kaningi bengakwazi, ngenxa yabo emgwaqeni zakha izimo eziphuthumayo.
- "I-bee" ihlukile "kokusuka" ngokuzola kwayo. Abesifazane abanjalo bangabashayeli abahle, bayawubheka yonke imithetho, bahambe ngokuthula nangokuziphendulela.