Isici sezinambuzane siyingxoxo ngabantu abanobuciko abazizwa behlukumezekile, bezwa umcimbi ngamunye ngokujulile, bayakwazi ukuzwelana nokubona okunamandla nokuphendula okukhulu. Njengomthetho, bonke abantu abahlukumezayo bayingqondo, izazi zefilosofi, abantu abakhonta ubuciko, izinto ezinhle kanye nezindinganiso ezingunaphakade zomuntu nezendalo.
Izinhlamvu zohlobo "oluncibilikisayo"
Abantu abanjalo banamathele ukucabanga nganoma yini, bazimisele ukuhlaziya, bathanda ukuhlukanisa zonke izinto ezingxenyeni, bahlanganyela "ekuzimbuleni". Njengomthetho, bonke bahlale besengozini kakhulu, futhi igama elibi lingabangela ukuba bangene phakathi kwabo isikhathi eside, bebhekene nokucindezeleka nezinkimbinkimbi. Ukuvimbela lokhu, abantu abanjalo baphoxiswa futhi bangavumeli noma ubani ezweni lawo langaphakathi.
Abantu abaningi abanobuciko bangamahle kakhulu ngemvelo. Unomqondo omuhle webuhle, ukulinganisela nokuvumelana. Esixukwini, isitayela sabo esingenakuqhathaniswa siphumelele. Wonke amazwi omuntu onjalo ucatshangwa futhi alinganiselwe, ngemuva komunye nomunye kunomqondo, abasho lutho olufana nalokhu.
Uma sikhuluma ngezinzuzo nezingozi zezimpawu ezincibilikisayo, ubuhle babo obuyinhloko yikhono lokuzizwa lincane, futhi ukushiya okuyinhloko kuwumkhuba wokuthatha izinto eduze kakhulu nenhliziyo. Eqinisweni, uhlamvu lwabo luyintandokazi, lunikeza amakhono amabili omuhle kakhulu, futhi ngesikhathi esisodwa - isizathu sokuhlangenwe nakho.
Izici zengqondo ze-melancholia
Abantu abanjalo banesimiso sezinzwa ezibuthakathaka, asikwazi ukumelana ngokweqile, ngakho-ke laba bantu bahlala njalo phakathi kwezazi zengqondo, izazi ze-psychotherapists kanye neurologists. Akulungele ukushintshwa, ngoba ayenamathele emvelo - ayenamahloni lapho konke okuzungezile kuyaziwa kahle. Abathandi ukuhamba, ukushintsha ubudlelwane bomthando, noma ngisho nokunyusa izinga lezemisebenzi, ngoba konke lokhu kuholela ekushintsheni ngendlela evamile yokuphila.
Isimo sengqondo sabantu abanjalo siyahlukahluka izikhathi eziningi ngosuku, kodwa ukwazi lesi sici esithile, umuntu onjalo uyovame ukufihla imizwa yabo ngaphakathi. Yilokho okubangela ukuphazamiseka okuhlukahlukene. Ukucasula umuntu onjalo kulula, yingakho kudingekile ukuba ngumcabango omkhulu futhi uqaphele ngaye, ngoba ibinzana elingenakuhlala lihlale phansi isikhathi eside ngaphakathi, emphefumulweni womuntu onjalo, futhi ulilimaze isikhathi eside.
Ngokuphathelene nobuhlobo, abantu abanjalo basuke bengathandi, bafuna ukukhethwa, bafinyelele, futhi ubuhlobo bubekwe ngokwayo. Benza izidingo eziphezulu kumlingani, okwenza umshado wabo ube nzima.
Ingabe u-melancholic?
Kukhona ukuhlolwa okuningi kwengqondo okukuvumela ukuba unqume ukuthi ungowakho uhlobo oluthile lokuzithoba. Sikunikeza ukuhlolwa okulula, ngombuzo ngamunye owudingayo ukuze uphendule ngokwethembeka ukuthi "yebo" noma "cha".
- Ingabe usolisa futhi uzwela?
- Ingabe kulula ukucasula, ukulimala, ingabe usengozini?
- Ingabe kunzima kuwe ukuvumelanisa nesimo esisha, esingavamile?
- Ingabe ngokuvamile awuqiniseki ngamakhono akho?
- Ingabe uvame ukuamahloni, ingabe unamahloni?
- Ngokuvamile ukhuluma kunokuthula, uma kungenjalo?
- Ingabe uzwela futhi uthanda, uthanda ubuciko?
- Ingabe uzimisele ukwenza izidingo eziphakeme wena nabanye?
- Isizungu asikukhathazi, kodwa awuthandi izinkampani ezinomsindo?
- Noma iyiphi into encane ingaphazamisa isimo sakho sengqondo isikhathi eside?
Uma unezimpendulo ezingu-8 noma ngaphezulu "yebo", u-melancholic. Uma u-5-7 - unezinhlobo eziningi zezici ezincibilikisayo. Kulesi simo, kufanele uhlolwe ngokwengeziwe futhi ubheke izimo ezixubeneyo: isibonelo, isici se-choleric noma se-phlegmatic melancholic. Uma i-1-4 isho ukuthi unesici esibuthakathaka kakhulu.