Umbono onjengokuhlukumeza amazwi emphakathini wanamuhla ujwayelekile. Uma uzihlukanisa ezinxenyeni, ukuhlukunyezwa kuyisimo esibi sezinto ezilimazayo, futhi "amazwi" asho ukuthi kubonakala kulesi sici sengqondo, enkulumweni yokuxhumana kwabantu. Ngakho-ke, lokhu kuyisifiso somuntu oyedwa noma obuningi bokuhlazisa isithunzi, imizwa yabanye. Ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo kungabonakalisa ngesimo sezitatimende ezibucayi, ukulahlwa.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezwi nokungazwili
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwamazwi kukukwenza uzwe uzwela, ucindezelekile, uthukuthele, akukhipha eceleni ukuthi ngeke usheshe wehlise impendulo. Ngakho-ke, udlame lwamazwi ungaluthola futhi ngenxa yomsebenzi ongenasidingo kuwe esitolo. Ngokuvamile ukungezwani komzimba kwenzeka phakathi kwabashadile, abazali nezingane.
I-Nonverbal yichungechunge lwezimpawu ezibonisa isimo sengqondo esinobudlova se-interlocutor yakho. Ngamanye amazwi, ulimi lwezandla lubonisa izinhloso zalezi zamuva mayelana nobuntu bakho.
Ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba nokukhuluma
Ezimweni eziningi, ukubonakaliswa okuvamile kokuzonda ngokomzimba kuvela emadodeni, kanti ukukhuluma kubesifazane. Ngakho-ke, uhlobo lokuqala lobudlova luboniswa ukuhlukunyezwa ngamabomu ngezinhloso ezehlukene, ngokugabisa ngamabomu iminyango yokungena, ukushaya itafula ngokubhekene nendawo yetafula (lezo zibonakaliso aziqondile). Ukuhlukunyezwa okuqondile ngokomzimba kwenzeka lapho kuhlasela umuntu.
Ukukhuluma ngokuqondile ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi, okuvezwa ngaphakathi komuntu, futhi okungaqondile - ngemuva komuntu .
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwamazwi kubantu abasha
Imvamisa yokubonakaliswa kwezici ezinonya ekuziphatheni kwentsha ixhomeke, okokuqala, ukuthi ukukhuliswa kwengane kwaba yiminyaka yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe. Ngokusho kocwaningo, abafana babhekene nokuhlukumeza ngokomzimba nangokwemlomo, kanye namantombazane - ngokuqondile ngamazwi nangokungaqondile (lokho okubhekwayo kubhekwa okuvamile).
Kufanele kugcizelelwe ukuthi ukubonakaliswa okukhulu kakhulu kokuhlukumeza komlomo kutholakala
Indlela yokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi?
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi uyisisulu somhlukumezi, zama ukuzihlanganisa ndawonye futhi ungaphenduli kahle. Lokhu kukhulisa kuphela isimo ngokudala ukungqubuzana okungadingekile. Uma kwenzeka kubonakala sengathi kancane kancane futhi uzohlaselwa ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi, ingqondo uzibeke engxenyeni yeglasi lapho okungalungile komxhumanisi ongathinti khona isimo sakho sokuthula.